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Tips for throwing a good group social

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By *lut and sir OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

Slut is throwing her first northampton group social on her solo profile, done all the usually. Made a forum thread ect and found venue.

But any tips for making it a winner? What have you done, seen or experienced that just made everyone feel welcome

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The most successful socials we've been to the host/ess has introduced people to each other, circulated during the evening and ensured nobody is left alone.

Hope it goes well

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By *lut and sir OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

Will take all that to heart. Definitely want to make sure the social is sociable

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also the hosts stood outside to welcome people we found that quite reassuring

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By *lut and sir OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

Good idea. I'm pretty easy to spot so should make everyone feel better lol x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Good idea. I'm pretty easy to spot so should make everyone feel better lol x"

I don't think you'll have any problem you seem very welcoming

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By *lut and sir OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

Always try to be.

Its 1 if the big things I love about swinging is meeting new people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to organise them years ago with a friend.

For me it was about chatting to people and ensuring no one was feeling awkward stood on their own. Making introductions to people and trying to involve everyone

Also keep an eye on how much people are drinking. If someone is looking like they might cause an issue, defuse it quickly x

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By *lut and sir OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

Oooo hadn't thought about the drinking bit.

I don't drink so there will be at least 1 level head

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By *locsmilfWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Easy to say but probably difficult to avoid, try to ensure cliques don't form as they do make people left out and likely to look for an exit.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

The latest social I went to with my partner, the organisers made up a little quiz about people attending. You could only find the answers by interacting with others. And there were little prizes for the winners.

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By *lut and sir OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

Aww thats a really cute idea, whats sort of questions was there.

Also

I'm starting thes 1 cos of the clique thing.

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By *elboy1957Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Name tags with their fab names on, it's a good icebreaker

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Aww thats a really cute idea, whats sort of questions was there.

Also

I'm starting thes 1 cos of the clique thing. "

To be fair, I don't remember most now, only one about us (Which couple like their vampire gloves?) and something like "he might be the tallest here, but they have the shortest name as a couple".

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By *lut and sir OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

Oo thats pretty cleaver x

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

One more thing that I've just remembered- if you can, try to choose a venue where the music isn't too loud. We had to leave one social early as there was a DJ there at the venue who clearly had some Ibiza ambitions. We couldn't even hear ourselves think, not to mention trying to chat with others.

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By *lut and sir OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

Haha will keep that in mind. The place I'm thinking of has a nice background buzz of noise but you don't have to shout to hear ewchother x

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By *lut and sir OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northampton

Fingers crossed my northampton gangbang will go down well now

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