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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are there any couples around where the act of cuckolding or hotwifing, isn’t taboo roleplay…but rather an essential element to balancing their sex life. Like in the example of the husband, not being able to sexually satisfy his wife in reality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are stag vixen as I'm not the biggest of cocks so I like to find nice well hung guys to stretch my sub

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

yep we have a joint account too but yes our cuckolding life style is real not based on role play or fantasy use to be hotwife bordering cuckold due to him being on the small side and premature ejaculation and occasional not getting hard to full on cuckolding when he lost his erection permently .

we went into our relationship with eyes wide open we both knew his health was affecting thing right from the start and we both came up with a plan ..what we have is really special we are a rock solid couple who enjoy life what i have with him is love what i have with others is sex

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole


"We are stag vixen as I'm not the biggest of cocks so I like to find nice well hung guys to stretch my sub "

Kinda the same for us, but the hotwife thing is more about still being sexually alive, so I encourage it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well hope no one would get offended but it's nice to see ladies taking decisions in those type of things and make sure they still stimulated but always think about the husband point of view .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yep we have a joint account too but yes our cuckolding life style is real not based on role play or fantasy use to be hotwife bordering cuckold due to him being on the small side and premature ejaculation and occasional not getting hard to full on cuckolding when he lost his erection permently .

Was this something you agreed upon front the start of your relationship?

we went into our relationship with eyes wide open we both knew his health was affecting thing right from the start and we both came up with a plan ..what we have is really special we are a rock solid couple who enjoy life what i have with him is love what i have with others is sex "

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"yep we have a joint account too but yes our cuckolding life style is real not based on role play or fantasy use to be hotwife bordering cuckold due to him being on the small side and premature ejaculation and occasional not getting hard to full on cuckolding when he lost his erection permently .

we went into our relationship with eyes wide open we both knew his health was affecting thing right from the start and we both came up with a plan ..what we have is really special we are a rock solid couple who enjoy life what i have with him is love what i have with others is sex

Was this something you agreed upon front the start of your relationship?

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pretty much yes we were swinging with -in a few months ... then hotwife /cuckolding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well hope no one would get offended but it's nice to see ladies taking decisions in those type of things and make sure they still stimulated but always think about the husband point of view .

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I’d imagine in this scenario it might be more challenging for the husband than the more roleplay fun.

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

We love the lifestyle and I the husband accept she needs satisfaction from others

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"We love the lifestyle and I the husband accept she needs satisfaction from others"

great lifestyle ..

people should not underestimate the relationship of a cuckold couple we are mostly the strongest of strong relationship wise love,trust, so very open with each other that theres no hiding or secrets just alove strong loving relationship with lots of extra sex thats how i describe us and lots of other cuckold couples we know all over the Uk and Europe

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

So true even beyond all the humiliation and things there's still a strong loving cpl


"We love the lifestyle and I the husband accept she needs satisfaction from others

great lifestyle ..

people should not underestimate the relationship of a cuckold couple we are mostly the strongest of strong relationship wise love,trust, so very open with each other that theres no hiding or secrets just alove strong loving relationship with lots of extra sex thats how i describe us and lots of other cuckold couples we know all over the Uk and Europe "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems pretty amazing that it can work like that. I guess you’re strengthening your non sexual relationship with your husband as a result

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"It seems pretty amazing that it can work like that. I guess you’re strengthening your non sexual relationship with your husband as a result "

ill be honest there's nothing to strengthen we have alway been open from the day we met and i could not love him anymore than i do hes my rock my sole mate hes everything to me (i know i know get yer sick buckets out) without him id be lost i deffo would not be on here or swinging .... no body should swing to improve their relationship it should be rock solid before hand ..otherwise it will destroy you quickly or slowly ...i do this because i know i can i know hes fully in too there nothing in this lifestyle that can effect our relationship ...ever

plus we are sexual just there no penetration between us.. our sex life is the cuckold way after ive been satisfied by other people then its his turn to hear , smell ,touch , lick and fingers and kissing with a floppy baby dick that dribbles ... ..im happyu sexually as he is too

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

soul lol not sole

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By *elboy1957Man
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare


"It seems pretty amazing that it can work like that. I guess you’re strengthening your non sexual relationship with your husband as a result

ill be honest there's nothing to strengthen we have alway been open from the day we met and i could not love him anymore than i do hes my rock my sole mate hes everything to me (i know i know get yer sick buckets out) without him id be lost i deffo would not be on here or swinging .... no body should swing to improve their relationship it should be rock solid before hand ..otherwise it will destroy you quickly or slowly ...i do this because i know i can i know hes fully in too there nothing in this lifestyle that can effect our relationship ...ever

plus we are sexual just there no penetration between us.. our sex life is the cuckold way after ive been satisfied by other people then its his turn to hear , smell ,touch , lick and fingers and kissing with a floppy baby dick that dribbles ... ..im happyu sexually as he is too"
so he still gets some satisfaction, that's good

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

Sounds just like us


"It seems pretty amazing that it can work like that. I guess you’re strengthening your non sexual relationship with your husband as a result

ill be honest there's nothing to strengthen we have alway been open from the day we met and i could not love him anymore than i do hes my rock my sole mate hes everything to me (i know i know get yer sick buckets out) without him id be lost i deffo would not be on here or swinging .... no body should swing to improve their relationship it should be rock solid before hand ..otherwise it will destroy you quickly or slowly ...i do this because i know i can i know hes fully in too there nothing in this lifestyle that can effect our relationship ...ever

plus we are sexual just there no penetration between us.. our sex life is the cuckold way after ive been satisfied by other people then its his turn to hear , smell ,touch , lick and fingers and kissing with a floppy baby dick that dribbles ... ..im happyu sexually as he is too"

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By *eastXMan
over a year ago

London

Bull.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"It seems pretty amazing that it can work like that. I guess you’re strengthening your non sexual relationship with your husband as a result

ill be honest there's nothing to strengthen we have alway been open from the day we met and i could not love him anymore than i do hes my rock my sole mate hes everything to me (i know i know get yer sick buckets out) without him id be lost i deffo would not be on here or swinging .... no body should swing to improve their relationship it should be rock solid before hand ..otherwise it will destroy you quickly or slowly ...i do this because i know i can i know hes fully in too there nothing in this lifestyle that can effect our relationship ...ever

plus we are sexual just there no penetration between us.. our sex life is the cuckold way after ive been satisfied by other people then its his turn to hear , smell ,touch , lick and fingers and kissing with a floppy baby dick that dribbles ... ..im happyu sexually as he is tooso he still gets some satisfaction, that's good "

he gets lots of satisfaction from it mostly mental of course but cuckolding is for the cuck much much more than sex i guess its differnt with roleplay or fantasy cuckolding as thats normally all about the sexual moment in the zone i guess ... but its all different anyway from mild to strong there will never be two cuckold couples the same ..as we find out on these forums of other sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has been cuckolding me for over 15 years now and it has enhanced our life in so many ways.. but like others have said you have to be rock solid if you head down the cuck lifestyle route

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love the lifestyle and I the husband accept she needs satisfaction from others"

Although we haven't gone through with it yet thats what I want to see too.

When 'A' gets going she has a great sex drive and can go for ages and cum multiple times so I would love to find someone who can keep up with that and fulfil her needs. At the moment we flick between me and the dildo until shes got off at least twice!

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
over a year ago

coventry

This describes our approach to cuckolding. Husband found he struggled to perform so we took the step to include others and its opened our horizons in both our sexual and non sexual lives and attitudes. we have introduced elements of roleplay in some situations but generally its an extension to our life and we indulge when the mood takes us.


"Are there any couples around where the act of cuckolding or hotwifing, isn’t taboo roleplay…but rather an essential element to balancing their sex life. Like in the example of the husband, not being able to sexually satisfy his wife in reality? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My wife has been cuckolding me for over 15 years now and it has enhanced our life in so many ways.. but like others have said you have to be rock solid if you head down the cuck lifestyle route "

What prompted you both to

Want to go this route?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

It's been a long journey......

Over 30 years of Swinging, onto Hot Wifeing, then our glorious introduction to Cuckolding, which transformed our relationship.

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

My Ex and I had always been in a Cuckold type relationship, well until we got divorced lol. Im small endowed and never able to give her penetrative orgasms. Absolutely loved watching her with other Well Hung men giving her multiple orgasms.

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

wonderful comment _atisfy jane such a sexy attitude would love to know how hubby feels about your choice

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"wonderful comment _atisfy jane such a sexy attitude would love to know how hubby feels about your choice"

He delights in the torment.

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By *otwifeandcuck123Couple
over a year ago

london

We are a cuckold couple . Love telling how much better the men i meet are compared with him . I have also turned him into a bi cuck where he will please my men how they wish. I keep him caged 80% of the time and the only time i let him cum is when i feel like watching him playing with himself while watching vids of real men pleasing me x

Anna-marie and cuck

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Also been a heck of a long journey for us as well.

Dipped our toe in the water after over 20 years married.

Soon found out I loved the attention and the extra cock, from sexy hung guys. He loved watching and derived his fun from FMm fun, much more than any other type.

That is how we developed into our present relationship and kinky horny fun as we play today. Xxx

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Bodmin

I have always been chosen as a plaything for couples so I am polite and sensual in the relationship, I have never been asked to be a "bull" or to humiliate anyone. Wives do often have me to themselves whilst the husband films or watches, they often have erectile issues, which is usually why I have been drafted in to resolve.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford


"We are a cuckold couple . Love telling how much better the men i meet are compared with him . I have also turned him into a bi cuck where he will please my men how they wish. I keep him caged 80% of the time and the only time i let him cum is when i feel like watching him playing with himself while watching vids of real men pleasing me x

Anna-marie and cuck "

AND this is why I really want to meet you guys x

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Definitely part of our sex life, hubby can’t keep up with my demands or fulfill me sexually

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

So Mr D is my complete other half - I can’t imagine my life without him by my side - but his cock absolutely can’t satisfy me. Cuckolding is so much a part of who we are now, and he loves to see me with other guys who can properly fuck me. It’s just us.

L xxx

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"So Mr D is my complete other half - I can’t imagine my life without him by my side - but his cock absolutely can’t satisfy me. Cuckolding is so much a part of who we are now, and he loves to see me with other guys who can properly fuck me. It’s just us.

L xxx"

That's hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started swinging with wife at the fantasy of her cuckholding me, and her fantasy of having bigger cocks (I’m 5.5ish so not tiny)

This resulted in a few arguments to begin with but as our relationship solidified it become easier for us both. She’s been in and out of the swinging habit but always comes back to find a larger cock…. I’m happy and turned on by it and she loves the size difference so a win win for us both

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Cuckolding, hotwifing, stag and vixen ... all on a spectrum of "control" play in our minds ... you set the standard, the pace, the vibe and the emotion of your play each and every time x Anne & George

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By *BL_17Man
over a year ago

Wrexham

It is a long process based on trust. Building a good relationship. For me it was a lifestyle. We lived together. Unfortunately, many people are only able to fantasize about it because they lack the courage to try it.

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By *gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It’s great to see so many hotwife and cuckold couples active on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is a long process based on trust. Building a good relationship. For me it was a lifestyle. We lived together. Unfortunately, many people are only able to fantasize about it because they lack the courage to try it."

But I feel like the people that have made it work are the ones where the husbands find it a turn on too. There doesn’t seem to be a dynamic where it’s more one sided. Perhaps it’s just too damaging for the relationship otherwise .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is a long process based on trust. Building a good relationship. For me it was a lifestyle. We lived together. Unfortunately, many people are only able to fantasize about it because they lack the courage to try it."

I meant to say, maybe people are right to be cautious if they both aren’t really into it.

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By *irstTime4everythingCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Love the lifestyle, not for everyone but husband loves being cuck and wife loves to be the centre of attention. Win win

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