FabSwingers.com forum: Does being on your period mean no sex for you?

By *ohoho OP Woman
over a year ago

Up North

I just wondered what everyone else thought. To me it's no issue, just no oral, but I know a few find it yucky. What is the general opinion? Should I not arrange any meets for one week of the month?

. Also what's the politest way of telling someone? I told one guy I had my monthly visitors, he thought I had a group of friends who visited Manchester once a month

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I just tell people it's "not a good time of the month"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, however, it is no longer an issue as I don't have periods anymore.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I just say I am on my period. Saves confusion all round.

I won't play with strangers when I am on. Seems a bit unfair for them too look down and see their cock all bloody. But men I have met for a while seem fine with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just tell men straight sorry im not meeting as its my period. Bummer though as im usually really horny.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Time of the month.

I would never enjoy sex covered in clots and slop ,smelling of iron and looking like an extra in chainsaw.

No No No No ..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I continue to meet.. as i rarely get touched below the waist during play.. so wouldnt make much difference

Cali

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I just tell men straight sorry im not meeting as its my period. Bummer though as im usually really horny.

Im horny the week before. The day before I could nab any old knacker n jiggle them about for an hour or so .....

The day I come on I have a return to sanity.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

My opinion is the same as your's, it doesn't stop anything other than oral.

Aside from that, I'm at my horniest when Mother Nature visits so if Vince wasn't into it, I'd be climbing the walls!

As for meets, just tell them and ask if they're ok with that - You'll only get a simple yes or no *Shrugs*.

Not being funny, but it's a natural thing that all women go/have been through. I don't find anything disgusting about it and luckily for me, neither does Vince.

All it needs is putting a towel down.

- Amy. x

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By *ohoho OP Woman
over a year ago

Up North

"I just tell men straight sorry im not meeting as its my period. Bummer though as im usually really horny.

That's the issue - I am also horniest around this time of month!

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By *ohoho OP Woman
over a year ago

Up North

"I just tell men straight sorry im not meeting as its my period. Bummer though as im usually really horny.

Im horny the week before. The day before I could nab any old knacker n jiggle them about for an hour or so .....

The day I come on I have a return to sanity."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last two months I've managed to come on during a meet...fortunately both times were with regulars.

However, as I have a mirena coil I'm only on very very lightly - just some discolouration for a couple of days, I don't even use tampax. So I play anyway and just say no oral.

And yes it's a very horny time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell the prospective meet upfront, and let him/them decide whether to meet or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to cancel a meet last month because I unexpectedly had a heavy period, although it never bothered me or my ex partner it's different when meeting someone for the first time, and with a hotel meet it's also the embarrassment of the mess left behind, but as with most things it's up to the individual I suppose. Oh and I doubt I could comfortably hold my bloated tummy in for long either. lol

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By *ohoho OP Woman
over a year ago

Up North

"My opinion is the same as your's, it doesn't stop anything other than oral.

Aside from that, I'm at my horniest when Mother Nature visits so if Vince wasn't into it, I'd be climbing the walls!

As for meets, just tell them and ask if they're ok with that - You'll only get a simple yes or no *Shrugs*.

Not being funny, but it's a natural thing that all women go/have been through. I don't find anything disgusting about it and luckily for me, neither does Vince.

All it needs is putting a towel down.

- Amy. x"

Thanks Amy. I quite agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i call it ladies week - the mini pill im on has made them virtually non existent so all good here - in the past if it wasnt too heavy its wasnt a problem just as most say - no oral xxx then you get to share a shower -

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"My opinion is the same as your's, it doesn't stop anything other than oral.

Aside from that, I'm at my horniest when Mother Nature visits so if Vince wasn't into it, I'd be climbing the walls!

As for meets, just tell them and ask if they're ok with that - You'll only get a simple yes or no *Shrugs*.

Not being funny, but it's a natural thing that all women go/have been through. I don't find anything disgusting about it and luckily for me, neither does Vince.

All it needs is putting a towel down.

- Amy. x"

Having a shit is natural too ... snot is natural ......ermmm spit is natural..... ear wax...

I don't judge those that do play..... I just wouldn't

I do everything but at those times.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"My opinion is the same as your's, it doesn't stop anything other than oral.

Aside from that, I'm at my horniest when Mother Nature visits so if Vince wasn't into it, I'd be climbing the walls!

As for meets, just tell them and ask if they're ok with that - You'll only get a simple yes or no *Shrugs*.

Not being funny, but it's a natural thing that all women go/have been through. I don't find anything disgusting about it and luckily for me, neither does Vince.

All it needs is putting a towel down.

- Amy. x

Having a shit is natural too ... snot is natural ......ermmm spit is natural..... ear wax...

I don't judge those that do play..... I just wouldn't

I do everything but at those times."

Lovely wording as ever, Granny. XD

However, aside from spit, none of those things go near a meet's cock.

I'd be rather shocked if anything tried to roger my nose or my ears! I blame Family Guy for that last one!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Oh wait, poo...some people are into that, remember!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Period sex is not for me buteach to their own...

I just say mother nature has reared her ugly head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how well I know the meet. If I am relaxed with them and vice versa then maybe, but its a nono with new meets. Not a great intro I dont think...

" Hi, lets have lots of hot sex, oh, and Im bleeding like Ive been shot in the do-daas".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got beppe sponges so it would simply depend on how swollen/bloated I was and when in the cycle.

Im super horny just before and sometimes during too :D

Towards the end, I just want to sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wondered what everyone else thought. To me it's no issue, just no oral, but I know a few find it yucky. What is the general opinion? Should I not arrange any meets for one week of the month?

. Also what's the politest way of telling someone? I told one guy I had my monthly visitors, he thought I had a group of friends who visited Manchester once a month

To me, its no bother. Its quite intimate for me real. But im still yet to meet someone from this site who us into it as much as me. I love that time of the month, they are usually hornier than usual.

I cant stop myself from giving oral, even if its that time of the month..only done it with women that i am comfortable with.

Each to their own. I hope you have a good time regardless at that time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am usually insatiably horny just before im "on".

I have played with a few regular chaps during my period. I wouldn't with a new meet. One thing i've noticed on here, there are plenty of men that still want to meet when i am "on" !

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

If the 'time of the month' is visiting we swap to anal with added clit stimulator. We do DO anal anyway but it's a guaranteed that time of month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a trick you can do with a sponge when you're on which stops any problems x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My opinion is the same as your's, it doesn't stop anything other than oral.

Aside from that, I'm at my horniest when Mother Nature visits so if Vince wasn't into it, I'd be climbing the walls!

As for meets, just tell them and ask if they're ok with that - You'll only get a simple yes or no *Shrugs*.

Not being funny, but it's a natural thing that all women go/have been through. I don't find anything disgusting about it and luckily for me, neither does Vince.

All it needs is putting a towel down.

- Amy. x"

It would not stop me from meeting, even if it was our first meet. I would understand if she didn't want to meet because she was on her period and it would make her uncomfortable. As for oral, well, it never stopped me from going down on my wife (ex-wife).

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By *stwo2011Couple
over a year ago

dundee

A Scottish saying.....there's been a murder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to do everything with a woman while she's on her period. Mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not contemplate it, normally tired, bloated and ready to murder anything or anyone.

I just say can't play as Mother Nature is here, wouldn't even meet, M gets the benefit of extra time spent on him during that time.

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By *ohoho OP Woman
over a year ago

Up North

Thanks everyone, I really appreciate your help with this one. I will be looking into that sponge though x. Happy Monday x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also try a softcup , from boots

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

The monthly visitor is the reason we do anal

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By *anyoufeelmeMan
over a year ago

near you

10 out of 10 for the last comment - wish all woman followed that very sound logic xxxxxxx

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By *ite manMan
over a year ago

Manchester

nothing wrong with a bit of red play lol

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By *orset manMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I was once told no sex tonight as I have the ' painters in' -I had never heard that term before .My reply 'surely the painters won't be there after 10 tonight'

You can imagine the laughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real man doesn't mind getting blood on his sword!

(I've used that one before on a similar thread, but I do like the expression)

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By *ite manMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone

Whats this 'sponge trick ' We have cancelled meets due to Mother f@#*ng nature visiting !!!

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By *uriouscouple93Man
over a year ago

chadderton

Mothere Nature has intervened, just like the telly advert lol x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wondered what everyone else thought. To me it's no issue, just no oral, but I know a few find it yucky. What is the general opinion? Should I not arrange any meets for one week of the month?

. Also what's the politest way of telling someone? I told one guy I had my monthly visitors, he thought I had a group of friends who visited Manchester once a month

surely thats upto you and who your meeting, if your happy to play while your on and you get chatting to a guy who is also happy to play while your on why wouldnt you not?

Theres quite a fetish for it if you look, lots of guys love a bit of blood sport, i even know guys who will perform oral on you while your on, i know i mix with some odd people lol

Its each to their own, theres nothing wrong with it if thats what you both want

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