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By *rPeachPiercedPrincess OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

What do you do, do you wink a profile and when they wink back you then message them?

Don’t you bother winking and just message?

Was it is you do to grab someone’s attention in order to message them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that .

So what happen to me is like they wink at first and if I text them they don’t respond .

So why do they even wink

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By *odders88Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I like a wink as a bit of an ice breaker, in the hope that they wink back. I see a wink as courteous instead of diving straight into a message

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"What do you do, do you wink a profile and when they wink back you then message them?

Don’t you bother winking and just message?

Was it is you do to grab someone’s attention in order to message them?"
I wink and if they wink back then I message them and I only attach face pics only with the first message

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By *olvespairCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Depends on the profile

We'll either wink, fab some photos or message. If we get a wink and we're interested, we would send a message thanking them for the wink and start a conversation x

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By *ongueFkYouMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Depends on the profile

We'll either wink, fab some photos or message. If we get a wink and we're interested, we would send a message thanking them for the wink and start a conversation x"
i just winked at you x

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Depends on the profile if its someone who interests us we will message but if we're not totally sure we wink back then it's up to them to message us

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Im pretty convinced that the site occasionally generates random winks to keep things interesting. I have received winks from profiles that I wouldn't think would be interested in me and who then ignore my return wink or message.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

If I'm too "tired and over emotional" to make sense in a message, I just send winks to random sexy ladies. Who then ignore me. One day someone will respond and I won't know what to do. Though it would be very nice to find myself right side up, upside down, 69, 96, 66, 99 or any other numbers with a trans loving lady...

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By *rPeachPiercedPrincess OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Winking is a good way of breaking the ice definitely

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I wink

They wink back or, block

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

I usually wink by mistake because my fat fingers hit the wrong key! Than end u sending a PM apologising. Usually only serves to antagonise unfortunately!

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

Winking is a good Ice breaker, showing my interest. A pity lots of people don't check winks

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

If I recieve a wink, I will return on. since they initiated the contact I leave it to them to inform me of their interest, I generaly don't chase breadcrumbs but if they do want to message me then, lets see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone winks us, we wink back and see if they send a message. If we wink first, we see if we get one back and then send a message.

To us it’s a quick way to see if both sides like what they see before messaging

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By *gfbMan
over a year ago

thorne

Wink and text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we like the winkers profile we wink back or message, it’s always good to receive and then view who’s sent

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If they wink, we return I'd expect them to message and vice versa.

Sometimes if I'm very interested in the profile and they wink I'll message rather than wink back, depends on my mood and if I've time for a conversation.

Mrs

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By *uriouscayotesCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

We wink. They wink back. We message. They don’t message back. Full of winkers this place

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By *xhibitionisticvoyeurMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

I wink, they wink, I message, no reply.

They wink, I wink,no message.

I use it to indicate I like someone's profile and I might potentialy be of interest to them.

No idea what others use it for but there doesn't seem to be any consistency across the site. Maybe people just keep clicking it accidentally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a wink I'll generally send a message

Or if I wink someone I'll wait to see if there's a response

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Rarely wink, unless I'm playing a forum game.

Do fab pictures that I like.

Send messages, it could be a compliment or wanting to get to know the profile more with theview of meeting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a wink as a bit of an ice breaker, in the hope that they wink back. I see a wink as courteous instead of diving straight into a message "

Same as this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually begin with a wink to gauge any interest.

If I get a response the I will follow up with with a message.

It’s clear that a lot of ladies have overflowing inboxes, so there is no point wasting anyone’s time if there is no connection.

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By *rPeachPiercedPrincess OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I like a wink as a bit of an ice breaker, in the hope that they wink back. I see a wink as courteous instead of diving straight into a message

Same as this."

It is a good way to break it in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink to express interest. If its returned then I always message

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I wink and to see if they wink back I message

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I rarely wink. I rarely get winks. If I get one I tend to message to say thanks.

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

As my profile asks men not to, I use it as a filter, I don't meet them.

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By *eathersex69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I'm sure you get many winks as you are delish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wink to see if they are interested then I engage in conversation.. might be going about it wrong

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We wink to see if there’s an interest before sending a message, saves time. If we get a wink back we’ll always then message

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By *netobeextraMan
over a year ago

location varies

Wink to see if there’s a mutual interest and message if I get a wink back

I do also message first after reading a profile if there looks like mutual interest

But I’m never offended if someone winks at me and I’m not interested

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We use winks to do interest in others and to help breaker the ice. If we get one back, we will then message saying thank you for the response and then start chatting. If we get one and they interest us we wink back no wait to see what happens. If they don’t interest us we normally send a polite message saying thank you but not for us.

But we rarely get winked so none of the above plies

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By *oshblueyedmanMan
over a year ago

hereford


"We use winks to do interest in others and to help breaker the ice. If we get one back, we will then message saying thank you for the response and then start chatting. If we get one and they interest us we wink back no wait to see what happens. If they don’t interest us we normally send a polite message saying thank you but not for us.

But we rarely get winked so none of the above plies "

Well you are totally gorgeous and fun, Cannock couple, so I’ll be winking for sure. Agree though message matters.

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