FabSwingers.com forum: Prob been said before but …

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I need to rant a little…

Bored of seeing ‘couples’ profiles

And zero amount of pics of the male half of the profile !

I understand females get more attention and things ect….

However I would please like to see more profiles where at least some of the pictures are the male half too or both of you together!

It is at the end of the day a

‘swinging site’ and the idea is for all 4 people… ( sometimes more people I know haha )

…to have mutual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in a couples profile but I see your point

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I prefer more female photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer more female photos

I understand you males do, but for a

bi female like myself

( female typing .. obviously)

I want to see both.

Must be even harder for a straight female!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer more female photos

I understand you males do, but for a

bi female like myself

( female typing .. obviously)

I want to see both.

Must be even harder for a straight female! "

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"I prefer more female photos

I understand you males do, but for a

bi female like myself

( female typing .. obviously)

I want to see both.

Must be even harder for a straight female! "

Them sort of couples will moan about people's messagages talking to the female when there isn't a male in any pics

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Just looked at your verifications and all of the couples who’ve verified you only have pictures of the female on their profile, apart from one which just has a single picture of the male, so I’m getting mixed messages…

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Just looked at your verifications and all of the couples who’ve verified you only have pictures of the female on their profile, apart from one which just has a single picture of the male, so I’m getting mixed messages…"

good detective work

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

We are a couple, hubby doesn’t play just enjoys watching me play with other guys. No point us having pics of hubby when he doesn’t play. We would still class ourselves as swingers And 99% of our target audience couldn’t care less what hubby looks like as he’s only going to be sitting in the corner watching anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have met ours first off in real life in clubs

( not from talking on this site )

So that can’t be helped.

But when I’m actively looking I’m looking for both male and female in the pictures

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are a couple, hubby doesn’t play just enjoys watching me play with other guys. No point us having pics of hubby when he doesn’t play. We would still class ourselves as swingers And 99% of our target audience couldn’t care less what hubby looks like as he’s only going to be sitting in the corner watching anyway. "

That is a good take on it, if you have already stated he doesn’t play then I understand why you don’t have pics of him up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

good detective work"

Not really good if you see my explanation….

We didn’t meet them thru talking on here we met them thru clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer more female photos

I understand you males do, but for a

bi female like myself

( female typing .. obviously)

I want to see both.

Must be even harder for a straight female!

Them sort of couples will moan about people's messagages talking to the female when there isn't a male in any pics"

You’re right.

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

We have more female pics but there is a few of the male half our friends gallery has plenty of us both with clear face pics x

Totally get your point there needs to be a four way attraction x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have more female pics but there is a few of the male half our friends gallery has plenty of us both with clear face pics x

Totally get your point there needs to be a four way attraction x"

Thank you.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"We have more female pics but there is a few of the male half our friends gallery has plenty of us both with clear face pics x

Totally get your point there needs to be a four way attraction x"

Out of interest, why are the large majority of your pics of the female? Do you find that you get a better reaction to your profile of there are more pictures of the female than the male?

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"We have more female pics but there is a few of the male half our friends gallery has plenty of us both with clear face pics x

Totally get your point there needs to be a four way attraction x

Out of interest, why are the large majority of your pics of the female? Do you find that you get a better reaction to your profile of there are more pictures of the female than the male?"

Well she enjoys having the pics taken, we like to meet couples and single guys so guess the guys would rather see her pics same applies to bisexual women plus she has a large collection of lingerie so makes it easier to take different pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby only plays/watches me do don’t see the point in having his pics up. But we do have a lot of private pics of both of us together that we send potential men we may meet.

When you are talking to another couple and they have no public pics of the man I’d be asking to see some pics pretty soon into the conversation.

Good luck in you’re search

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

As a woman who enjoys meeting couples it is really frustrating when profiles don't have pics of both partners, or have dozens of pics of the woman and then a token cock pic. If you are both going to be present at a meet then I want to know what both of you look like, even if one of you isn't actually participating physically

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a woman who enjoys meeting couples it is really frustrating when profiles don't have pics of both partners, or have dozens of pics of the woman and then a token cock pic. If you are both going to be present at a meet then I want to know what both of you look like, even if one of you isn't actually participating physically

xxx

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

As a couple who post both, although The Boy is non binary so ‘male’ should be substituted for ‘masc’, we try and load as much masc pics as we can.

We understand why kitty gets more fabs, but it’d be nice to receive a bit more love on The Boy’s pics!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a couple who post both, although The Boy is non binary so ‘male’ should be substituted for ‘masc’, we try and load as much masc pics as we can.

We understand why kitty gets more fabs, but it’d be nice to receive a bit more love on The Boy’s pics! "

What an interesting pair you both seem.

Good luck in your relationship and thanks for your honest reply.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We meet together our pics are together.

The ladies want to see the Mr just as I do from their side, I don't think we'd meet a couple off fab it's too difficult getting pics of the man sometimes when asking for them.

Mrs

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Skewed in Alysons favour obviously but we have a varied mix of us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to think we have a good amount of T on our profile! Naturally I like my pic being taken more than him but there’s plenty of him to see

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like to think we have a good amount of T on our profile! Naturally I like my pic being taken more than him but there’s plenty of him to see

Mrs"

Lovely pics

Female - L xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We meet together our pics are together.

The ladies want to see the Mr just as I do from their side, I don't think we'd meet a couple off fab it's too difficult getting pics of the man sometimes when asking for them.

Mrs "

Good points

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Skewed in Alysons favour obviously but we have a varied mix of us both

Good mix

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By *D4U1000TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Much like straight porn films. Loads of face shots of the women but hardly any of the men.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

That’s the same for ourselves, we do have some couple photos on our profile so people know who we are but as our dynamic is mostly about Dee taking the lead to have fun then it’s her they want to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless OP, like us and plenty of other people, it’s predominantly the female half that meets. And we’ll be deciding whether or not we consider ourselves swingers thanks. If a profile doesn’t match your requirements, move past it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is more pictures of me (female) on here but Mr absolutely loves taking photos of me.

However we do try and have a mixture of pictures on our profile, ones where we are together or just of my man.

As a straight female in a couple and starting to look at meeting with couples it's hard when looking at profiles when alot have maybe one photo of the man and the rest are all female.

I understand that it's photos of women that get the most interest and fabs but from a couples perspective it makes it really difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However I would please like to see more profiles where at least some of the pictures are the male half too or both of you together!

which half of the male would you like to see?

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

This comes up all time unfortunately.

Many reasons have been coveres if you do a forum search

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I prefer more female photos

I understand you males do, but for a

bi female like myself

( female typing .. obviously)

I want to see both.

Must be even harder for a straight female! "

I just pass those profiles by. We did meet couples with no photos of the guy at one time, we'd have a social first to get to know each, invariably despite words to the contrary the guy didn't want to be involved with another woman which left me out on a limb. Others are open about only looking for the two women to get together which I think is fine and still others cite their job as the reason which is also fine.

I'm happy for people to have exactly the photos they want on their profile. If there are no pictures of the man it means we're not compatible that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like pictures of me (jay)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't like pictures of me (jay)

I don’t see anything wrong with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree with this, we’re a couple, looking for a couple swap, we have photos of both of us on our profile, yet very few couples profiles have photos of the male or it’s just a dick pic.

We have stated on our profile if you don’t have a photo of both of you please can you send if you message us, not that many couples do this.

It’s also when they get offended, if we’ve asked for a face photo of a couple and they’ve said no, and we politely say not to worry however for us there needs to be some physical attraction with couples and if we’re unable to see who we’re talking too then we would be reluctant to arrange a social going on just messages. Maybe I’m wrong for saying this to them but I’m just being honest and trying not to waste couples time.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Limited pics of male here. But as said, most ppl prefer the female.

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

"I need to rant a little…

Bored of seeing ‘couples’ profiles

And zero amount of pics of the male half of the profile !

I understand females get more attention and things ect….

However I would please like to see more profiles where at least some of the pictures are the male half too or both of you together!

It is at the end of the day a

‘swinging site’ and the idea is for all 4 people… ( sometimes more people I know haha )

…to have mutual attraction.

Good point and observation. Something I have noticed too. Obvs, being a male, I do tend to enjoy seeing the female pics but, for couples profiles, I agree - it's nice to see at least a few pics of either both together or pics of both halves of the couple. Personal preference - so not exactly going to sway anyone's opinion, is it?!

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

It is at the end of the day a

‘swinging site’ and the idea is for all 4 people… ( sometimes more people I know haha )

…to have mutual attraction.

So you are not swingers unless you are a M/F couple where both M & F wish to meet with other M/F couples and take part with either or both of the other couple? Oh, and of course have photographs of both. No other combinations are considered to be Swinging? Thanks for clearing that up.

Single males and females, TV/TS, Couples with a voyeuristic half (like us and many others), Established GB groups; we are all on the wrong site as this one is for swingers. We should all delete our accounts immediately!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"I need to rant a little…

Bored of seeing ‘couples’ profiles

And zero amount of pics of the male half of the profile !

I understand females get more attention and things ect….

However I would please like to see more profiles where at least some of the pictures are the male half too or both of you together!

It is at the end of the day a

‘swinging site’ and the idea is for all 4 people… ( sometimes more people I know haha )

…to have mutual attraction.

And I need to rant a little too. Why do so many people complain about what others choose to post or not post on their profile? It is their profile to do with whatever they wish and as long as it complies with Fab rules there is no problem. If you don't like it just move on to another profile. How people choose to swing and advertise their swinging is entirely up to them and nobody else.

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt

Guilty of no male pics

Just his hand on my tit and his cock in my mouth. I've told him several times that we really need more of him. I want to show him off!

Beth x

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By *nnocent and RaunchyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester /London

We have pics of both of us, only fair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D is super camera shy. Honestly it's a real hassle trying to get pictures of him. Am trying though as I know how much it will improve our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It is at the end of the day a

‘swinging site’ and the idea is for all 4 people… ( sometimes more people I know haha )

…to have mutual attraction.

So you are not swingers unless you are a M/F couple where both M & F wish to meet with other M/F couples and take part with either or both of the other couple?

^ no I didn’t say this !!! I was basically pointing out a fact that if you are a ‘couples’ profile it is nice to see both participants.

I know people swing in different ways.

It’s just my preference that I’d like to see the male half as well as the female half.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guilty of no male pics

Just his hand on my tit and his cock in my mouth. I've told him several times that we really need more of him. I want to show him off!

Beth x"

This is another reason maybe why not many pictures as males seem to be camera shy sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have pics of both of us, only fair!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"100% agree with this, we’re a couple, looking for a couple swap, we have photos of both of us on our profile, yet very few couples profiles have photos of the male or it’s just a dick pic.

We have stated on our profile if you don’t have a photo of both of you please can you send if you message us, not that many couples do this.

Thank you

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Yea we realised a few weeks back that our pics were mainly Mrs Cherry (more fun to look at

) so we did a few couple type pics etc

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By *oupleforfun1977Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

A few of Jay on ours, thinks he's abit small so doesn't put alot on

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt

"Guilty of no male pics

Just his hand on my tit and his cock in my mouth. I've told him several times that we really need more of him. I want to show him off!

Beth x

This is another reason maybe why not many pictures as males seem to be camera shy sometimes "

He puts it down to fear of being recognised. Business owner working closely with general public. Same reason he's reluctant to trying a club. I don't think anyone would be obviously recognisable from the neck down, and if someone does recognise you, they're on here or at the club for the same reason and would want the same discretion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Guilty of no male pics

Just his hand on my tit and his cock in my mouth. I've told him several times that we really need more of him. I want to show him off!

Beth x

This is another reason maybe why not many pictures as males seem to be camera shy sometimes

Ah ok so that’s another good take on it!

I like a nice healthy debate and seeing other peoples opinions and reasons, thank you.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It is at the end of the day a

‘swinging site’ and the idea is for all 4 people… ( sometimes more people I know haha )

…to have mutual attraction.

So you are not swingers unless you are a M/F couple where both M & F wish to meet with other M/F couples and take part with either or both of the other couple?

^ no I didn’t say this !!! I was basically pointing out a fact that if you are a ‘couples’ profile it is nice to see both participants.

I know people swing in different ways.

It’s just my preference that I’d like to see the male half as well as the female half.

Your preference? But the owners of the profile may not be the slightest bit interested in satisfying your preference, but in appealing to the people they want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry, we have plenty (I think)

Unless you're in our friends only gallery. I'm afraid there's alot of me in there.

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By *utty_JiggleCouple
over a year ago

Black Country

We don't have pictures of the male but tend to meet others in clubs. We don't actively look on Fab, we use it as a tool of keeping in touch with those we have met.

Nutty

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

I'd like to think that we have a few of captains fine face and body on ours. Probably not as many as there could be but I understand where you are coming from xx

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"I need to rant a little…

Bored of seeing ‘couples’ profiles

And zero amount of pics of the male half of the profile !

I understand females get more attention and things ect….

However I would please like to see more profiles where at least some of the pictures are the male half too or both of you together!

It is at the end of the day a

‘swinging site’ and the idea is for all 4 people… ( sometimes more people I know haha )

…to have mutual attraction.

"
Good point ! (Quickly grabs camera for more pics of hubby)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It is at the end of the day a

‘swinging site’ and the idea is for all 4 people… ( sometimes more people I know haha )

…to have mutual attraction.

So you are not swingers unless you are a M/F couple where both M & F wish to meet with other M/F couples and take part with either or both of the other couple?

^ no I didn’t say this !!! I was basically pointing out a fact that if you are a ‘couples’ profile it is nice to see both participants.

I know people swing in different ways.

It’s just my preference that I’d like to see the male half as well as the female half.

Your preference? But the owners of the profile may not be the slightest bit interested in satisfying your preference, but in appealing to the people they want to meet. "

You clearly aren’t getting my point of my post…….

Anyway others have joined in with healthy non aggressive opinions…

Thank you all

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By *ingercookieCouple
over a year ago

crewe

Other people should not really have to live up to your standard. It is just a preference.

My FWB has no photos with me as we are strictly FWB, we are not a couple so we don't do things where you would normally take pictures together. Plus some people don't want to be tied to someone else like that, it can be embarrassing for the other person to be seen as a couple when they don't want to be.

everyone has boundaries

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By *andMXXXXCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

TOTALLY AGREE WITH THIS!!

The pics are there to see if the physical attraction is their 1st and foremost - for all parties.

We fell into this trap at first but are changing our approach because what you’re saying here is spot on.

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By *ingercookieCouple
over a year ago

crewe

Pretty sure your fishing for compliments and a fish just bit.

It is a nice looking cock to be fair.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

What, that one picture of a guys knob among the 50 pics of her wasn't enough for you to want them both equally?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It is at the end of the day a

‘swinging site’ and the idea is for all 4 people… ( sometimes more people I know haha )

…to have mutual attraction.

So you are not swingers unless you are a M/F couple where both M & F wish to meet with other M/F couples and take part with either or both of the other couple?

^ no I didn’t say this !!! I was basically pointing out a fact that if you are a ‘couples’ profile it is nice to see both participants.

I know people swing in different ways.

It’s just my preference that I’d like to see the male half as well as the female half.

Your preference? But the owners of the profile may not be the slightest bit interested in satisfying your preference, but in appealing to the people they want to meet.

You clearly aren’t getting my point of my post…….

Anyway others have joined in with healthy non aggressive opinions…

Thank you all "

Sorry that you feel it's aggressive to suggest that people have the right to post whatever they want on their own profile.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If both are playing then it makes sense to have pics of both up. More often than not, you see the woman in a variety of poses and the guy will just have his cock out, like that’s the only type of pic they can think of taking

We use it as a filter now….no pic of guy we don’t bother. Dick pics of guy, we don’t bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I find this massively frustrating. As a solo woman who enjoys couples I want to be able to see both of the people I would be playing with. It has to be attraction all round!

Couples profiles with just the woman in pics will get my instant dismissal.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

It really annoys us, and we try and have a balance on ours.

There are more of Mrs S&S though because

a) she is more pleasing to the eye

and

b) Mr S&S is usually behind the camera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This I 100% agree with.

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

This is another one of those arguments that will never be solved, yes people on fab should be able to display whatever they want (within reason/rules) but it does make sense that if you are trying to attract a certain demographic then you should give that demographic as many selling points as possible....having said that, more often than not, it makes little difference....even having plenty of pics of us both (including faces) we still very rarely attract the people we want to attract....so we just post because we like to post

if anything comes from it then it's a bonus!

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

"It really annoys us, and we try and have a balance on ours.

There are more of Mrs S&S though because

a) she is more pleasing to the eye

and

Mmmm, I see what you mean

Although, don't go too far with the modesty Mr

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