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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was this other person your husband?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I thought cucking was based in fucking someone else in front of him.

But then that side of things doesn't interest me so I could be way off base.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No - someone I’ve been seeing for 2 years (on and off) but not officially in a relationship

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By *k_123Man
over a year ago

the north

I think he’s right on this one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No - someone I’ve been seeing for 2 years (on and off) but not officially in a relationship "

It sounds more like domination then. I was under the impression cuckolding is sex with someone else in front of your partner/husband and humiliating them during the act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo dominating. Cucking would involve his wife or gf

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Cucking generally requires a third person.

You (mainly) topped him, it could probably be dominating if the intent was there on both sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in agreement with him, it's more domination than cuck.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’d say more domme play x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Damn

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By *poollookerMan
over a year ago

NW

That’s more of domme a cuck would have been him watching you with someone else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would say more dominatrix than Cuck, but as with any kink, there’s the original then there’s the adapted version. If he wanted to feel like he was a cuck maybe sit down and have a chat about what he views this as and what was missing from your session. What did he like or not like, what does he want added or changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No - someone I’ve been seeing for 2 years (on and off) but not officially in a relationship "

Does he have a wife/partner himself?

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"That’s more of domme a cuck would have been him watching you with someone else x "

Or his wife watching you with him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No - he’s only allowed to sleep with me, and only me

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By *portbilly1976Man
over a year ago

manchester

Defo domination

For him to be cucked you’d need another guy to tick you in front of him ( some of the other elements could still be present though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said Cuckolding is generally with a third party involved but at the end of the day does it really matter ? Sounds like you both had a great time

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By *avidv0695Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I’d tend to side with him on this one.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

close

I'm confused. I love watching Mrs being fucked. Weather that be male or female. Introduce embarrassed & your done tho. That applies to both of us tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s sounds like been a Dom cucking would of been you fucking someone else in front of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No - he’s only allowed to sleep with me, and only me"

Yeah domme then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The stuff with the dildo is getting close to cucking but not quite there. Needs a real man and a real cock to *really* put your partner in their place =)

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By *rawlingCasaMan
over a year ago

wolves

Definitely not clicking.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

My opinion this is just nonsense running through some guys head

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"The stuff with the dildo is getting close to cucking but not quite there. Needs a real man and a real cock to *really* put your partner in their place =)"

How many women do you know that would do that to the man they purportedly love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

No. That is being a Domme not cucking.

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By *rawlingCasaMan
over a year ago

wolves

This is definitely Dom's play with small penis humiliation. You might do similar things with a cuck but you would need to have a bull.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I think it only really classifies as cuckold if they are humiliated in front of someone else. What you did seems more of a humiliation-domination fetish.

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By *eekndfunMan
over a year ago

manchester

Feel cuck be more if you had sex with a other guy in front of him

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By *oublesixesMan
over a year ago

Corby

That's one lucky sub

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By *ongSilentTypeMan
over a year ago

Salford

It definitely doesn’t fit the classic definition of cucking, but you can probably be forgiven for thinking the term can apply more broadly to general humiliation kink stuff, especially as the term has found its way into public discourse over the last 5-10 years as an insult people tend to fling at each other without necessarily knowing or caring about its exact meaning.

It’s also worth noting the difference between cuckoldry and hotwifing, where both involve a husband watching (or just generally allowing) his wife fucking other guys, but in the latter it doesn’t necessarily involve him being degraded/humiliated and getting off on it, he’s just happy for her to enjoy herself, or perhaps he gets off on her being promiscuous, without the arrangement involving any actual disrespect towards him.

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By *ardiff_subMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Firstly, what a lucky man he is! This sounds hot.

But no, this was not cuckolding. Cuckolding is very simple, but it’s progressed through being a kink to point where it can take many different shapes.

In the simplest form it’s just where a woman has sex with a man who isn’t her partner. This has developed further into the man knowing about it and accepting it. Which has then developed further, where the man actually gets off on it. And further again to the point where it features in a Domme/sub dynamic, and the man may be humiliated for accepting/enjoying it, denied sex himself, locked in a chastity cage, feminised, forced bi etc.

But however you look at it, real cuckolding needs a third party to have sex with the woman in a relationship. And the real definition actually requires marriage.

Cuckold role play can be just as fun though, even if lacking the intensity of the real thing.

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By *iveapoolladMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Certainly plenty of items on your to do list i could assist with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cucking would be us doing reverse cowgirl whilst the dude watches or makes us sandwiches for afters.

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By *entleman_of_pleasureMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Is this cucking?"

It's whatever makes you wet. Seriously, it's your pleasure, so it's your lexicon.

And I hope he realises what a lucky boi he is...

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By *_the_impalerMan
over a year ago

canterbury

That was heaven

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

We wouldn’t class this as cycling …..

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"We wouldn’t class this as cycling ….."

Nor would I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

That doesn't sound like cuckolding in any sense that I know it, definitely leaning more towards domination ony eyes.

Regardless, sounds like he had a damn good time! "I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt" is something a lot of guys around here (myself included) would count themselves lucky to have a chance at.

Anyway, you do you, and don't worry about what label fits what you did best. Just enjoy it!

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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago

?

Definitely Dom x

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

no cuckolding is coupless loving couples in relationships most of cuckolf is not the sexual side its the mental game between hub n wife girlfriend n boyfriend ..

what your decribing is femdom zero to do with cuckolding ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's more general domination, lock them up and make them watch while you do that is more along those lines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

That's not cucking. That's just you dominating and degrading him. Cucking is fucking another guy Infront of him

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

If you think that’s cucking then what do you think domination is?

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Domination in my book, tie him down and fuck another guy and make him watch, much more cuck then, but to be honest the cuck dynamic is deeper than that, so for me its domination. Lucky guy though !

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By *im4play4uMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

I really don't mind what you call it, I just know that I'm an unruly maid that need disciplining.... thank you miss April lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

I think Cucking is making him watch you fuck his partner. But whatever it was, he was one luck man!!!

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford

All I know is that I wish that was me xx

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I’m your ‘fuck it’ list in your profile one of the things you wanted to try was to Domme a man while he was tied up, and you have written ‘DONE’ next to it so you’ve done that in the past. If you didn’t think that tying a man up, teasing him, putting a lead around his neck, SPH, spanking him and pegging him was Domme play then what was it that you did to be able to write ‘DONE’ next to tying a man up and being Domme? What you’ve described ticks almost every box for your run-of-the-mill, standard Domme play…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just going to have an alpha male to fuck in front of him aren’t I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's domination. It could be considered light cucking if you told him you'd rather be fucking someone else.

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan
over a year ago

Salford


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

I'd like to introduce you to a female friend of mine. She's very into FemDom. You two would get on

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By *tophateMan
over a year ago

ireland

Femdom

If you have other lovers who he watches you with and cleans you after and even sucks then hard for you that would add cuckolding to the mix

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Just going to have an alpha male to fuck in front of him aren’t I "

I'm sure there'll be no shortage of offers!

Your list is very hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just going to have an alpha male to fuck in front of him aren’t I "

Be sure to have him clean you up with his tongue after for bonus points

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Please see our profile and verifications hope that explains a cuckold dynamic

Ask anything you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is just female domination. Cucking is fucking another man infront/in the house/with his knowledge

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

And very enjoyable for everyone.

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Domination for me & very well done. 3rd person required for cucking.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place


"No - he’s only allowed to sleep with me, and only me"

We have a winner!

Not cuck at all

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

its simple your not a relationship couple so its one zillion % not cuckold .. cuckold at the very least are a long term couple with emotions between each other it those emotions that make it cuckold not what you do sexually as 2 single people ... its like saying your married but your not

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"This is just female domination. Cucking is fucking another man infront/in the house/with his knowledge"

cuckolding is much much more than just fucking another man ... but your right its the basic a cuckold couple are a loving couple where one partner gets sexual satisfaction else where because the cuck cant

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

oops forgot ...dont want to upset the few

#justmyopinion

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By *ocky beareMan
over a year ago

romford

You did everything correctly you just needed to fuck another man in front of him and verbally abuse him as you fuck then after get him to eat your pussy and taste you both or make him suck the guys cock with you

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Not sure where the verbal abuse while fucking comes from? I fully, in my eyes, cuck him, have sex with other guys, dress him, peg him cage him and he obeys me or gets punished

Anyway l think what you did was just domination, get yourself a guy, make your sub kneel by the bed while you two have fun and then make him clean you both then he will know what a cuck is

Lxx

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Cumbernauld

I believe that would be, Domination, degradation, humiliation and sissification.

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By *ocky beareMan
over a year ago

romford

I know the verbal abuse is not a must but I’ve had many meetings where the mrs has done

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"You did everything correctly you just needed to fuck another man in front of him and verbally abuse him as you fuck then after get him to eat your pussy and taste you both or make him suck the guys cock with you "

but they are not a couple in a relationship so its never cuckold

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By *ocky beareMan
over a year ago

romford

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By *ocky beareMan
over a year ago

romford


"You did everything correctly you just needed to fuck another man in front of him and verbally abuse him as you fuck then after get him to eat your pussy and taste you both or make him suck the guys cock with you

but they are not a couple in a relationship so its never cuckold "

yes that is very true unless your in a marriage or a long term relationship it doesn’t mean anything other that a 3sum

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

If you’re not in any kind of relationship with him it can’t be cuckold.

Hot as hell though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Domination. 100%. Now if you combined all of that with fucking someone in front of him then that would be cucking him. Forced cuck would probably be right up your street, handcuff him and force him to watch. Lay him flat on his back and get fucked doggy style above his face.

If you need any volunteers then I'd love to help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We’re not officially in a relationship but is kinda like we are… if that makes any sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And we have v deep rooted emotional connection

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"We’re not officially in a relationship but is kinda like we are… if that makes any sense "

nope your either together or not but its no biggie your still having fun but under the femdom banner not the cuckold one ...just enjoy it

#justmyopinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% domination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And we have v deep rooted emotional connection "

I haven’t read all of this thread.

As you are relatively new to kink ( you would know this wasn’t cuck if you had been around awhile) have you checked out any educational resources, learnt how to provide aftercare after a scene, discussed safe words etc

There are lots of ways to get this information and support should you need it, to safeguard both You and your cuck

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By *ames250122Man
over a year ago

Worcester


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

While I think we can all agree it’s insanely hot and he’s incredible lucky either way, I’d say it was more Dom/ Sub femdom and sissy play. To be cuck I guess it would need to be another guy and you and he can only watch, maybe clean up after or fully sissyfied by the other guy and you without being able to touch or be anything other than passive xxx

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By *ent1000Man
over a year ago

swanley

Definitely domination not cuck holding

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Definition of cuckold

A woman having an affair with another man.

A man doesn't have to humiliated, abused or denied, to be cuckolded. Therefore most swinging couples could be described as a cuckold relationship, as I, like most men, enjoy seeing their partner/wife royally fucked.

F.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"Definition of cuckold

A woman having an affair with another man.

A man doesn't have to humiliated, abused or denied, to be cuckolded. Therefore most swinging couples could be described as a cuckold relationship, as I, like most men, enjoy seeing their partner/wife royally fucked.

F."

cant argue with that as a basic description thats is simply what cuckolding was for 100s of years a wife having sex with another man hence its couples that are cuckold not singles

things have moved on a little tho as we now have swinging and under that umbrella is a massive web of styles n kinks mixed with different sexualities some dont like labels some do ...i think they are important as labels are life but thats just me .... i would not buy mashed potatoe if what i really wanted was chips

#wearealldifferent #justmyopinion

#justmyopinion

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

No it's bares absolutely no resemblance to cuckolding.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Was this the first time you’ve done something like this by the way? You said you’ve been seeing each other for 2 years so I’m just wondering if you’ve been doing this together for the whole 2 years because if you have I’d have thought you’d have discussed whether it’s domination or cucking before now. It seems strange to do it for 2 years without discussing what it is that you’ve been doing.

But if this is the first time you’ve done it together, or you’ve only just recently started doing it, then I’d have thought you’d have discussed whether it’s domination or cucking whilst you were discussing trying it, as it’s not the sort of thing you’d start doing without discussing it first.

From what you say in your OP and the thread it sounds like you’ve either been doing it for 2 years or you’ve recently decided to start doing it but have only just talked to each other about it…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all.

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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"And we have v deep rooted emotional connection

I haven’t read all of this thread.

As you are relatively new to kink ( you would know this wasn’t cuck if you had been around awhile) have you checked out any educational resources, learnt how to provide aftercare after a scene, discussed safe words etc

There are lots of ways to get this information and support should you need it, to safeguard both You and your cuck "

Nailed it. Really hope there is aftercare there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Domination, cucking involves a third person.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And we have v deep rooted emotional connection

I haven’t read all of this thread.

As you are relatively new to kink ( you would know this wasn’t cuck if you had been around awhile) have you checked out any educational resources, learnt how to provide aftercare after a scene, discussed safe words etc

There are lots of ways to get this information and support should you need it, to safeguard both You and your cuck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

It certainly is and he is very very lucky

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By *airyChestedDaveMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

Sounds like you both had a good time though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes - plenty of aftercare and we take care of each other. Thanks.

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Damn "

I am happy to volunteer to have sex with whilst he has to watch so you can cuckold him and then be correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No this is not cucking

Take another cock in front of him and make the sissy clean you both with his tonge

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

I dont think you need any help ! Just showing off

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

if He is your husband it’s cuckolding at level 4 , you started to sissify him

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"I'm confused. I love watching Mrs being fucked. Weather that be male or female. Introduce embarrassed & your done tho. That applies to both of us tho. "

So sounds like is a Stag Vixen thing. A variable on a theme, long as you all enjoy it is main thing.

Cuckolding is a massive umbrella that comes under an even bigger umbrella lol

Just have fun, don't get hung up on labels

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Did you both enjoy it? Thats all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted"

This is the only part of what you wrote which sounded a bit cucky to me.

I have to agree with the lucky fella about about the rest of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you did wasn't cucking.

Almost completely unrelated but you're amazing, I'd literally crawl through 3 miles of liquid shit and barbed wire just to hear you fart through a walkie talkie

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

As long as you both had a lovely time, call it Train spotting if you like!

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

w

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By *ttis669Man
over a year ago

w

It was defo domination and mostly sounds incredible! So long as you both enjoy it, does it matter!

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By *hop1987Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d say more domination if you fucked some else in front of him it would be cucking him , one thing for sure he’s a lucky guy

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"As long as you both had a lovely time, call it Train spotting if you like! "
Exactly, let's not worry too much about labels, just enjoy the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how pedantic about language you are.

If you mean in the ‘fab’ sense, where you can call anything you like just because you feel like it, and then sure, why the hell not if that’s what makes you happy

As you seem to be looking for ‘definition’ then no it isnt. Cuckholding is man and wife. Otherwise it’s just humiliation, which is also perfectly acceptable if you both enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You’ll be all pleased to know that I cucked my cuck last weekend and made him watch me get ruined by 2 big cocks

You can follow us on our journey via our couples profile: aprillovesdick

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By *eather_uktvTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Call it what you will. I'd call it perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m far from an expert but it does sound a bit more like dominating as opposed to cuckold. I always thought cuckold was humiliating and degrading using someone else in front of them.

Either way who cares what the label is as long as you’re both having fun

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By *omblingFreeCouple
over a year ago

The Village

Sounds like femdom to me but still - what a very lucky fella!. Very lucky.

MrD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is right. This is a femdomme scene you have played out here.

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By *oungukbull97Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Going purely off the definition of cuckolding you'd need another man involved for it to be described as such.

But if the context behind all this is that you are fucking other men and this humiliation was a backdrop to it then yeah I'd describe it as cuckolding. Or at least related to cuckolding.

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By *as2cheatMan
over a year ago

harrow


"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…

IS THIS CUCKING?

- I made him dress up as a maid

- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet

- I tied him to the bed

- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead

- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch

- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted

- I pegged him

- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty

- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt

- I made him say “thank you Miss April”

PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "

I’m not sure what it is but he’s definitely blessed that’s for sure !!

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