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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a problem I have had all my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same problem which started happening about 6 years ago.

I started testosterone replacement therapy last year as mine has been shut down by meds and a growth on my pituitary. It’s now gone to the extreme opposite of now I can’t cum from sex or oral and end up having to wank furiously , even then I give up sometimes.

Honestly I would like to go back to premature again because I could always have a break and go again. Even J would prefer it as she can end up sore , and I can too. Not having the satisfaction of ejaculating is very frustrating and can put me into a agitated mood all day.

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Dapoxetine

Medication

Dapoxetine, marketed as Priligy, among others, is a medication used for the treatment of premature ejaculation in men 18–64 years old

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

this is a thing that affected my husband all his sexual life nothing worked for him it doesnt matter now as he permanently limp now to hence hes my cuck ...

but do go to your drs because for alot of people there are things out there that work and dont forget these drs have seen and heard it all and they just want to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wank a little while before sex? Or just cum multiple times with your playmates if you are able?

I'm much more into how the latter feels tbh. Used to have a partner who would cum whilst licking me and be ready to have PIV sex about when I was. He was a bit embarrassed at first. I thought it was one of the sexiest things that had ever happened to me tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me personaly once ive had a few pints find it near impossible too cum through oral or intercourse, its my nipples that are my weak spot

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By *icked Game You PlayMan
over a year ago

Perth


"This is a problem I have had all my life."
priligy 60mg will sort you out.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I have the opposite problem. It can take up to three hours - sometimes not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sertaline makes you last longer but it has long term side effects and can make it hard to get it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found St John's Wort worked once.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"Wank a little while before sex? Or just cum multiple times with your playmates if you are able?

I'm much more into how the latter feels tbh. Used to have a partner who would cum whilst licking me and be ready to have PIV sex about

when I was. He was a bit embarrassed at first. I thought it was one of the sexiest things that had ever happened to me tbh"

I can have same problem, cumming whilst licking and playing, but can go again after short break, problem is in club situation, embarrassing

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Learning to edge during masturbation is a non drug way of learning control. Takes time but well worth the effort

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By *ralius ExperticusMan
over a year ago

Birmingham, London , Manchester

My partner, has just got back from a discreet car meet with a guy we met in a club on Saturday. She always dresses to please, black short skirt, sheer stockings v. high heels low cut top etc "classy milf look" - knowing she wouldn't be anywhere public and not getting out car!

She walked back into house , only gone under an hour, and her skirt and bottom trim of her blouse had tell tale white stain all over them. Apparently, he got in passenger side of her car, they had a chat and started kissing, and she released him from his trousers. Continued to snog whilst she slowly teased and wanked him. All of a sudden she said he groaned, said "oh fuck" and she looked down and his cock was spewing it's spunk over her skirt, stocking tops and up onto her blouse. She was left a little deflated , but insisted he frig her off before he left, so he scooped up some cum off her skirt and rubbed into her clit which always makes her cum. She said "I'm going to meet him again on Friday afternoon and this time I'm going to suck him dry first and then he will last longer if he goes inside me!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love that my inability to last more than ten seconds in my wife has left her frustrated enough that she pretty much let's anyone who shows interest in her fuck her now. Makes me feel even more pathetic as she tells me not to dare cum as I try to please her but can't. Anyone else like this

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By *icky007Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've same problem and doctors saying there is no treatment

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Oh, come now, guys...

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By *eil1955Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Its weird,I either come in an instance or my arm can end up hanging off while trying to!Not sure why,I mean I know its not psychological,I've always been like this.

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By *unseeker100Man
over a year ago

batley

Bizarrely I find a few sniffs of popper once I'm hard managed to keep my spunk at bay for long enough to please most people

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

I'm a long laster sometimes wish I could cum after 20 minutes

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

I'm pathetic tbh. If i enter L i cum almost instantly. Same with my plastic doll.

I may get 20 seconds if L wanks me on the rare occasion she lets me.

Thing is i love it. I love the humiliation and the teasing brings and she loves going out and finding big cocks that last ages .. win win

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By *heikyerboutiMan
over a year ago

Hinckley

I've been on Citalopram to treat depression for most of my adult life. It's also used as a treatment for premature ejaculation. Which is great, if you suffer from premature ejaculation, but I don't, so sometimes I find it difficult to cum.

If the doc says nothing can be done, all about Citalopram. If nothing else, say that premature ejaculation is causing you to be depressed!

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By *uttyandbeeCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have struggled with life long PE ever since we first met. K has had it from the first time. Really frustrating because it's literally over before it begins if not before. It's really embarrassing sometimes. Luckily we have a friend who can really control himself and please. K looks on in awe

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By *icky007Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Same prob nothing is working

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By *evenishMan
over a year ago

Coningsby


"I have the opposite problem. It can take up to three hours - sometimes not at all. "

It takes me ages to cum as well but the upside is that I can keep going for ages. Once I've cum, that's it usually.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

hubs has always had premature ejaculation even before he lost his erection he rarely last we never got to the fucking stage before he popped sometimes before even getting my bra n knickers off ..

nothing worked no dr no consultant nothing but we never sulked about it we just got on with life and lots of swinging he got his pleasure from knowing i was getting pleased and it all became part of the fun...

but for most it is repairable just for some its not and its far more common than let on

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By *r-p-mrs-cCouple
over a year ago

near dumfries

Emla 5% numbing cream.

Use pea size amount around head of penis, 15-20 minutes before sex.

Wipe off before sex or your mouth or pussy will go abit numb.

If he struggles to get hard due to numbness, use cock ring or hair bobble as cock ring.

Thank me later.

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By *more226Man
over a year ago

somewhere wiltshire

That must be so frustrating for both of you it’s also good you have found a way to still find fun together

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast

Doesn't sound like fun, but hey, at least you get to orgasm. Some men don't cum at all, no matter what you do to them

Maybe you need to desensitize your dick a little with rougher masturbation, or go for round 2 and 3 and 4. PC muscles are supposed to help, too

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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago

edge of taunton

can be very premature ie less than 10 seconds most is 60 secounds and alot of them are dry with the wet ones a dribble still feel the orgasum unless its a ruined one now they are wierd the best ones are hands free with mrs putting the doxy a my little thing

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By *oxy502Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I remember my first meeting with a man in his car he undid my jeans and put his hand on my knickers and that was it came in my knickers

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