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How soon do you share a face pic?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you are message by someone new, it’s not a bad message but you haven’t picked up that vibe yet (it may come) and they ask for a face picture. Do you send one?

How soon is too soon to be asked? After the first initial message?

I know attraction is key but personally I like to check I’m getting on with someone before I do. There’s factors I consider too, are they meet verified, profile bio, site supporter, photos on profile. I always send one when comfortable.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Usually in the first couple of messages.

The mr

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By *tar80sWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I send one when I am comfortable. I could care less what they have to say. If they've had issues before - how is that my problem?

Just keep doing what you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On request if needed xx

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By *aldarkchociceMan
over a year ago

Hull

I like to see who I’m chatting to. Ideally after the first 2 messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give it weeks

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

No one needs to send me a message as I mostly have a couple on show anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. And I don't ask for them. But if they send definitely immediately (first message or after I've replied once) feels less weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tricky one , i always send a picture with my messages and their response usually gives me a indication as to if its worth carrying on the conversion, if things are going well I'll probably ask them a few messages in but not make it sound forceful , if they say no then they will send one when they feel comfortable

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By *oody BondMan
over a year ago

Sligo

It depends. If they have no verifications, never. If they are clearly well verified, i'll send one straight away. If im unsure, i'll send when comfortable to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I alway attach one or two if I am messaging someone for the first time.

It isn't blind date, if they don't respond, or say not for us/me, I leave a comment on their file not to message again.

Its important to exchange face pictures early in my humble opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you get a good vibe and have common ground then we like to exchange face pics , not with single guys though , that gets sent out on the night of the fun , otherwise 2 thirds of fab would have your face pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I alway attach one or two if I am messaging someone for the first time.

It isn't blind date, if they don't respond, or say not for us/me, I leave a comment on their file not to message again.

Its important to exchange face pictures early in my humble opinion. "

I understand this thinking however as a woman I get 100s of messages. I reply to atleast 10-20 a day. That’s a lot of people with my face pic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I alway attach one or two if I am messaging someone for the first time.

It isn't blind date, if they don't respond, or say not for us/me, I leave a comment on their file not to message again.

Its important to exchange face pictures early in my humble opinion.

I understand this thinking however as a woman I get 100s of messages. I reply to atleast 10-20 a day. That’s a lot of people with my face pic! "

I understand that also, I have a partner and her account is absolute madness.... However the ice as to be broken at some point.

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

I have some on my profile, I would expect one back in the first few messages

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

On request

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By *un-n-frolicsMan
over a year ago

London

Depends how desperate I’m feeling at that moment…

Ideally, prefer to make sure there’s a potential vibe first. But that needn’t take long, if they know how to write. Two messages plus their profile should be fine.

But so many female profiles say, “face pic with first message!” or suchlike. And when I suggest there should be rapport before sharing they don’t know what I’m talking about.

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By *wales_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We don’t do face pics on here at all. Will happily send via another means as and when a rapport has been established.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send one with initial message but I don't expect one back - if there is a reply and a pic then great but I don't expect.

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By *lud4you2Man
over a year ago

Dunstable

Simple.. I have it as my dp ????? ??

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

If I get good vibes in the first couple of messages then I will share. No point sending more and more messages to find eventually there is no physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will share face pics quite early on as being attracted to their face is quite important. That being said, if they’ve sent a message asking for face pics and haven’t attached any themselves, we’re a bit apprehensive about sending them.

Helps you can always set them to delete when read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are visible. I absolutely do understand that people need or want to be discreet.

Like my bio says I'm really not here to make anyone's life difficult but if there is no attraction the conversation is pointless. I want to be attracted to that person and like their personality if one is missing I do not meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll send one with first message,attraction is key and after that we can find out if we get on

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I will only share one if I feel comfortable enough with the person. It rarely happens and takes a long time but then I’m not really actively looking on here. I prefer meeting people on organised socials where you can interact face to face and see if there’s attraction or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind after the first few messages if we already have an idea if we like them or not

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We’ll share relatively early if the profile is quite well verified and they’re obviously in the lifestyle.

We won’t share first with new profiles and will expect some chat first to find out who they are and what they like.

What gets us riled is the people who put in their profile “face pic with first message or we’ll block” and then send us a message without a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really not inclined to show my face for a while. Nor do I expect others to. I'm mulling over not showing it at all on here, only when we move to Telegram.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how verified they are. If they're trustworthy, much sooner than a profile with no veris

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

When we feel comfortable with them, and have built up a rapport. Could be five messages, could be dozens

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By *ilkstressWoman
over a year ago

Drasnia

It depends on when I feel comfortable enough to send them my pic. Usually this takes a few messages. But I never send a face pic after just receiving one message - well, except for when playing a forum game!

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I don't. I already have face pics on my profile, so don't see the point in sending additional ones.

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

I don't, have them in friend's only. I just don't have many friends to see them.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"It depends on when I feel comfortable enough to send them my pic. Usually this takes a few messages. But I never send a face pic after just receiving one message - well, except for when playing a forum game! "
exactly this

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