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By *orthernsoul38 OP   Man
over a year ago

wigan

How am I supposed to get verified if I can't get a message back to try and get a connection and meet up with some1

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Improve your profile, read & follow profiles and send decent messages.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Get someone to verify you for the fab chatrooms or attend one of the many fab social events, or go to a club

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By *orthernsoul38 OP   Man
over a year ago

wigan

Ok thanks. Feel like I have sent decent messages haha

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By *orthernsoul38 OP   Man
over a year ago

wigan

Oh not been on the chat rooms think I will try that. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By being what the person seeks, sending an engaging message, having a decent profile.

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By *c4funMan
over a year ago

nottingham

More cock pics people love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is almost a daily thread on here now...

You call yourself sexgod, that would put us off initially.

Text speak and poor grammar is a turn off for us too. This isn't the case for everyone.

You've been on for five weeks. It takes some guys up to a year to get a meet. You need to know that single guys are by far the biggest group on Fab. You need to stand out. Send a good face pic, be friendly and the best tactic is being funny.

Go to clubs. Meeting people face to face is better than Fab. Go to socials, they're often posted in the forums. People there will verify you.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Attend one of the club's social events and remember you might not be the only new face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start off a conversation with something completely random, nothing to do with the profile or swinging/sex. Works for me. The reply is normally "Uh"? But it's a foot in the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start off a conversation with something completely random, nothing to do with the profile or swinging/sex. Works for me. The reply is normally "Uh"? But it's a foot in the door."

P.S. make sure the heading is weird yet eye-catching as well.

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By *orthernsoul38 OP   Man
over a year ago

wigan

Ok cheers everyone for there input

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By *94meeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Good luck mate. You are a small fish in a big pond. So many single guys here. It's a full time job getting a meet!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As others said improve your profile, send out messages to those you want to meet and who's profiles you've actually read.

Go to a local club or pop along to local socials to get verified (meets and requests section of the forums)

Mrs

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Best way is emailing Home Office government website

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

Sexgod is going to put a few off for starters.your age range stops at 45 theirs alot of hot 45+ ladies on here.and you haven't put much effort into your bio.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Ok cheers everyone for there input"

With a user name like yours things should be other way around you giving pointers huawe pal

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Use a trail of maltesers back to your home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send dick pics and tell her you will smash her back doors in if she doesn't reply in 30 seconds send a abusive message telling her it's her loss and that she is frigid

I am glad I could help

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By *orthernsoul38 OP   Man
over a year ago

wigan

How do I change my username?

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"How do I change my username?"

You can do that in your Account tab. There is a change username option limited to 4 per year. It might only be available to site supporters though.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"How do I change my username?

You can do that in your Account tab. There is a change username option limited to 4 per year. It might only be available to site supporters though."

He is and only is

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

Not being funny but solo females and couples get bombarded. As stated, you are a very very small fish in a massive ocean.

Singles SELDOM either read your profiles or ignore what you say is an attraction or a repulsion.

As a couple in the older age range, we would not get as many as younger but we just got deluged.

Then we got pissed off because our profile had clearly not been read at all so in the end we put an exclusion filter up.

If we are interested in a solo male, then Sinna will point out his profie or I might approach someone I might think fits her taste.

Your best bet by far is meets/clubs/events because you will be on very slim odds.

Other advice as above too but this is our take on it.

Make it clear you have read profile and a first line comment highlighting a detail you like from their profile is a quick tipping of the hat to the folks you are messaging

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

With the state of fab as it is highly recommend getting to the clubs you will make friends quickly and it sums up how the scene is well unfortunately fab has become a bit overpopulated with people who don't know what swinging is they think it's just notches on their bedposts

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By *acsalMan
over a year ago

Bexley

To be honest you send a nice well informed message on here and it still gets read and rarely anything back, feel some people on here just have no manners

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By *acsalMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Define decent messages as I do that and still don’t make much difference

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts


"More cock pics people love it "

True story

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Are there really so many people that match your preferences that you also match the preferences of that you've got sick of the rejection already?

Strange.

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By *xxblackcatxxxMan
over a year ago

NEWBURY

Decent pictures is the key ,

I have no words as i found a lot on here can’t read

I still come across plenty of time waster not single guys lol , but still have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say a club would win over this any day….no matter the profile or the message unless you are physically what someone is looking for you don’t stand a chance unfortunately!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've only been here 5 weeks.

Most single guys wait up to about a year until they get their first meet.

What were your expectations on joining the site?

That all you need do is knock a few sentences together, upload a couple of pics and be fighting women off with a shitty stick by lunch time?

I'm afraid it doesn't work like that.

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