FabSwingers.com forum: We see it week in and out Let down. ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People whos been swinging years know the in s and out of this swinging game ...... What tips can you give people that will help so some don't get let down ... we read so much about this here ... you cant help feeling sorry for some .. over my years been let down 1 time was a couple coming to the boat .. only to find out his misses was 8 months pregnant and was just him .. playing games .. Thing i should have done is chat on phone to both ... . If people really up for a meet thay will chat i find on the phone before not a tex as not the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your instincts. If something seems to be good to be true it probably is. Equally the first moment you have any doubts about a potential meet walk away.

Don't chase anything and everything. Like the real world, most people won't be interested and hitting on everything in the hope of getting lucky will possibly work but be somewhat frustrating. Pursue those profiles that seem relevant to you, ultimately like attracts like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People whos been swinging years know the in s and out of this swinging game ...... What tips can you give people that will help so some don't get let down ... "

Swinging is a Marathon, not a Sprint...

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By *londeandbrownCouple
over a year ago

taunton

Happens so many times we wonder if some of these people who claim to be couples are just wind ups , what do they get out if it?

They waste their time as much as their own. Now we only get in touch with paid members who have a few verifications and also fab verified and an early phone conversation between the girls.

Dont think there us anymore we could do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only been let down twice, as I gave her a second chance

I as of yet haven't let anyone down and always turn up or accommodate when I need to. Sadly I think it is part of the course that peoples circumstances change and at times can't be helped. If I had to pull out I would always out of courtesy tell the lady/couple.

Not a lot more you can do, its the name of the game, shit happens and when it does you move on

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By *londeandbrownCouple
over a year ago

taunton

"Trust your instincts. If something seems to be good to be true it probably is. Equally the first moment you have any doubts about a potential meet walk away.

Great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter how unsuccessful you are, don't just go through the motions.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Trust your instincts. If something seems to be good to be true it probably is. Equally the first moment you have any doubts about a potential meet walk away.

Great advice

yes good post. x x

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By *ucycuteTV/TS
over a year ago

North Lanarkshire

Dont rush in for a meet - plenty offers out there and by rushing in you open yourself up to the non-gen.

Take your time and get to know, and see if you like the person. By building more trust in comms more liable to get genuine folk.

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm possibly going to be controversial now but be wary of unverified profiles and prticularly those that aren't even photo verified, that have been on here any length of time. I wouldn't say dismiss them entirely (though as you can block them from messaging plenty clearly do), but if someone hasn't been verified in 6 months do you really think they are going to meet you. Particularly if any length of distance is involved.

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By *artsnikCouple
over a year ago

wortley

we always first meet in clubs then if there is something wrong or there not who they say there are or there's no click then no problem its just a no and the night might no be a total waste

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont rush in for a meet - plenty offers out there and by rushing in you open yourself up to the non-gen.

Take your time and get to know, and see if you like the person. By building more trust in comms more liable to get genuine folk.

L x"
yes i think get to know people dont rush things ,

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

We live in an internet age now with e-mail, txting, MSN, WhatsApping etc. etc. but the best way to check someone out is to pick up the phone and give them a ring.

If you're meeting a couple and she's never around to talk, then it should ring alarm bells. If you're meeting a single guy and he can only talk in hushed tones on the phone, then it doesn't bode well as he's probably married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're meeting a couple and she's never around to talk, then it should ring alarm bells. "

On an even more basic level, there is no particularly convincing reason as to why a couple don't have a picture together and send separate face pictures.

"If you're meeting a single guy and he can only talk in hushed tones on the phone, then it doesn't bode well as he's probably married."

Again with pictures, an awful lot of guys have, how shall I say it, a very feminine taste in home furnishing.

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Again with pictures, an awful lot of guys have, how shall I say it, a very feminine taste in home furnishing."

Interior decor is all the rage now

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