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Mrs dosent feel sexy or beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mrs is a bbw but dosent feel sexy

I tell here she is but always says do other guys couples and women think so.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I think a lot of us go through this, the Mrs looks great, she just needs to believe it herself.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My man tells me all the time how beautiful and sexy i am but I don't see it. I think alot of women feel that way.

My lady

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Personally I think she looks amazing. However it's how she feels. I could go on a rant about fatphobia, but I won't.

Positive reinforcement and support will hopefully help.

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Mrs is a bbw but dosent feel sexy

I tell here she is but always says do other guys couples and women think so.

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she is absolutely stunning looks really good and don't let anyone tell her any different xx

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

It’s down to you to make her feel good, we can all say she looks great you got to make her feel it.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Fab is not the place for validation tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy her sexy clothes & makeup that make feel great then let the world know she`s sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all experience this from time to time . Sometimes being on here can make those feelings worse.

When I'm really struggling with my confidence I make a point of doing things that make me feel happy.

Sometimes it's a walk along the beach , sometimes it's a pamper session, sometimes its a good old giggle with friends, sometimes a bit of retail therapy and actually sometimes I even dress up and take new photos to remind myself I can scrub up quite well.

Unfortunately when you get so in your head what others tell you can become meaningless.

However show her how much you love her and desire her and I reckon her confidence will increase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, sexy is definitely a state of mind and not a body type.

The largest of ladies can be extremely sexy whilst a “perfect 10” could not depending on the person themselves (and obviously vice versa too).

We all have moments where we doubt ourselves and how others see us, it’s perfectly natural but at the end of the day it’s how we see ourselves that matter.

Hope that your lovely lady feels sexy soon

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Fab is not the place for validation tbh"

Spot on. It’s the LAST place you should both be if there are any insecurities.

Personally don’t think obese people are attractive just as I know plenty on here don’t find myself, or partner attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think we all experience this from time to time . Sometimes being on here can make those feelings worse.

When I'm really struggling with my confidence I make a point of doing things that make me feel happy.

Sometimes it's a walk along the beach , sometimes it's a pamper session, sometimes its a good old giggle with friends, sometimes a bit of retail therapy and actually sometimes I even dress up and take new photos to remind myself I can scrub up quite well.

Unfortunately when you get so in your head what others tell you can become meaningless.

However show her how much you love her and desire her and I reckon her confidence will increase. "

Very wise words Lee

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves


"I think we all experience this from time to time . Sometimes being on here can make those feelings worse.

When I'm really struggling with my confidence I make a point of doing things that make me feel happy.

Sometimes it's a walk along the beach , sometimes it's a pamper session, sometimes its a good old giggle with friends, sometimes a bit of retail therapy and actually sometimes I even dress up and take new photos to remind myself I can scrub up quite well.

Unfortunately when you get so in your head what others tell you can become meaningless.

However show her how much you love her and desire her and I reckon her confidence will increase.

Very wise words Lee"
wise & true

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

A lot of women have confidence issue and these days a lot of men and others in community also suffer from time to time .

All you can do its give her your love and devotion and hopefully her confidence will grow also lot of support from good people here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to the people who understand nice to know nice people are in the world as well

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

I've found as I've got older that sexiness is a state of mind, if you believe you are attractive that will show and people will be attracted to you... I've also learnt to be kind to myself we all come in different shapes and sizes xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've found as I've got older that sexiness is a state of mind, if you believe you are attractive that will show and people will be attracted to you... I've also learnt to be kind to myself we all come in different shapes and sizes xx"

Well said

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is amazing

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

She does look fantastic, but it is a difficult situation. No amount of other people telling her she is sexy, won't change how she feels about herself.

TBH all you can do is be supportive, sensitive and be what she needs in all aspects of your relationship. Hopefully things will then work themselves out!

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

She's lovely. If there's any body concerns get yourselves to a nudist beach in the heat of a french summertime. That'll all be swept under the carpet in an afternoon.

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