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Whats the first thing you look for on soneones profike ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Answers below

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Spelling.

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

These days age requirements! I often fall outside them…..

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Location, pics then bio.

Mrs

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap


"Spelling. "

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan
over a year ago

Bourne lincs

Don't bother. It's only words. Most just want to look at ur pics or talk about it on here.

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

Accommodation. Wether they can.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"These days age requirements! I often fall outside them….."
I fall outside of most the requirements they put on the profiles: age, location, body type, not looking for single males, pretty much everything.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Photos, height, age location.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1) Dick pictures - so I can block immediately if there are any public ones

2) Sexual activity snaps with ppl not on the profile - see above

3) Smart (very)

4) Hot (attitude)

5) Nice (ly behaved) attitude

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

That they’re verified, their location, pics, well written bio (probably in that order!)

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By *ilva69Man
over a year ago

stockport

Location weather they can accommodate activity

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Location,pics,intrests,bio

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Seeing what stuff they have in the background of their photos..

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By *it4uMan
over a year ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France

Politeness, intelligence, photos and am I what they’re looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at the lady’s body type to see if they are curvy/ large,bbw as I love a curvy/bbw ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile pic "
love your profile photo amazing bum x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Answers below"

1 location, if outside 100 miles no

2 age, if outside our range, no

3 photos, if more than just cock pictures (men), pictures of both partners (couples) then possibly

4. 1 liners on a profile, no

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Interests, profile pic, username

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By *irwolf20Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Definitely their preferred age range.. I'm usually waaaaay out of it.

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By * Le ShhhhhMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Pictures!

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By *isnerdsCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

[Removed by poster at 03/04/23 08:42:22]

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By *isnerdsCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Genitalia as a profile pic. Great filter!!

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By *f.I.Like.It.I.Do.ItCouple
over a year ago

Keighley

Verifications

Location

Pictures

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

Scroll straight to.the bottom to see if they have any Sydney University disclaimer text

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Age , location, foreskin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 03/04/23 08:49:25]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age preferences, body type, whether they can accommodate, ingenuity, humour then photos

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Tits . I am a simple pleased girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelling and punctuation

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By *ondoner27Man
over a year ago

london

[Removed by poster at 03/04/23 09:12:51]

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close

Txt speak.

If its there we look no further.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close


"[Removed by poster at 03/04/23 09:12:51]"

And this

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By *ondoner27Man
over a year ago

london

Their preferences. No point wasting everyone’s time if I don’t fit their criteria

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Their location, if they smoke,their age and prefered age range and then I read the profile and browse the photos.

It also shows if I've made any private notes from previous chats or widely opposing views on the forums.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Location, if verified, age, recent face & body pics, bio.

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By *beeMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I can't lie if there's a profile pic, a nice bum or high heels I'm there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boobs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Pictures.

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By *beeMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Wet and willing instantly meeting the criteria!! And that is why you've been on my hotlist for ages!!!

You never disappoint!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wet and willing instantly meeting the criteria!! And that is why you've been on my hotlist for ages!!!

You never disappoint!!! "

Thankyou but affraid your lacking what we look for first

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

First I will not look or reply to profiles with no Pic's. Secondly a good Bio and if its short and no information then might perve on their photos but will have no interest. No need for face pics at first but definitely full naked body pics and if showing what acts of sex they like, then great even better.

Thirdly for taking things further, Location is very important. Cant travel so if they are willing to come to mine its great.

Not interested in Verifications as so many will verify people just in the hope of getting some interest from them. So pointless to me.

Photos are important for getting to know if there will be a connection. Don't mind the odd large but really not my thing. Also see if they are shaved below, I'm not into putting my face into a wet mop lol. Showing their body for this sort of thing is very important but as soon as there is a hint of them being old and or fake pics, I stop chatting straight away and often on meeting them have said no thanks you aren't what I'm looking for and left.

Bio is something I always read and take note of. A short intro to who they are and what their sexual interests are is very important. Can tell very quickly the fakes and timewasters here. As soon as any suggest no males or no outdoor or start putting down any others, then they are simply just not the type of person I find attractive in any way.

lol So thats me but I also realise I'm not for everyone.

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

That they don't have a dick

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

quality / narrative

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Initial photo. Read through profile. Send cheeky message. Watch it being deleted

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Age parameters.

How far away they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where they are and what they are looking for

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

How long they are on fab and verified

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

Distance accom status then interests.

What am I talking shite for its always pics first lol

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

Genuinely verified, not by the fem profile they made up to verify themselves with, location, bio, then pics ( if you measure your dick it's off putting)

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Spelling. "

Bravo sir

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By *ondonCalling777Couple
over a year ago

Blackheath

Recent verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics and profile and see if they are into the same kinda things as me. Too many verifications put me off. But always need to have veris

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Face pic but rarely find one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age. Verifications. Bio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pictures."

Me too x

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Non smoker, then location and age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they've actually bothered to write anything on it. X

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Age. Verifications. Bio. "

Damn for being too old

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Boobs

And if they FAF obvs

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

if they can present them selves with a little intelligent input, not going to bother with anyone who cant

followed by if they look ok in their pics... not going to bother with blank or minging pics

followed by where are they? not going to bother if they live other end of the country (or overseas)

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Pics and a actual profile description

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Non smoker, then check the pics to see if they match that statement!

Unless they're on my hotlist, in which case it's usually to oggle their latest uploads

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Body type, then we read the whole profile text. We don’t care about age or smokers etc. We used to smoke. We haven’t since last year but we don’t mind others smoking around us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What they are looking for !

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

To see if they’ve got interesting wallpaper

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Age.

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By *eastXMan
over a year ago

London

Pics and vibe

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By *ew2it.deCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

A big cock

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Photos then profile information then verifications.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

I read it to see if there are any requirements I don't meet.

If there are I don't bother anymore

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Someone nearer my age who wants to meet my age, tall orderlol

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By *holelotofrosieCouple
over a year ago

newtown

If the lady is bi

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Answers below"
yes i like lucidity

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

The word 'fun'

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Age preferences otherwise pointless looking any further maybe a little nosey in case I forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Authenticity

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

Age preference

Accommodation

Bi sexual

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Height

Pics

Bio

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By *rPeachPiercedPrincessCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Where they are from

Bio

What they are after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look to see if they are verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they'll meet smokers. And single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Sydney University disclaimer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't bother. It's only words. Most just want to look at ur pics or talk about it on here. "

Absolutely not true at all!! Most of the women I know on here are like me and we definitely read a profile and make a decision based on that.

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By *nowingsmileMan
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Age range

Location

Abilty to string two words together (as long as they're not "no thanks"

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A well written bio and that we are looking for the same thing. Verries and then pics, if there are tonnes of bareback pics with scores of different women it’s a no.

Also one thing that grinds my gears and is an instant no is if the profile just says ‘will fill out later’ or ‘does anyone read these’ normally single guys who think they can message ‘wanna fuck’ and you will be dropping your pants for them in a flash??

Lack of effort on a profile indicates lack of effort in other areas in my experiance???????

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Location and age.How far away are they and do they fall into the age range I prefer.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Intelligence and a certain style of humour in the bio. Then I check pics and veris, location etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intelligence and a certain style of humour in the bio. Then I check pics and veris, location etc "

Just ignore the distance

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
over a year ago

Dudley


"Seeing what stuff they have in the background of their photos.. "
presumaby to see if there’s anything worth thieving ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Location. Physical stats, pics, bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location, looking for, sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Intelligence and a certain style of humour in the bio. Then I check pics and veris, location etc

Just ignore the distance "

I wish I could! Nice profile right up my street, if the street were 100’s of miles long or a tardis were involved

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