FabSwingers.com forum: Question for tvs and sissies

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is your desire to dress purely sexually driven or is there other motives?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think mine is sexual at all to be honest.

I don't "get off" on it. It's not a "kink". I just feel particularly comfortable when I present more feminine. When I get properly dolled up it can be to go to a meet/swingers club or just to sit at home with my camera and record a vlog, or (more rarely) go on a vanilla night out.

For me personally, I find the word "sissy" offensive. Same with femboy. I appreciate that autogynophiles sometimes get off on this kind of chat but call me a sissy and see how quickly your ass gets blocked

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

Mines purely sexual

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By *eckyxxxxxxTV/TS
over a year ago

northeast

"I don't think mine is sexual at all to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It started off that way, but now it's... oh, not sure even I know!

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Its sexual for me

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By *istress B and BrookeCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sexual and Liberating. Opportunity to escape from the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s sexual! Love the feeling of getting dressed for fun

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Mostly sexual but I do enjoy going to Barr's, clubs and nights out as Alex.

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By *oanne ETV/TS
over a year ago

Near Warrington

Initially it was purely sexually driven, as I simply got more attention as a CD (and more shags lol). However now I'm really into dressing especially shoe and stockings shopping. If I get sex it's a welcome bonus but I just enjoy the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think mine is sexual at all to be honest.

I completely agree and find being with a TV / TS partner a much deeper connection

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I have a love of the feel of the fabrics on my skin which stimulates my senses.

I enjoy the transformation from caterpillar to butterfly.

This can't but start to stimulate sexual desire so I guess the two can't be separated,

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I am still at the crossdressing stage, for me it was never a sexual thing. That was merely a by product of me crossdressing.

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By *ucy1004TV/TS
over a year ago

Retford

"I don't think mine is sexual at all to be honest.

I'm similar to this. I feel more confortable and confident as Lucy. Love going out shopping/lunch/drinks as Lucy. I feel that femanine clothes are just so much nicer in the touch and look, plus I just love applying make up and painting my nails. Plus I started when at a primary school age so can say that its not just a sexual thing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sexual.

I enjoy sex when I'm dressed but I dress mainly for me and to express my other personality.

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By *urhamdebbiecdTV/TS
over a year ago

bishop auckland

Sexual mainly but sometimes to relax and feel free and feminine x

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By *ecker30Man
over a year ago

Northwich

Purely sexual

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I think for many of us, it was a sexual fetish … my love of stockings / nylons is where I began.

These days, there is still a sexual element - I love feeling feminine and sexy when dressed -particularly for a night out (or in!!), but also, going out dressed I love just being feminine, and treated as a lady - I find it quite liberating, and a buzz too.

R xx

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I think there arecquite a few girls for whom it's more than sexual. I've always had quite a feminine empathy.

Yes, dressing is sexual, but it also allows me to better feel that feminine aspect of myself, even though I don't go out dressed. I'm different when I'm Davina.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Everyone to their own I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

"Is your desire to dress purely sexually driven or is there other motives? "

It's a bit of everything..for me.. there does seem to be a lot less sex these days partly because I scare most people off and also I've probably got more fussy...so no it's no way as sexually driven as it was..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Suppose only fair I answer my own question.

To me it's not really sexual, it was just the chance to express another side of me. The act of putting on panties etc did not get me hard.

I knew there were occasions where my looks got others hard and that was nice to know.

Have done little sexual with men while dressed but do think about it.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

There is definitely a sexual thrill I take from dressing up.

But also, I just love how I look when I'm dressed up. There is a big part of me that wishes I could look that way all the time.

I feel attractive in a way I never do when I'm in guy mode.

I feel pretty... Oh so pretty

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By *oxy4youTV/TS
over a year ago

Henfield

For me it’s a bit of both really, I enjoy wearing women’s clothes even if it’s not leading to sex i casually wear leggings and lingerie every day.I also like dressing up for a meet but there is no way I’m going out looking like that lol . Looking to go to a club soon though x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is definitely a sexual thrill I take from dressing up.

But also, I just love how I look when I'm dressed up. There is a big part of me that wishes I could look that way all the time.

I feel attractive in a way I never do when I'm in guy mode.

I feel pretty... Oh so pretty

I get that. I used to be told was better looking as female than male. Definitely had more interest in clothes and fashion for my female side than my male side.

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By *aturesub60Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Sexual for me ( but have not fully dressed for years..)

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By *dtanyaTV/TS
over a year ago

gallowayshire

O yes sex cock n cum

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Good question OP. For me it's more than just a sexual thing. Happy to just spend time expressing my other side. Even if no sex is involved at all.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

For me it's about expressing a different persona, gender fuckery and playing against gender typical roles. Also love the drag king asthetic.

I think of 'orpheus' as my twin brother. Its not sexual for me as such, but Orpheus is a randy little sod I have discovered.

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

"O yes sex cock n cum"
I would enjoy giving you my cock n cum

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By *rincess_nikki_transgurlTV/TS
1 week ago

salford

I think it starts off as gender euphoric. When you see her fir the first time, it's like the stars align and the body finally aligns with the soul.

For most, this is all they need and can later go back to their day to day life, but for some of us, this IS now day to day life and we need to spend time finding "office suitable" outfits so we don't scare thr normies. And we get our names down on extremely long waiting lists for hormones and pussy installation appointments 🙄

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
1 week ago

Bedford

For me it's not about looking or feeling feminine, it's about bring the inner sex bomb out. If dressing like a clown made me feel more sexual I would.

I don't affiliate to any political, gay rights, pride, lgbt organisations.

If I feel and look sexy in what I wear I go for it. I don't get turned on wearing a track suit and trainers.

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By *obbiKentMan
1 week ago

maidstone

Purely sexual if I dress, and all about the people I am meeting. With some, it just feels sexy

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By *exysteph6999TV/TS
1 week ago

Nr Birmingham

"Purely sexual if I dress, and all about the people I am meeting. With some, it just feels sexy

This is also me

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By *lutsadieTV/TS
1 week ago

Hinckley

I believe it's a bit of both to be honest

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By *otfunx1Man
1 week ago

Edinburgh

I love how it makes me feel and look. Changes way I am when I'm femme x

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By *uicylucychesterTV/TS
6 days ago

Chester

I just love the dressing, probably wanted to be a girl from a young age. Love the effect my sexy clothes have on guys and other tgirls.

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By *avincorkMan
6 days ago

cork

Same here have always love to feel like a women and dressing is my comfort blanket when stressed, oh and makes me feel sexy lol

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
6 days ago

Cheshire

It’s part fetish that you get to wear something that you find erotic which is a wonderful way to feel inner peace and sexual pleasure.

However it’s not always about sexual relief, once dressed and feeling comfortable in yourself it’s like a drug, you want to be able to express this side of yourself more. This can be out shopping (not dressed in over the top clothing) or in places that welcome us, mainly LGBTQI establishments that offer safety and no judgement.

I have just recently started enjoying the sissy scene as I like the extreme feminine clothing, ribbons, bows, lace, chiffon, silks and satin type of dress. But this is something for clubs or private events to wear I wouldn’t be comfortable out in public wearing a sissy dress, unless it was at Sparkle or some other fetish event.

I totally understand why some Tgirls hate the term ‘sissy’ but for me it’s just part of play and being in that mindset. With a partner that understands it’s a fantastic dynamic between us.

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By *avincorkMan
6 days ago

cork

Very well put Steph

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By *endi LiquorTV/TS
2 days ago

newry

For me I go by the term tv not sissy as it's more of a fetish term.

Dressing fit me isn't something I do to meet guys, as I've went to socials purely for the social aspect.

It's nice that organisers have these events and they're inclusive to everyone.

Dressing for me is something I do for fun as I enjoy the transformation and making myself look feminine. A lot of other dressers do it for there enjoyment more than anything.

Finding new outfits looking into wigs, styling them.

Finding different outfits, makeup looks etc just adds to the pleasure of a completed look for me.

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
2 days ago

Dudley

Difficult question to answer, ive been asking myself why I dress since day one, At the start I think it was a Fetish and stayed that way until 15yrs when I started dressing fully with wigs n makeup and then started to turn sexual, the next step was actually going out in public dressed, Ive come along way and love the social side of things, I don’t go out of my way looking for sexual encounters but sometimes it just happens spontaneously, I dress for my own benefit…. If others like what they see then that’s a bonus

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By *oppet22TV/TS
2 days ago

huddersfield

Sexual started with just underwear at a young age and now fully makes me feel right too

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By *nalleesaMan
2 days ago

Chester

"Sexual and Liberating. Opportunity to escape from the real world "
exactly this xx

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