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Why is it so hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to find a match, does nobody wanna play anymore? When I first joined around 5 years ago there was loads up for it, met a few good people. Seems to have dwindled off.

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

I think it's hard but not impossible. The people not meeting are easier to spot, I just think it takes patience and work in my opinion. I love meeting new people but it won't always result in fucking, which some won't accept and that's fine. You just gotta search for what you want and make the effort in profile, message, and sometimes it's just the right timing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah timing is key, it's probably me looking at the wrong people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to clarify this wasn't a question just a general consensus.

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

I think relying solely on this site for meets and not attending events, clubs or parties it can be difficult, especially for a single guy theres simply too many of you on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There isn't any clubs that local to me, less than 20mile drive

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Most people are way more than 20 mins away from their local club! You live near Birmingham, easy access to plenty of clubs, sounds like excuses

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By *_the_impalerMan
over a year ago

canterbury


"I think relying solely on this site for meets and not attending events, clubs or parties it can be difficult, especially for a single guy theres simply too many of you on here. "

I agree with above

There are loads of socials too all over the UK they are great to get to know people and put a face to a name. Also to show off your great personality

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

You have 3 clubs near to you.

Theres UTB and Lichfield socials that a very popular and near.

And you've only been back on the site 4wks.

If you're a returner, look for and reach out to the people you played with previously

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham


"Most people are way more than 20 mins away from their local club! You live near Birmingham, easy access to plenty of clubs, sounds like excuses "

Totally agree, you do what you want to do within the lifestyle.

Most if not all of us travel all over the best we can for clubs, socials or meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There isn't any clubs that local to me, less than 20mile drive "
sometimes you got to put some effort in to it

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

this site works 100% if your a couple or woman but for a guy is very hard word some will find it really easy most wont and its not a case of there is some one for everyone because there really is not ... the % percentages will tell you all you need to know..

i think for a guy today on this scene the club route is by far the bast way to get on the ladder..

and dont listen to those who say you have to have a six pack or a massive cock or be a model because thats really not the case it just men outstrip all my a big %

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