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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Last night after a few drinks we spoke about the following and didn’t conclude which one we will try next:

Ps note that we’re a couple

My wife knows that I get turned on and want to try some form of being fucked.

1: her fucking me

2: threesome with me fucking her while a guy fucks me

3: her watching me and another guy play

4: I meet a guy alone - she’s cool with this

5: her suggestion and I’m not sure that I’m into this but now I’m starting to come around - a guy fucking her while I fuck him

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

Go for the options that you are both happy to do. Have an agreement that you are both exploring and if something does not work out there will be no blame. Just be together in what you decide and do, evolve and grow as there are many kinks to try. Oh BTW often these things don't quite go as planned and as you have in your minds, but that's another discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly I would say; "Does she know that you have a profile on here?"

Secondly; "Why does your SINGLE profile say that you are STRAIGHT when clearly you are as bent as a nine bob note?".

Thirdly; "Your SINGLE profile says that you can accommodate, so are you sure that your Wife is not a figment of your imagination?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha ha, yes Im pretty sure, we’ve had a number of couples and two MMFs so yes she’s well upto speed…. We’ve also got the photos to prove it …. ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go for the options that you are both happy to do. Have an agreement that you are both exploring and if something does not work out there will be no blame. Just be together in what you decide and do, evolve and grow as there are many kinks to try. Oh BTW often these things don't quite go as planned and as you have in your minds, but that's another discussion "
thanks you’re correct in that things never go as they seem but better to just go with the flow, we’ve tried a bi MMF oral and that wasn’t planned to be bi it just happened

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Firstly I would say; "Does she know that you have a profile on here?"

Secondly; "Why does your SINGLE profile say that you are STRAIGHT when clearly you are as bent as a nine bob note?".

Thirdly; "Your SINGLE profile says that you can accommodate, so are you sure that your Wife is not a figment of your imagination?" "

Was going to say this sounds more like fantasy than reality, which is cool, but should just be open/honest.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Last night after a few drinks we spoke about the following and didn’t conclude which one we will try next:

Ps note that we’re a couple

My wife knows that I get turned on and want to try some form of being fucked.

1: her fucking me

"

This would be easiest to try first as you don't need to find a third person

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Option 5 doesn't really do what you said you wanted . . . . . ?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last night after a few drinks we spoke about the following and didn’t conclude which one we will try next:

Ps note that we’re a couple

My wife knows that I get turned on and want to try some form of being fucked.

1: her fucking me

This would be easiest to try first as you don't need to find a third person"
that’s a good point, her only response to that is that why would you want plastic when you can have the real thing, probably we should start with this. I’d love her to be involved though as the turn on for me is mainly the look on her face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Option 5 doesn't really do what you said you wanted . . . . . ?!"

No you are absolutely correct, this was her idea, and my response was why would I like that as I’m not into guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Option 5 doesn't really do what you said you wanted . . . . . ?!"

Have you tried any of the above?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

This comes across very much like a fantasy chat, which is cool, but you’d get a better response just stating that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This comes across very much like a fantasy chat, which is cool, but you’d get a better response just stating that.

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yes fantasy chats are also great, to be honest the thought of it happening can be better than the reality.

Our first MMF started as a fantasy chat and ended with me bringing a guy back, throughout the evening she wasn’t sure if I was telling the truth or just playing with her. It ended in a fab night, and she definitely enjoyed being the Center of attention

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Why would you do number 4 if you're not into guys?

And why do you have a straight single guy's profile if you're apparently a bi-curious couple?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you do number 4 if you're not into guys?

And why do you have a straight single guy's profile if you're apparently a bi-curious couple? "

I would do number 4 as I’d like to try getting fucked. I’ve changed profile to bi. Have you tried any of the above and if so which would you choose?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Why would you do number 4 if you're not into guys?

And why do you have a straight single guy's profile if you're apparently a bi-curious couple?

I would do number 4 as I’d like to try getting fucked. I’ve changed profile to bi. Have you tried any of the above and if so which would you choose?"

Yeah, we've done all of them - and wouldn't choose just one!

If you're hoping to arrange any of that through fab, you'll have better luck on a couple's profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would you do number 4 if you're not into guys?

And why do you have a straight single guy's profile if you're apparently a bi-curious couple?

I would do number 4 as I’d like to try getting fucked. I’ve changed profile to bi. Have you tried any of the above and if so which would you choose?

Yeah, we've done all of them - and wouldn't choose just one!

If you're hoping to arrange any of that through fab, you'll have better luck on a couple's profile. "

We live in Italy so not a problem, it’s not possible to change to a couples profile. Which one would you recommend though for me to try next?

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By *inky and QuirkyCouple
over a year ago

Leighton Buzzard

Jump in with both feet, as a couple, and try all of the above

Would be a most excellent night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jump in with both feet, as a couple, and try all of the above

Would be a most excellent night.

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im sure that it would, have you tried any, how does it feel?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"We live in Italy so not a problem, it’s not possible to change to a couples profile. Which one would you recommend though for me to try next?"

It is possible, just contact admin. Easily done.

Or, better yet, just start an additional couple's profile. After all, would you believe a single guy who was claiming to be a couple. If your answer to that is yes, then you haven't been on fab long enough!

I recommend you do the one you want to do. I don't really understand the dilemma.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We live in Italy so not a problem, it’s not possible to change to a couples profile. Which one would you recommend though for me to try next?

It is possible, just contact admin. Easily done.

Or, better yet, just start an additional couple's profile. After all, would you believe a single guy who was claiming to be a couple. If your answer to that is yes, then you haven't been on fab long enough!

I recommend you do the one you want to do. I don't really understand the dilemma."

I’ll contact the admin and change. But I do find it interesting:

If a woman is bi no questions

Female profile for married women no questions why she has a single profile

Guy stating he is having an affair with a married woman no questions

Also I feel sorry for the guys on here that are married and their partner is not willing to have fun and they have no choice but to explore alone. Fortunately we’ve had loads of fun and normally swap about once or twice a year xx

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Fortunately we’ve had loads of fun and normally swap about once or twice a year xx"

Cool.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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1: her fucking me

This would be easiest to try first as you don't need to find a third person

that’s a good point, her only response to that is that why would you want plastic when you can have the real thing, probably we should start with this. I’d love her to be involved though as the turn on for me is mainly the look on her face"

If she's fucking your arse with a strap on I don't think you would be able to see her face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write the 5 ideas on a different small piece of paper, fold them individually and put in a hat. The first piece of paper you pull out is the one you do first.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

There’s a club in Soave isn’t there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s a club in Soave isn’t there? "

Yes we’ve been there and also the ones in Vicenza and Verona not to mention anaconda in Croatia

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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