FabSwingers.com forum: Who provides the condoms?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always play safe. When arranging a meet I make sure I state that. However in a one to one situation who is expected to pay for protection.? I always carry a spare as I have had men turn up without

but should we be the provider?

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Surely should be the bloke imo though may be best you have spare incase yano some them guys condoms been in the wallet for years

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Penises are variable in size & girth, so one size does not fit all.

Guys should know which brand/ size suits them best, and bring their own to ensure a good fit.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Always carry one. The same one. Since 2002. Ever faithful....

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

The guy who is meeting you.

End of

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

private

I always check before a meet if they have any or if I need to buy some. Shouldn’t just fall on the guy.

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By *IRRAL VOYUERMan
over a year ago

Rock Ferry

I always make sure I have condoms

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We always took our own because o have a latex allergy.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

There are condoms for females to just food for thought

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I always carry some durex invisible / real feel in case she pulls out extra thick and ribbed for her pleasure

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

The person with the penis that it has to fit on. Partners can't be expected to keep a stock of every size just in case

LvM

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We met a guy just out of a long marriage. It didn't occur to him that condoms would be needed, luckily we had plenty. He did too the next time

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I always play safe. When arranging a meet I make sure I state that. However in a one to one situation who is expected to pay for protection.? I always carry a spare as I have had men turn up without

but should we be the provider? "

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Good question, I carry my own, nice though it would be if my playmates bring their own condoms I realise I need to be responsible for my own wellbeing.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"We always took our own because o have a latex allergy. "

Only ones I use non-latex

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By *atfuckerbristolMan
over a year ago

Wells

As a former boy scout I was always encouraged to be prepared.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'd say that the guy would be responsible, for going equipped if he's thinking about dipping his wick

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By *XZRMan
over a year ago

Highland

"I always carry some durex invisible / real feel in case she pulls out extra thick and ribbed for her pleasure

extra thick. Provides an extra inch of girth but what a joy killer.

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I always have a few different ones just in case, but I would expect any potential playmate to have their own preference with them. I make it clear I don’t play without condoms.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"I always play safe. When arranging a meet I make sure I state that. However in a one to one situation who is expected to pay for protection.? I always carry a spare as I have had men turn up without

but should we be the provider? "

Carry a spare ?

We usual bring 10/20/30

You will be surprised how many you go through, swapping between partners etc !

Only a fool would turn up empty handed

And if they did , yhey obviously dont have enough about them to be with us !!

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

The man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take some with me but generally the man has them already...

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By *heoneandonlyEJCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

"There are condoms for females to just food for thought "

They are a bit strange though, at least they were when I tried them years ago, like a stretchy bag big enough to fit your hand in with a gasket-y thing to hold it inside, it’s like inserting a diaphragm, very fiddly, the internal ring used to really resist insertion and ping out. Definitely a passion killer for me. E

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

We take our own as I have latex allergy.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"There are condoms for females to just food for thought "
for some, too hard to swollow.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

"There are condoms for females to just food for thought

I get you, I honestly didn't know the dynamics to them, only recently found out female condoms was a thing so genuinely thank you for a bit of insight into them.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

"There are condoms for females to just food for thought for some, too hard to swollow."

I see what you did there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bring my own. Due to my size, I find skyn XL to be the brand that works for me. Otherwise the blood supply is cut off and I lose my hardness

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Down to the guy I’d think. Partly driven by chivilary and part practicallity (size, fit, material) and if you are generally a latex guy (not me) then also bring a non latex back up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take responsibility for my own sexual health and prefer latex free ones, so would always prefer to use my own as I know they're reputable, in date, been stored correctly etc...

Having said that, I am always suspicious of people who turn up with none as it makes me wonder and suspect that they are expecting or hoping for bareback...

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales

I always have my own and would not expect anyone else to supply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask before a meet if they have got them. I'm happy to buy them if not, but I prefer the guy to, mainly as they know what feels best for them.

I've had guys not bring them before and think I'd just carry on anyway, but they were wrong lol x

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I carry emergency ones, but it should be up to the penis-owner to provide something to their fit, preference and allergy requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have some just incase, i prefer to provide them. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry them for a meet. At least if I provide them then I know they haven't been tampered with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have them then there is no issue ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would I trust someone who insists I use their condom? Would I leave my wad of spaff in a wellington cock sock with those whom I have little knowledge? No. Then why would they trust me if I insist on using my own condom?

Tune in next week.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

"There are condoms for females to just food for thought

I get you, I honestly didn't know the dynamics to them, only recently found out female condoms was a thing so genuinely thank you for a bit of insight into them. "

I actually really like them, and most of my partners who’ve tried them have a strong preference for them too. They’re not currently in production, sadly

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"I always play safe. When arranging a meet I make sure I state that. However in a one to one situation who is expected to pay for protection.? I always carry a spare as I have had men turn up without

but should we be the provider? "

Everyone should carry! We always use our own as we know they’re stored correctly and in date!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well some ladies alergic to latex, and some ladies dont like certain smell/flavour, so ladies also should keep or carry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would supply them as both me and J are allergic to latex. Also we buy them in bulk so even though they are a decent brand (skyns)there cheap.

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By *ornygencplCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Personally i think the bloke should provide safety but then if you know you have your own your guaranteed safe dun xx

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By *itonthesideWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I take responsibility for my own sexual health and prefer latex free ones, so would always prefer to use my own as I know they're reputable, in date, been stored correctly etc...

Having said that, I am always suspicious of people who turn up with none as it makes me wonder and suspect that they are expecting or hoping for bareback..."

All of this for me

They don’t know i am providing so if they turn up without they just gave it away that they usually play bare

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

"I always play safe. When arranging a meet I make sure I state that. However in a one to one situation who is expected to pay for protection.? I always carry a spare as I have had men turn up without

but should we be the provider? "

Primarily, I'd say it should be the man who provides the condoms, but I know of a few ladies that are allergic to latex, and therefore they (the ladies) carry some spare non-latex ones just in case the guy they meet spontaneously (such as at an event) isn't already aware of (or prepared for) said allergies.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

In a club, I have seen condoms being used as a filter for which men to play with. If a man hasn't thought to provide his own, there's a chance he'll be less thoughtful in other ways too.

There are always exceptions, of course. There have been two memorable occasions in which I was happy to donate one of mine - the very likable guy who was doing everything right and had been having a great night and simply ran out.

And the equally likable brand new guy who had intended his first ever time at a club to be purely social - but a friend had taken a liking to him and had other plans...

I always carry more than I expect to need.

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By *otwifingVixenCouple
over a year ago

Northants

"We always took our own because o have a latex allergy. "

Ditto, I'm not great with latex either so I take vinyl condoms in 2 different sizes to every meet

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By *eschef81Man
over a year ago

sutton

"I always carry some durex invisible / real feel in case she pulls out extra thick and ribbed for her pleasure

Just wear it inside out so you get all the pleasure

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Penises are variable in size & girth, so one size does not fit all.

Guys should know which brand/ size suits them best, and bring their own to ensure a good fit."

This

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

"There are condoms for females to just food for thought

I get you, I honestly didn't know the dynamics to them, only recently found out female condoms was a thing so genuinely thank you for a bit of insight into them.

I actually really like them, and most of my partners who’ve tried them have a strong preference for them too. They’re not currently in production, sadly

Ooooh bit of a conflict on the female ones then. I'd definitely love to try myself with the female wearing one, anything to save feeling like my knobs in a headlock tbh. That's a bit shit if they're not in production though would definitely change the emphasis that a man is the one who should wear a condom. Who knows maybe in the future there will be something different to protect both party's.

Also thank you for your feedback on them aswell

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

They do seem to be available on amazon however

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

"They do seem to be available on amazon however

Thankyou! I just went looking and found some

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole

I'm sure it's been said a million times but both should have protection with them.

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple
over a year ago

Watford

"I always play safe. When arranging a meet I make sure I state that. However in a one to one situation who is expected to pay for protection.? I always carry a spare as I have had men turn up without

but should we be the provider? "

Surely both parties will turn up equipped?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

"They do seem to be available on amazon however

Thankyou! I just went looking and found some"

Not a problem pal

now the rest of us blokes need more women willing to give them a try hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would of thought the bloke should have to provide..

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We keep one pinned to the bed frame just in case

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd always make sure I take plenty condoms along with me to any event or meet. As the man, I feel its absolutely my responsibility and would never expect anyone else to have to provide them. Not only that, but I have a preference for brand etc so why not just take mine with me

C x

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

We always bring our own condoms with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always bring your own! From my perspective, I know what works for me, and what doesn’t. If anyone else was to provide, likelihood of poor performance increases.

Also, I will never recommend anyone use a condom with lidocaine in the tip, that’s genuinely 4 hours of mine, and her lives we are never getting back, you can never eradicate that pain

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If all parties wish to had safe sex then all parties should carry protection.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone provides Condoms, stops anything daft.

Oh I forgot to bring them etc

Whenever we have indulged, we brought a bag of stuff with us, this includes condoms (plenty).

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I am latex allergic so could find one or two of the correct kind if required

I guess its everyones responsibilty to be prepared if needs be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the gent... She may only bring one or two... If I'm playing for a few hours then surely you'll need a box of twelve..!

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By *reyerWolfMan
over a year ago

Ferndown

I always make sure I provide, I normally go for the skin brand. As they are Latex free, so no worries about allergies.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

this day and age I think everyone should carry condoms if they are wanting to have safe sex .. simply just as would you trust strangers to have ones in date/not damaged/ nice material etc

I remember some woman once pulled out a ridiculous pack of neon coloured ones , I had to hard swerve on that and use my own .. no way I could take it seriously with a fluro green cock . be like the naked gun ffs

People should be self succinct just in case

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I always bring my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy should because they know their penis better than the woman does. As people have said one size doesn’t fit all. I tried regular and they’re too big. I use onesize custom fit because regular is too tight and large is too long

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I always supply them. Then I know they're not out of date etc lol

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Both parties responsibilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think guys should bring their own but I always have back up.

No condom then your not going in.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I always bring some. The number of men who "forget" is worrying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have my own selection and lube, don't care who else doesn't but I think it's probably a good idea for everyone to have some then always covered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me I’m allergic to latex haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy turns up without protection, can you trust him at all?

At the very least, send him out to buy them. He may object, but you can be sure he wants sex more than you do, if only because women here have an abundance of men to choose from.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I always have my own but do ask in case the other party is allergic to latex

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Got to be the guy surely as they should have ones that fit.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

we always bring along ... we set the parameters of play (e.g. always oral is natural from start to completion) x Anne

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Both, wht would either be willing to take a risk or have expectations on the other to think about making sex safe for both.

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