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By *igT101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ulverston

Hi guys not had much success arranging meets sadly apart from one or two, I like to think I’ve got okay chat lol. Can anyone give me any pointers for profile or maybe talking tips? Any help appreciated Doesn’t help the area I live in there isn’t as much choice

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Have a look at other peoples profiles, not mine, and more then two pictures of your cock, I don't mean three pictures of your cock either.

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By *urvesAppealMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I find that 127 cock pics from 127 different angles usually does the trick for me personally

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By *igT101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ulverston


"Have a look at other peoples profiles, not mine, and more then two pictures of your cock, I don't mean three pictures of your cock either."
Thanks yeah I’ll think about it, it’s defo something to consider I just know some women aren’t interest in just that so was hesitant.

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By *igT101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ulverston


"I find that 127 cock pics from 127 different angles usually does the trick for me personally "
hahaha nice cheers

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By *ife9291Man
over a year ago

fife

Probs lack of pics.. not much in the bio, no verification at all...

Not much to go by or screams pick me

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By *igT101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ulverston


"Probs lack of pics.. not much in the bio, no verification at all...

Not much to go by or screams pick me "
cheers, hoping to get a meet that results in a veri that’d be class like, my other meets were a while back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your whole profile is just boring.

Personally, I want something more than just a warm dildo... which is all your profile really offers.

Like who are you? Show some personality. Show that you are more than just a dick. You are currently just like 10k other single male profiles out there.

So to be blunt, but that's how I see it.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

OP..

Can I suggest that you start again with your profile.

Look at it from the perspective of someone else reading it.

Your first picture is a dick pic, complete with toilet seat. Just how do you think that that would be attractive and tempting??

Your profile write up virtually repeats what your details are. There is nothing about you, what you are looking for and what you can offer.

In short, it's a dull and uninspiring profile.

Start again.

Then consider what swinging is all about. What are your expectations,

and do they match reality?

You are considerably younger than most people here, so unless you stand out, you will struggle.

Good luck.

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

?

Sadly you need to seriously address your profile .The lack of info or personality, it’s dull .

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

This question gets asked more than any.

There is no secret.

Some women like cock pics some don't. A guy with no pics can have more verifications than one with 20 pics.

What you need to do is stop looking needy and desperate. Woe is me won't do you any favours except making you look a loser in life.

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By *ack Flash400Man
over a year ago

The Bat Cave

Once you except that women (or men) are not going to fall at your feet, you'll be fine!

Lower the bar, mine's virtually touching the floor!

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

?

Absolutely spot on , what you say

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By *ack Flash400Man
over a year ago

The Bat Cave


"Once you except that women (or men) are not going to fall at your feet, you'll be fine!

Lower the bar, mine's virtually touching the floor!

"

Accept not except!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probs lack of pics.. not much in the bio, no verification at all...

Not much to go by or screams pick me cheers, hoping to get a meet that results in a veri that’d be class like, my other meets were a while back."

Keep doing what you are doing if you have had meets in the past. It must be working

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

You are young...some like a lot older.

Your profile doesn't say a lot about you.

Would you really fuck someone who is 99??

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Agree with the ladies. Lose the dick pics. Imagine you're advertising yourself. Why would they meet you? Sell your personality.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

See the majority of posts from single men here who underestimate the level of effort needed here.

Most of the advice given to them will hold true.

You have to sell yourself by giving others what they need to choose you - or decline. Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people, so having realistic expectations is essential.

Find what they want from you to make a selection/decision. Then give it, by investing your efforts.

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By *igT101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ulverston

Thanks or all help guys even if some is a bit blunt lol thank a though

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By *ddy GirthyMan
over a year ago

Girthy Town


"Your whole profile is just boring.

Personally, I want something more than just a warm dildo... which is all your profile really offers.

Like who are you? Show some personality. Show that you are more than just a dick. You are currently just like 10k other single male profiles out there.

So to be blunt, but that's how I see it."

Dior Savage!

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By *ddy GirthyMan
over a year ago

Girthy Town


"Hi guys not had much success arranging meets sadly apart from one or two, I like to think I’ve got okay chat lol. Can anyone give me any pointers for profile or maybe talking tips? Any help appreciated Doesn’t help the area I live in there isn’t as much choice "

RIP from the comments

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