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Really need to see pix before meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm amazed at the amount of mail I get from people asking me to meet up with them, but don't have a single pic on there profile at all! And when kindly asked they just say "sorry can't show any because of work reasons"

Does any one ever meet people with out seeing there pix?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no we never meet anyone unless we have seen a face pic! thats just asking for trouble isnt it!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

no but with a chest like yours I might just make an exception....

can bring my own bag for your head if its needed

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

No, we'd never meet any one without seeing what they look like - some people get a bit cross with that but that's their problem and not ours! And I have to agree with the above comment, I could make 1 exception!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont meet anyone unless i have seen them on web cam first, pics mean nothing they can be years old and look nothing like them any more, im not into 1 on 1 can sex but before i meet i do insist on cam chat so we can see each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are the same, wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic first!

Also, we won't give out an email address or mobile number for them to send it to, tis easy to upload one and stick it in private.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont meet anyone unless i have seen them on web cam first, pics mean nothing they can be years old and look nothing like them any more, im not into 1 on 1 can sex but before i meet i do insist on cam chat so we can see each other "

Tis why we will only meet peeps away from home to make sure they are the people in the pics first.. and the pics are not from 20 years ago lol.. It does happen!

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met a guy once and he wasnt even the guy in the pics he sent me, thats why i now insist on web cam

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By *rouble and strifeCouple
over a year ago

Nr Glasgow


"I'm amazed at the amount of mail I get from people asking me to meet up with them, but don't have a single pic on there profile at all! And when kindly asked they just say "sorry can't show any because of work reasons"

Does any one ever meet people with out seeing there pix?

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whats your secret.single men say they cant get a meet and yet you are bombarded with requests for meets.strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm amazed at the amount of mail I get from people asking me to meet up with them, but don't have a single pic on there profile at all! And when kindly asked they just say "sorry can't show any because of work reasons"

Does any one ever meet people with out seeing there pix?

whats your secret.single men say they cant get a meet and yet you are bombarded with requests for meets.strange"

lmso i was thinking something along them lines, most men moan noone mails then and hes moaning he gets to many lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I'm amazed at the amount of mail I get from people asking me to meet up with them, but don't have a single pic on there profile at all! And when kindly asked they just say "sorry can't show any because of work reasons"

Does any one ever meet people with out seeing there pix?

whats your secret.single men say they cant get a meet and yet you are bombarded with requests for meets.strange"

Look at his profile! That's his 'secret'!!! Its got a good profile- yep - quite a lot of words and paragraphs!!! He also has verifications and some fabulous pics! Then look at yours - nuff said!

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By *rouble and strifeCouple
over a year ago

Nr Glasgow

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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Look at his profile! That's his 'secret'!!! Its got a good profile- yep - quite a lot of words and paragraphs!!! He also has verifications and some fabulous pics! Then look at yours - nuff said!"

He has full stops too....as well as other attributes

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By *adgeeMan
over a year ago

Loch Lomond


" whats your secret.single men say they cant get a meet and yet you are bombarded with requests for meets.strange"

I'd never even consider meeting without seeing a pics. I think people who have no pic AND a hidden profile AND send mail asking you personal question's then don't reply to said mail even stranger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ould never meet anyone without some pics

you gotta know what your getting

would never even ask anyone to meet us without showing them our pics. Better there dissapointed before we even meet

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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I'd never even consider meeting without seeing a pics. I think people who have no pic AND a hidden profile AND send mail asking you personal question's then don't reply to said mail even stranger! "

and another nice chest pic...I like this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think its a must or how the hell will you recognise them, you can hardly say drop your trousers .oh sorry its not you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quite possibly the funniest thread i have read so far!! a single man complaining about the number of requests he gets!! possibly to do with the fact your 27 with a body to make a grown woman weep...added to the fact you are articulate and obviously not going to just stick it anywhere!!! i love you!!! im moving to liverpool...and i'll send you a pic!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no !

We need to have some idea of who we are meeting before we go through with it

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

yes need to see pics too. and understand people wanting to see ours. you need to know who your meeting or you may walk strait past them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats your secret.single men say they cant get a meet and yet you are bombarded with requests for meets.strange"

nothing strange about it. Just look at his pics. God damn...

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Right, prime example of just why you need to see pics before meeting - had a few messages from a couple - looked ok - I sent a face pic - asked for theirs - were reluctant - eventually emailed us - not saying they were ugly - but ok then - ugly - so politely said thanks but no thanks - they messaged back saying they were extremely surprised and have blocked us! Would have been embarassing if we;d turned up to meet them!

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"Right, prime example of just why you need to see pics before meeting - had a few messages from a couple - looked ok - I sent a face pic - asked for theirs - were reluctant - eventually emailed us - not saying they were ugly - but ok then - ugly - so politely said thanks but no thanks - they messaged back saying they were extremely surprised and have blocked us! Would have been embarassing if we;d turned up to meet them!"

This is a problem we have in that we wont meet without seeing pics....we are always happy to exchange but sometimes the other couples do not reciprocate...even to say no thanks and we have sent them face pics.Even if its the other way round and that initial "spark" isnt there we always send one of us back with an explaination.Additionally because we are always worried about where our pics could end up, we always send ones where we are both together fully clothed (the nude/swinging ones have our faces blanked out).We do have a fair idea of who are time wasters/pic collectors but it does dissapoint when apparently genuine couples dont "practice what they preach"

Part of swinging which we accept and have had to learn "work arounds" to make things easier.

XXXXxxxxXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nooooooo we dont meet people unless they have a pic of them selves to show us.we like to see if its our taste. no pic no meet and also i hate people who say they are putting pics up soon but never do!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't bother with no pic profiles.

We don't do "blind dates".

O.K, we understand some folk have issues with face pics in the public gallery but whats wrong with body pics in there and face pics in the private gallery, or sent one with a message?

Anyone meeting up for sex with someone they've never seen must be borderline desperate!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"they messaged back saying they were extremely surprised and have blocked us! Would have been embarassing if we;d turned up to meet them!"

I've had the very same thing happen to me! If I don't fancy a person/couple I'm sure as hell not gonna do the dirty dance with em! lol

So after sending them a nice reply saying

-no thank you, hope you find what your looking for, take care and have fun-

they quickly send a msg back saying

-your just another fake time waster and dreamer-

and other obscenity's I'll not mention.

Obviously these couples must understand there has to be an attraction... right!? Or were they just planning on keeping the lights off all night lol.

If they had just posted nice up to date pix on there profile to begin with I wouldn't have to waste both their time and my own asking for a simple pix! Argh! haha

Thx for helping me get it off my chest anyway guys loved reading all your comments too! Lmfao reading some of them :D

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By *eritageMan
over a year ago

weston super mare

ohhhh worried now have arranged meet tomos, 10pm no pic just a comment of not beauty queen but not ugly, have sent my pic maybe to trusting

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"they messaged back saying they were extremely surprised and have blocked us! Would have been embarassing if we;d turned up to meet them!

I've had the very same thing happen to me! If I don't fancy a person/couple I'm sure as hell not gonna do the dirty dance with em! lol

So after sending them a nice reply saying

-no thank you, hope you find what your looking for, take care and have fun-

they quickly send a msg back saying

-your just another fake time waster and dreamer-

and other obscenity's I'll not mention.

Obviously these couples must understand there has to be an attraction... right!? Or were they just planning on keeping the lights off all night lol.

If they had just posted nice up to date pix on there profile to begin with I wouldn't have to waste both their time and my own asking for a simple pix! Argh! haha

Thx for helping me get it off my chest anyway guys loved reading all your comments too! Lmfao reading some of them :D "

Talking of your chest..................xxxxxxxxxx

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By *eritageMan
over a year ago

weston super mare

question guys, if the vairifications are there is it not worth a gamble for some fun ? or still to risky im unsure now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"question guys, if the vairifications are there is it not worth a gamble for some fun ? or still to risky im unsure now"

NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! We prefer the odds in our favour!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"question guys, if the vairifications are there is it not worth a gamble for some fun ? or still to risky im unsure now"

well - verifications tell you that they're 'real' still would need to see a pic

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By *eritageMan
over a year ago

weston super mare

may have made mistake for tomos, but dont like to back down theres enoughy of that goes on anyway with the time waisters, prob be lesson learned, will wear me running trainers lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"may have made mistake for tomos, but dont like to back down theres enoughy of that goes on anyway with the time waisters, prob be lesson learned, will wear me running trainers lol "

you never know, might turn out ok, good luck

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By *eritageMan
over a year ago

weston super mare

stay tuned let you know fri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no way would i meet without seein a pic but on other hand arranged a meet seen pics..... walked past him six times in pub the pic was 10 yrs n 10 stone previous!!!

as for the posters chest o yes please!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we wudnt meet anyone without face pics or face to face cam first...we have face pics in pvt gallery..no pics no meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have sent face pictures to cpls who wanted to meet us in a club...they didnt then in chat we got abuse from them that we hadnt talked to them..they knew us we didnt...since then no face pic's no meet also we got now a different MSN which we only use for fab...would safer and easier... helen

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