FabSwingers.com forum: Ignorant people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is it with people who say no pic no reply.

Then when you send a polite message with a face pic you don't even get a no thanks.

It's not a lot to ask is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it isn't but it happens so just put it down to experience and crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your not their type and have to many messages to get through to reply..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe did not like the look and see no point in maling ?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

What is the timeframe between sending the pic and expecting a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reply is a way of saying not interested or they could be busy or waiting for partner before deciding, don't get hung up on it just forget and move on. It's too easy to get focused on the why's instead of the reason were on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with people who say no pic no reply.

Then when you send a polite message with a face pic you don't even get a no thanks.

It's not a lot to ask is it?"

Well they say 'No Pic, No Reply'

They didn't send you a picture or a reply. Sounds like they did exactly what they promised!

QED.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with people who say no pic no reply.

Then when you send a polite message with a face pic you don't even get a no thanks.

It's not a lot to ask is it?"

No it's not, but then imagine that the recipient of your 'polite message' has another 200of those beacause she's a single female or perhaps its a popular couple. Would you want to spend your life replying to endless messages?

If you've had no reply, just take it they aint interested and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the timeframe between sending the pic and expecting a reply "

Why do you expect a reply?

If we don't like profile or person is not what we are looking for we don't reply.

If we send a message and don't reply then we simply take it that they are not interested in us and we move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Andy

If you stay patiacent this week in FORUMS you will see your not alone, because i am pretty sure we see same topic raised a few times before end of week.

sadly there are some people who might intend to flirt/chat /meet - but when opportunity pops up they get scared and pull away - id agree that manners doesn't cost a thing - especially on here- to just send a polite "thanks but no thanks"

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By *tephenb001Man
over a year ago

stapleton

But you need to see it from their point of _iew sometimes they get 50 -100 messages.

They might not even get bloody chance to read and reply to them all.

I might get 1 message a month.

Lol

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I am sure they see the pic and find you too hot to handle. Like someone said put it down as experience or just don't contact them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But when they say no pic no reply and you send a picture surely a no thanks is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the flip side to the no pic no reply statement is.......on the profile does it say picutre guarantees a reply. I'd guess not, just move on from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But when they say no pic no reply and you send a picture surely a no thanks is good. "
alot who say now thanks get a mouth full of nasty things at times . Why some dont . people who cant take no thanks,

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"But when they say no pic no reply and you send a picture surely a no thanks is good. "
....do they have any public picture on their profile? If yes it is wise to attach one to your message in case you don't have any in your public just like me. But if they have no picture and said no picture no message, just don't contact or accept whatever comes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am polite and swung before for 5 yrs as a couple we always said no thanks or not for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be happy you didnt send 100 msgs before the pics got exchanged.

should get them out the way from the start, would save time and energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with people who say no pic no reply.

Then when you send a polite message with a face pic you don't even get a no thanks.

It's not a lot to ask is it?"

Its not a lot to ask someone who may be interested, but if they're not and maybe got 1000 unread messages waiting, sorry but eh get a grip.. Think they would reply if interested!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol thanks for all your lovely answers I have got a grip now thank you

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

"What is it with people who say no pic no reply.

Then when you send a polite message with a face pic you don't even get a no thanks.

It's not a lot to ask is it?"

Even when you message back with a polite no thanks not interested you get a message back with either abuse, whinging, or the why why why why routine. Its much easier just to not reply rather than go through the same routine with on average 20-30 msgs a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol thanks for all your lovely answers I have got a grip now thank you

ouch not so tight please lol

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

ya loads of ass holes on here but then there are some really nice people here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with people who say no pic no reply.

Then when you send a polite message with a face pic you don't even get a no thanks.

It's not a lot to ask is it?"

Try another face ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"What is it with people who say no pic no reply.

Then when you send a polite message with a face pic you don't even get a no thanks.

It's not a lot to ask is it?

Try another face ?

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"ya loads of ass holes on here but then there are some really nice people here too."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol thanks for all your lovely answers I have got a grip now thank you

No probs big man, anytime...bettin you've had a fair grip of yer'sel aww day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We normally have men blocked from messaging but unblocked them a couple of month back and received 47 messages within 30 mins. Needless to say we didn't reply back to them all as we just didn't have time to tell them no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with people who say no pic no reply.

Then when you send a polite message with a face pic you don't even get a no thanks.

It's not a lot to ask is it?"

You just got to put up with it . Just block them if they don't reply. I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with people who say no pic no reply.

Then when you send a polite message with a face pic you don't even get a no thanks.

It's not a lot to ask is it?"

Theres many reasons people dont reply and its not just thro ignorance

I used to reply to men i had no interest in with a no thanks but i got fed up with the nasty come backs from guys who cant take a no thanks, some would mail me back telling me i was fat and ugly anyway and that i should be grateful of their offer as i couldnt do better etc that i simply stopped sending out no thanks replys and only mailed guys i was interested in

And dont class myself as ignorant for doing so, it was mens fault i stopped sending replys for being so rude so whos the real ignorant one?

And i know lots of guys will say they never send out such messages and i know a lot of guys wouldnt but i dont know which can and cant take a simple no thanks just by reading a message so i just dont say it to anyone now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats even worse is people who block you for no reason which has happened to me on a couple of occasions! A polite thanks, but no thanks would have been sufficient.

BTW my messages where polite and non pushy before anyone asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats even worse is people who block you for no reason which has happened to me on a couple of occasions! A polite thanks, but no thanks would have been sufficient.

BTW my messages where polite and non pushy before anyone asks."

That may have been the case, but I refer to earlier posts, most women get bombarded by 100s of messages daily. If they not interested, they'll delete and block a sender so that sender won't message again or have the chance to send more messages.

Don't take it to heart and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I do love the way people call others ignorant when they are clearly being ignorant themselves

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By *igger2012Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

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By *igger2012Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

We have 'no pic no chat' on our profile. The reason being if we message someone first ( which isn't often) we always send a pic and have 3 on public _iew. I always send a polite no thanks if we're not interested. I never reply to messages if the sender doesn't attach one or has no public pics. Surly if the sender is interested they would want you to know what they look like. We get a lot of 1 line messages with nothing attached that we just delete. Xxx

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By *igger2012Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

Just received a 1 line message from a guy with no pic and no public pics who is outside our age preference. Obviously didn't bother to read our profile!!!! I rest my case!!!

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