FabSwingers.com forum: Regardless of sexuality, is a mouth a mouth or you?

By *tag-slag OP TV/TS
over a year ago

NCL

I’m not trying to label everyone as bi just noticed that it seems more and more people (especially when it comes to getting a blowjob) are not strictly in a category when it comes to their sexuality and are on more of a spectrum these days. Or maybe they still define themselves as straight despite receiving oral sex from other men/ TV’s cause the physical feeling of Being sucked just overrides who they’re sexually attracted to?

Myself, I’m only really into men but could definitely still receive oral sex from a women for sure and could probably still give her oral sex.

Just seems like many people are open to receiving an oral sex from the same sex whilst not necessarily defining or declaring an interest in the same sex cause a mouth’s just a mouth ?

Agree / disagree ? I’d love to know your thoughts…

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I think it comes down to whether you can separate sex from attraction. And whether you want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mouths a mouth. Close your eyes and it can be anyone you want it to be

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

If you concentrate really hard a greggs sausage roll would do the trick. They’re not so keen on you putting the back on the shelf afterwards though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glory holes enable straight guys to get sucked

Without going gay lol

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By *lex4660Man
over a year ago

Thame

I'm still a firm believer that guys give the best BJ .. we (I) know what a cock needs

So a mouth is a mouth, just close your eyes and let go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A warm mouth and someone who knows how it feels to be sucked

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I think it comes down to whether you can separate sex from attraction. And whether you want to."

This one.

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By *ongshanks65Man
over a year ago

Weymouth

"I think it comes down to whether you can separate sex from attraction. And whether you want to."

Totally agree, I love sex and not fussy where ot comes from, sex is sex. However I would not want a relationship with a man, only a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! It does my head in when people offer me oral and when I politely decline they say “a mouth is a mouth”.

Er… no it’s not. Attraction is important.

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

No, a mouth is not a mouth, it matters to me who the mouth belongs to. One reason I would never use a glory hole.

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

I just love oral recieving from both and giving to females.

But I could be persuaded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there’s a spectrum to sexuality and there are also plenty of people who can separate attraction from the act. Unfortunately there are also people who can’t get their heads round this idea and have to label everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not an 'any hole's a goal' kind of person.

There has to be appeal for me.

As I'm more about enjoying the body of a woman, and less about my own ejaculation, it's unlikely just 'any mouth' will peak my interest.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Its not just a mouth to me

I'd only be interested in men sexually .

I can appreciate womens beauty ,but I'd never play with one.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

nope no sexual attraction no fun saying a mouth is just a mouth is like saying a cock is just a cock no matter who its attached too or a vagina is a vagina no matter who the woman is massive no from me im fussy and picky with men and even fussier with women ... no attraction no fun ..even if its just mine or there mouth..

my mouth is attached to me and other mouths are attached too so its never just a mouth its part of a person and it the person that gives the horn no horn no action

reminds me of the anyhole a goal brigade those who will fuck anyone do anything type no matter who you are or how you look ...yuk

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By *ashMan
over a year ago

Westhoughton

U will cum no matter who goes down on u, especially when u r blindfolded.. But whether that's what excites u sexually is the real question. If I like or want a guy to suck my dick then I'll enjoy it, else it's just a pointless cum..

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By *tag-slag OP TV/TS
over a year ago

NCL

I love being used as a hole

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By *itnakedladMan
over a year ago

London Bridge

"I love being used as a hole"

I need a hole

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By *rMonkeyMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

"U will cum no matter who goes down on u"

No I won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like when a guy messages me asking for sex and when i point out they dont even know what i look like and they reply its cool its only sex, nah not for me i need attraction

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

I’d say that’s an impossible question to answer really as everyone will have different viewpoints (guess that’s what makes life interesting!).

A perfect example is a party I went to which had some temporary glory holes setup (the guy was a builder and had built a simple stud wall with wood panel for the party). He openly said behind the wall was a guy and a girl and you wouldn’t know who was sucking you so you had to be happy with that thought.

Quite a few of the straight guys happily used the glory hole as they defined it as “just a mouth”. There were a couple guys who said they couldn't do it as they couldn’t bear the thought of getting sucked by a guy.

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By *tag-slag OP TV/TS
over a year ago

NCL

Love being used as a hole

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"I think it comes down to whether you can separate sex from attraction. And whether you want to."

I think I totally have.

Don't fancy men. Love cock. Go figure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexuality is such a spectrum and extremely fluid. Labels aren't always needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m bisexual so in the heat of the moment in a sexual situation if it feels good then I don’t care who’s mouth it is.

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By *owdenguyMan
over a year ago

howden

"Glory holes enable straight guys to get sucked

Without going gay lol "

60% of the time that works every time

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By *owdenguyMan
over a year ago

howden

A warm mouth is just a warm mouth to me now but

When I was younger it just seemed totally wrong.

Maybe it’s fear of being labeled or I was just stupid.

It’s all about pure pleasure nowadays

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By *interflingMan
over a year ago

london

Think you’re right OP in more of a spectrum but possibly due to being more open, feeling the opportunity is there.

That being said, any mouth isn’t a goal for me personally, the attraction must be there. Though some situations are hotter - like when you’re looking at a wife as she watches her husband slip his mouth around you.

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

"I think it comes down to whether you can separate sex from attraction. And whether you want to.

I think I totally have.

Don't fancy men. Love cock. Go figure...

Same here

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By *tag-slag OP TV/TS
over a year ago

NCL

A lot of private messages seem to agree with me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexuality is such a spectrum and extremely fluid. Labels aren't always needed.

I don’t really agree with that. There are plenty of gay men and lesbians who don’t want to go with the opposite sex - and nobody tells them “it’s a spectrum”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexuality is such a spectrum and extremely fluid. Labels aren't always needed.

I don’t really agree with that. There are plenty of gay men and lesbians who don’t want to go with the opposite sex - and nobody tells them “it’s a spectrum” "

I'd say they're at one end of a spectrum, which is totally fine. I think the point is gay, straight or Bi doesn't really cover it, there's lots more points in between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back to the original question though, I'd say a mouth isn't just a mouth. I can tell the difference between a guy or a girl sucking me -- admittedly there isn't enough data points for statistical significance!

That said I love receiving blow jobs in general but they're a lot better when you're really attracted to the giver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine being attracted to a man in terms of a relationship or even kissing, though I'd be open minded if someone ever proved me wrong.

However, I'm not sure I agree with 'any mouth is a mouth'. Even though I'm "predominantly straight" (is that a thing?), I'd much rather a nice bloke than an unpleasant woman.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

To me definitely not.

When a guy sucks my cock, I’m in charge I’m dom with them they are there to pleasure me.

With a female sucking my cock, I’m more gentle, considerate and affectionate.

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By *lippersXXXMan
over a year ago

North Central london

I'm openly bi. I'm physically attracted to women. But I enjoy the company of men. So a mouth isn't just a mouth.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Oral sex from anyone feels good yet it's more about how they do it and how much they clearly enjoy giving. I'm orally bi yet straight otherwise. My recieving experiences have certainly been wide ranging yet my best have been from women, a man came close third a while back (I could tell he was enjoying doing it and that's a huge plus !).... Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using this logic would you also say “any holes a goal” ? An ass is an ass? A hand is a hand? An orgasm is an orgasm?

It doesn’t really make sense to me… I’m pretty fussy and particular about who I meet and physical attraction is a very very very important thing. If that’s not there then there’s no way I’d have any kind of sexual contact with someone.

I don’t understand how people can have any kind of sex with someone they claim they’re not attracted to?

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