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Messaged abuse then blocked

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

So you get messaged some abuse, they argue their point, they are ultimately proven wrong and they block.

Is it bad I kinda like it, why start an argument you can't finish, or is it that they don't expect a response because it's the Mrs?

Anyways do you respond to arguements/abuse in the inbox or are you straight to block?

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *eastXMan
over a year ago

London

It depends if you feel that the disagreement is a result of miscommunication or plain abuse.

Abusive messages shouldn't even the respect of a response, just ignore/block. However, if I feel there was miscommunication, I elaborate and then reassess based on the nature of the interaction.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Abuse, report and block.

People telling me I'm wrong. Ignore.

People with a coherent and informed opinion at odds with mine, respectfully articulated. Friend request.

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By *lack Dynamite 100Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

It depends upon the context of the argument/discussion. Some people may not be worth the time, if they are totally ignorant and hateful and take too much energy. On the other hand, may be worth educating because they may not have web or experienced things on the other side of the topic they’re talking about, or may have misread or misinterpreted data.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends, I sometimes ignore, I sometimes express.

I see it as, their actions/words are a reflection upon them, my actions/words a reflection upon myself.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Never really come across this but I wouldn't rise to it adding further fuel too the fire a simple block and report best way forward

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I like to hear other view points and try to understand why a person thinks the way they do, so I often entertain them until it becomes actually abusive.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I usually block beforehand, so they are unable to send any, especially if I see the potential ones coming from certain forum threads.

Just another handy tool to use, I guess.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I like to hear other view points and try to understand why a person thinks the way they do, so I often entertain them until it becomes actually abusive."

Yes I was entertaining it while trying to show with proof that in fact they were incorrect, then barrage of abuse and blocked before I even had a chance to respond.

It's kind of nice to know they had nothing of importance to respond, maybe a sorry I was incorrect but this is fab after all.

Still it made my coffee slightly more entertaining.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No have had abusive messages of women as well as men

I tend to always ignore and move on as most just tend to be abusive straight away

Don’t usually end up adding fuel to fire

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I usually block beforehand, so they are unable to send any, especially if I see the potential ones coming from certain forum threads.

Just another handy tool to use, I guess. "

Pre blocking I like this!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Never had any, but it would be an instant block. Who needs that from strangers?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Abuse, report and block.

People telling me I'm wrong. Ignore.

People with a coherent and informed opinion at odds with mine, respectfully articulated. Friend request.

"

This.

A

*except the friends request bit.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"No have had abusive messages of women as well as men

I tend to always ignore and move on as most just tend to be abusive straight away

Don’t usually end up adding fuel to fire "

Yes it's definitely not one sex over the other, I guess my opinions on forums are very blunt so I do expect the odd one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight block for me x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Abuse, report and block.

People telling me I'm wrong. Ignore.

People with a coherent and informed opinion at odds with mine, respectfully articulated. Friend request.

This.

A

*except the friends request bit.

"

Yeah I meant to after but I'd already had to re-type once .

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Any abusive messages would lead to the account being reported and blocked immediately. At the end of the day, we're all here for a good time and nobody deserves to be abused.

Sounds like you had a good ol' keyboard warrior with a blunt sword who realised they were wrong and didn't have the self-reflective capability to take that fact on!

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you get messaged some abuse, they argue their point, they are ultimately proven wrong and they block.

Is it bad I kinda like it, why start an argument you can't finish, or is it that they don't expect a response because it's the Mrs?

Anyways do you respond to arguements/abuse in the inbox or are you straight to block?

Mrs "

Delete the first abusive message. Block. Forget.

Life’s too short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to reply

‘if you need to paint me a certain way to feel better that’s ok but it’s nothing to do with me so time to block but take care and I hope you feel better soon’

Then block, it’s probably passive aggressive but I only use it if pushed so meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had it a few times someone messages you so they can fuck you but you message back saying not for us and we get abused and blocked hahaha.

Then we've had it where you get sick of messaging back saying not for us and they send another message back with abuse and block us hahaha.

we never get to put our abuse in lol alot on here think because its a swinging site that you will just meet anyone and let them fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a few years on Fab on joint and solo profiles I’ve neither the time, energy or patience to spar with strangers I will never meet.

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By *678Man
over a year ago

Surrey

Typically I’ll share a fair few winks back and forth, get a message of interest, say hello back and then they disappear and block

Madness at times on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't got the time to sit on fab arguing about some unimportant crap with someone we'll never get to meet and that would be the case with any social media.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Straight block.

Gone consigned to history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have fun with them myself, let them dig there own hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had to deal with it on here tbh but I feel bad for those who have had it done. It’s not right. I guess I’d block straight away. I feel like getting the last word in and then blocking is what they want and the satisfaction of doing it without the backlash.

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

Muppets who post abuse, or just message abuse to you aren’t worth your energy.

Report, block, move on.

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By *r and Mrs GravestoneCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

Depends but mostly ignore and block. I think sometimes they are just looking to get some kind of power by wanting a response. Ignoring & blocking takes that power away & hopefully makes them feel even less of a person than they thought they were.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I don't think I've had any abusive or negative messages here... ever.

There's only a couple on my block list, and they're only there because I got sick of seeing in my update feed the same (gross) photo they posted over and over, day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year... I mean why the same ghastly pic on endless repeat? Sorry, for labouring that point, but it's put me off doner kebabs for life FFS!

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