FabSwingers.com forum: Intro to swapping

By *ewYoungFun321 OP Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Trying to take small steps into swinging together, not yet got to the point of any form of swapping or playing with other couples.

Is there such thing as soft swap / no swapping group play ? The idea of this sounds great….

Any other advice on how to take baby steps into swapping and playing with other couples is massively appreciated.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting to the clubs is a good step, there’s no pressure to play, you can just enjoy the atmosphere and see how you each feel

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Trying to take small steps into swinging together, not yet got to the point of any form of swapping or playing with other couples.

Is there such thing as soft swap / no swapping group play ? The idea of this sounds great….

Any other advice on how to take baby steps into swapping and playing with other couples is massively appreciated."

Try to find a couple who are happy to move at your pace, willing to meet socially to calm nerves, happy to reassure you at every step. Alternatively look for people in your position and learn together.

Good luck

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

There are lots of soft swap couples it's just finding them, good communication and setting boundaries helps, just make sure you go at a pace your comfortable with.

Mrs

By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

All the above. You won't go far wrong. Full swap isn't for every cpl. We have a few friends who aren't full swap. Makes no odds to us.