FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Under 25s parties?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So me and a female friend have been thinking of starting to host parties for people ages 18-25. As it’s really hard to find genuine people in the younger community.

The idea would be a safe place for younger swingers to interact we no pressures. There would be a limit to males to stop it being a cock fest. We’d start small with 8-10 people a night but then would look at expanding if things went well.

In the future it we would look at rent clubs for themed night and bigger events if we found it was successful.

Overall we just want the younger communities opinion on this idea.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Considering you're "24" ... you aren't giving yourself many party hosting days... reminds me of Townhouses under 40s parties were the host is older then the event requirement and won't show ID but wants everyone else's.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve only just turned 24 so 2 years is plenty of time to have some fun. This wouldn’t be a business idea anything just a way to meet new people.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there any evidence this female friend exists? All your veris are from people over 25. It won’t be easy getting people to come to a party hosted by a random single man.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *wo for luckCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

That’s way too few people. Under 35 or 40 is more realistic.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s the female friend in my most recent video. We would create a joint account with photos of us together. But this is just to see people opinion on it to see if it’d be worth our time.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a worry for us, this is why we’d like to gauge the interest

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a worry for us, this is why we’d like to gauge the interest "

I could see it working. Mrs was 25 when we started and always pointed out the lack of younger people at clubs. I think a bigger age bracket is needed though. Plus you’d need ID from everyone so anonymity goes out the window and that could be a problem.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve only just turned 24 so 2 years is plenty of time to have some fun. This wouldn’t be a business idea anything just a way to meet new people. "

Seems weird that you want to meet 18yr olds at 24 though. Seems too young

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest


"This is a worry for us, this is why we’d like to gauge the interest

I could see it working. Mrs was 25 when we started and always pointed out the lack of younger people at clubs. I think a bigger age bracket is needed though. Plus you’d need ID from everyone so anonymity goes out the window and that could be a problem."

When townhouse done under 40s, a part of the couple weren't allowed to be over 40 either.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That was just a starting age bracket but from the feed I feeling like a 20-30 chat would be a better bracket.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a worry for us, this is why we’d like to gauge the interest

I could see it working. Mrs was 25 when we started and always pointed out the lack of younger people at clubs. I think a bigger age bracket is needed though. Plus you’d need ID from everyone so anonymity goes out the window and that could be a problem.

When townhouse done under 40s, a part of the couple weren't allowed to be over 40 either. "

That’s another problem. There’s 7 years between us and we have looked at those events aimed at a younger crowd. I best get one booked before I get any older

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That was just a starting age bracket but from the feed I feeling like a 20-30 chat would be a better bracket. "

You’d still need ID to make sure people are over 18 or you could be in trouble.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Age is a poo way to filter potential friends. Open your mind up to new experiences. Age based bias is not the way forward!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest


"This is a worry for us, this is why we’d like to gauge the interest

I could see it working. Mrs was 25 when we started and always pointed out the lack of younger people at clubs. I think a bigger age bracket is needed though. Plus you’d need ID from everyone so anonymity goes out the window and that could be a problem.

When townhouse done under 40s, a part of the couple weren't allowed to be over 40 either.

That’s another problem. There’s 7 years between us and we have looked at those events aimed at a younger crowd. I best get one booked before I get any older "

Same ... 7 years for us too- but know many couples who have an larger age gap or just over. You know some events attract a younger crowd so we head that way. I.e. uv parties, raves, 00s etc.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a worry for us, this is why we’d like to gauge the interest

I could see it working. Mrs was 25 when we started and always pointed out the lack of younger people at clubs. I think a bigger age bracket is needed though. Plus you’d need ID from everyone so anonymity goes out the window and that could be a problem.

When townhouse done under 40s, a part of the couple weren't allowed to be over 40 either.

That’s another problem. There’s 7 years between us and we have looked at those events aimed at a younger crowd. I best get one booked before I get any older

Same ... 7 years for us too- but know many couples who have a larger age gap or just over. You know some events attract a younger crowd so we head that way. I.e. uv parties, raves, 00s etc. "

We’ve been to a few but never to the ones specifically for younger crowds.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is a poo way to filter potential friends. Open your mind up to new experiences. Age based bias is not the way forward! "

Sexual preference is not bias.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Age is a poo way to filter potential friends. Open your mind up to new experiences. Age based bias is not the way forward!

Sexual preference is not bias."

Much agreed

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.


"Age is a poo way to filter potential friends. Open your mind up to new experiences. Age based bias is not the way forward!

Sexual preference is not bias."

No but closing the door, metaphorically to a 26 year old is a bit silly!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is a poo way to filter potential friends. Open your mind up to new experiences. Age based bias is not the way forward!

Sexual preference is not bias.

No but closing the door, metaphorically to a 26 year old is a bit silly! "

How? If someone wants to meet 18-25 year olds that is their choice.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.


"Age is a poo way to filter potential friends. Open your mind up to new experiences. Age based bias is not the way forward!

Sexual preference is not bias.

No but closing the door, metaphorically to a 26 year old is a bit silly!

How? If someone wants to meet 18-25 year olds that is their choice."

What difference does 1 day make? You could be 25 and 364 days old then 26 years old! It’s a preposterous arbitrary line in the sand!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Age is a poo way to filter potential friends. Open your mind up to new experiences. Age based bias is not the way forward!

Sexual preference is not bias.

No but closing the door, metaphorically to a 26 year old is a bit silly!

How? If someone wants to meet 18-25 year olds that is their choice.

What difference does 1 day make? You could be 25 and 364 days old then 26 years old! It’s a preposterous arbitrary line in the sand! "

What you say is true , but people have to choose their filters otherwise they would be scrolling through however many tens of thousands users on here.

If they have found they are more commonly attracted to people closer to their age and want to use that as a filter where is the skin off your nose

If they miss out on an amazing 25 and 366 day year old , its only them that have lost out so who cares

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yanShireMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

Best of luck to you. I got into the scene at a young age and met lots of wonderful people but almost always a significant age gap. Would have liked to have known more likeminded people my age at the time.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What difference does 1 day make? You could be 25 and 364 days old then 26 years old! It’s a preposterous arbitrary line in the sand! "

In my experience, many people already set their search preferences outside their usual bounds, to allow contact from the exceptional that may not fit their usual mould, but they would be flexible towards.

These parameters may seem arbitrary but no one (largely females) wants to trawl through messages from people they are simply not interested in meeting as they fall outside of their age preferences.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

The Allure under 39s nights at TH were great fun! I'd say the average age was early 30s but there was a group of students in their early 20s in on one night. Some were definitely the wrong side of 39 tho.... It felt like there was a lot more excitement and trepidation compared to nights with more 'seasoned' swingers.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age is a poo way to filter potential friends. Open your mind up to new experiences. Age based bias is not the way forward!

Sexual preference is not bias.

No but closing the door, metaphorically to a 26 year old is a bit silly!

How? If someone wants to meet 18-25 year olds that is their choice.

What difference does 1 day make? You could be 25 and 364 days old then 26 years old! It’s a preposterous arbitrary line in the sand! "

So where do you suggest they draw the line? They could say 26 but miss out on someone 27 + 1 day and that could continue until they’re ploughing people who’ve just received the letter from King Charlie.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *lcoupleneCouple
over a year ago

morpeth

We’re slightly over the bracket but definitely gravitate towards events for under 40’s as that’s our preference.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top