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By *rs tart OP   Woman
over a year ago

derby

well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

30 have arranged a meet and let you down?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles "
i dont get it why dont us singles get offers like you down this way, ud have 30+ queueing down the street

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Every category on this site has timewasters. Single men, single women, couples, TV/TS/CD, you name it.

Most have been stung by at least one group at some point or the other. Block, move on and use knowledge gained from let downs as experience in the future.

Sorry to hear about the idiots you have encountered.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles "

I'm sorry, but if you have been let down by over 30 single blokes on here, you must be doing something wrong big time.....maybe looking at how these meets are being arranged is the first place to start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 wow thats a lot of let downs in a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I'm sorry, but if you have been let down by over 30 single blokes on here, you must be doing something wrong big time.....maybe looking at how these meets are being arranged is the first place to start! "

.....I did think the same.....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sorry you've not had the right luck/respect from others.

Is there any common thread, other than them being single guys? Were they verified etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've just been let down too by a guy I've met before few times and an hour before meet and my what would be first club experience he just text me to say I should arrange something else. He's done it once before when we've arranged club so I'm guessing its his problem not mine. His lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm sorry, but if you have been let down by over 30 single blokes on here, you must be doing something wrong big time.....maybe looking at how these meets are being arranged is the first place to start!

.....I did think the same..... "

Me too. That amount in such a short time, the OP is doing something massively wrong.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

I wouldn't arrange a meet with a male who had no pics on their profile, why should a single guy??

If your profile was a single males, it would get flammed.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles

I'm sorry, but if you have been let down by over 30 single blokes on here, you must be doing something wrong big time.....maybe looking at how these meets are being arranged is the first place to start! "

I have to agree.

My advice is improve your profile as negative only attracts negative, maybe add some erotic pictures and actually chat and sound out potential playmates much more beforehand.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

social meets ?

get a phone number to chat to?

were they verified and been on the site for a while?

how firmed up were the meet arrangements?

have you met them before?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

ps... don't do the lottery this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pleeeeeeese come back OP... I'm so curious, were they all no shows? or did they waste you time in other ways? How much time did you waste on each? about an hour each? more?... bit less maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell 30......jeez I'm doing something wrong, could be I'm a fussy old bird tho

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Bloody hell 30......jeez I'm doing something wrong, could be I'm a fussy old bird tho "

I love sex a lot, but there is no way i could meet 30 people in one week, even if i wanted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your same area roughly as me and had let downs but not even had 30 let me down for a group session.

Maybe something your saying is making them think your not for real.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles "

no offence.. but if you have been let down by 30 men in 1 week.... I'd be looking at my selection criteria and process...

after all.... the common demoninator is you.....

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

With all these timewasting single blokes in Derby I must be like gold dust as a genuine bloke who does meet around here.

Time to start demanding posh hotels and bottles of champers I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your speaking to the wrong guys i guess. Im still waiting for someone to message me for a meet. Then i shall bring the trust back for us single men.

...worth a try lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't arrange a meet with a male who had no pics on their profile, why should a single guy??

If your profile was a single males, it would get flammed.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all these timewasting single blokes in Derby I must be like gold dust as a genuine bloke who does meet around here.

Time to start demanding posh hotels and bottles of champers I reckon "

Bargain bucket from KFC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all these timewasting single blokes in Derby I must be like gold dust as a genuine bloke who does meet around here.

Time to start demanding posh hotels and bottles of champers I reckon "

I've got champagne but can we pass on the hotel please lol

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"With all these timewasting single blokes in Derby I must be like gold dust as a genuine bloke who does meet around here.

Time to start demanding posh hotels and bottles of champers I reckon

Bargain bucket from KFC "

Harrods Hamper and a kilo of handmade Belgium chocolates minimum before I'd even sniff your knickers, love

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"With all these timewasting single blokes in Derby I must be like gold dust as a genuine bloke who does meet around here.

Time to start demanding posh hotels and bottles of champers I reckon

I've got champagne but can we pass on the hotel please lol"

No. It must have a swimming pool as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

no offence.. but if you have been let down by 30 men in 1 week.... I'd be looking at my selection criteria and process...

after all.... the common demoninator is you....."

agreed. Any way its probably a typing error and was 3 men not 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 single men in 1 week .

i would be lucky to find a single fem round here that is real and isnt so picky cos the odd few i have mailed ,,low and behold the next day it says user no longer on the site ..hhmmmm and ive had some very good meets on here and always turn up when i say i will and if that person isnt the one who i want to meet then i simply dont arrange to meet ,,,but 30 meets let down in one week ..lucky you for getting 30 possible arrangements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all these timewasting single blokes in Derby I must be like gold dust as a genuine bloke who does meet around here.

Time to start demanding posh hotels and bottles of champers I reckon

Bargain bucket from KFC

Harrods Hamper and a kilo of handmade Belgium chocolates minimum before I'd even sniff your knickers, love "

Never had you down as a panty sniffer thought you prefered edible ones pmsl

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"With all these timewasting single blokes in Derby I must be like gold dust as a genuine bloke who does meet around here.

Time to start demanding posh hotels and bottles of champers I reckon

Bargain bucket from KFC

Harrods Hamper and a kilo of handmade Belgium chocolates minimum before I'd even sniff your knickers, love

Never had you down as a panty sniffer thought you prefered edible ones pmsl "

If you're "pmsl"ing in them all the time I'm not going near them!!!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

4 or 5 a day .. wot u arranging to do with them ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is OP that scream therapy works wonders

...preferably in a timewasters ear at 110dB

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all these timewasting single blokes in Derby I must be like gold dust as a genuine bloke who does meet around here.

Time to start demanding posh hotels and bottles of champers I reckon

Bargain bucket from KFC

Harrods Hamper and a kilo of handmade Belgium chocolates minimum before I'd even sniff your knickers, love

Never had you down as a panty sniffer thought you prefered edible ones pmsl

If you're "pmsl"ing in them all the time I'm not going near them!!! "

Damn !! Now your saying your not into water sports either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, can't understand why your couples profile has verified this single fem profile??

30+ single guys have let you down? Don't think so x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles "

You must be looking in the wrong places then... check mi profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not buying it the desperate every holes a goal single guys 30 of them let you down no way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say that most single guys I've contacted haven't been bothered about me being a bigger girl.

So I have to say that I think the single guys of derby are fantastic.

I normally manage to find 30for one session lol so can't all be bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all these timewasting single blokes in Derby I must be like gold dust as a genuine bloke who does meet around here.

Time to start demanding posh hotels and bottles of champers I reckon

Bargain bucket from KFC

Harrods Hamper and a kilo of handmade Belgium chocolates minimum before I'd even sniff your knickers, love "

Sniff my knickers and you'll get a free kick in the nutts that's just bad

Turning down KFC!?! well viccie I've got one round the corner as you should know.

I agree though, if the OP were a single male, this thread would be so much different.

She seems to have set a challenge with 'no time wasters' and everything else negitive in the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're you planning to meet 4 a day on weekends, and 6 a day on weekends.

Find it hard to believe 30 guys failed to show up, so guessing you are classing people not meeting/confirming via messages only as time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all these timewasting single blokes in Derby I must be like gold dust as a genuine bloke who does meet around here.

Time to start demanding posh hotels and bottles of champers I reckon

Bargain bucket from KFC

Harrods Hamper and a kilo of handmade Belgium chocolates minimum before I'd even sniff your knickers, love

Never had you down as a panty sniffer thought you prefered edible ones pmsl

If you're "pmsl"ing in them all the time I'm not going near them!!!

Damn !! Now your saying your not into water sports either "

Anyway I've checked your profile and veri's and your not my type

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles "

thats one hell of a sense of humour you have. You should be on the stage....fucking hilarious (not to mention deluded).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a few let downs but 90% have been bang on ( no pun intended ) and had lots of fun with us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say that most single guys I've contacted haven't been bothered about me being a bigger girl.

So I have to say that I think the single guys of derby are fantastic.

I normally manage to find 30for one session lol so can't all be bad"

Good old Cali

( your not old btw)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles "

If you did genuinely mean to type 30 all I think is that they messaged you with 'fancy a fuck' and didn't follow through!!

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I wouldn't arrange a meet with a male who had no pics on their profile, why should a single guy??

If your profile was a single males, it would get flammed.

"

I couldn't have put it better myself. If you don't put in the effort to attract decent responses, don't be surprised if you attract the wrong kind of people. Anyone who arranges to meet without seeing what you look like is very likely going to be unreliable and even if they turn up, will more than likely be there because they are desperate and will shag anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles "

Such a pity, as you come across on your profile as a lovely, warm person. Hope it works out for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles

Such a pity, as you come across on your profile as a lovely, warm person. Hope it works out for you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how as anyone got the time to arrange 30 meets in one week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how as anyone got the time to arrange 30 meets in one week? "

It's hard work. To be honest individual meets I've only arranged maybe half that in a week. But only one failed to turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience most single guys are time wasters. If you find a couple who mess you around it is most likely a single guy masquerading as a couple.

I now wait for loads of messages from single guys claiming they are truly genuine. Don't believe it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really haven't had that many time wasters. I only meet single guys. So no experience of couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hm what's that I smell?

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By *tillwaterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Them guys give us single males a bad name, were not all time wasters

And ive had my fair share of let downs too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAB should automatically delete profiles that havnt had any activity (verifications or new photos uploaded) in a set time frame. 12 weeks maybe?

I've been back on here 2 weeks and am photo verified, have recent pics and I've had 3 very good meets verified by respected people on here.

I'm no brad Pitt but theirs no coincidence their either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep we gonna try a pay site

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By *laveslutMan
over a year ago

HULL

Well I finding the same been let down by time wasters,they have false verification on there profile and multiples id on here,something will have,to be done I here for fun not to be pissed around I will not support this site if this is allowed to carry on

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Well I've popped back in here this morning to see how the threads going and can barely walk for a mixture of dummies and popcorn on the floor

I've been on here on and off over 2 years. I have yet to experience a timewater from single females or couples.

All I can say negative and/or desperation attracts them. Traits I don't tend to display.

Look closer to home for the solution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I've popped back in here this morning to see how the threads going and can barely walk for a mixture of dummies and popcorn on the floor

I've been on here on and off over 2 years. I have yet to experience a timewater from single females or couples.

All I can say negative and/or desperation attracts them. Traits I don't tend to display.

Look closer to home for the solution. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 in a week? I think the OP is dreaming or fantasizing.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

The more I consider this thread the more I consider it to be a vast steaming pile of bovine fecal matter.

More holes in this story than a damaged fishing net.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The more I consider this thread the more I consider it to be a vast steaming pile of bovine fecal matter.

More holes in this story than a damaged fishing net. "

Hell yeah!!!

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"From my experience most single guys are time wasters. If you find a couple who mess you around it is most likely a single guy masquerading as a couple.

I now wait for loads of messages from single guys claiming they are truly genuine. Don't believe it."

Rubbish! So single guys have to carry the can for unreliable couples as well? Pssst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles i dont get it why dont us singles get offers like you down this way, ud have 30+ queueing down the street"

that's exactly what I was thinking.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm struggling really to believe this is genuine.

I don't think anyone would have time to message and arrange meets with 3O men and even if that were true, I find it difficult that not one would turn up.

A water melon could set a profile up here and get men wanting to have sex with it.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"30 in a week? I think the OP is dreaming or fantasizing. "

...not to mention a dismal negative profile with no pictures, one 'bumped into at a club' verification and been on site for 11 months without a real meet?

The conclusion is elementary, my dear readers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't believe it for a min either.. And what happened to the OP ?

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By *kmale421Man
over a year ago

wirral


"I'm struggling really to believe this is genuine.

I don't think anyone would have time to message and arrange meets with 3O men and even if that were true, I find it difficult that not one would turn up.

A water melon could set a profile up here and get men wanting to have sex with it.

"

LMAO at the Water Melon Analogy, I wonder if it would be contacted by a cucumber....

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Yet another whinging single female who's only been on site 11 months and can't get a meet!

Us blokes don't whip off our Y-fronts just anyone you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30 in a week? I think the OP is dreaming or fantasizing. "

i think quite a lot of people fantitize on here, not to mention lots of single girls and couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another whinging single female who's only been on site 11 months and can't get a meet!

Us blokes don't whip off our Y-fronts just anyone you know "

Y-fronts do men still wear them

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Yet another whinging single female who's only been on site 11 months and can't get a meet!

Us blokes don't whip off our Y-fronts just anyone you know

Y-fronts do men still wear them "

Why Y fronts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my experience most single guys are time wasters. If you find a couple who mess you around it is most likely a single guy masquerading as a couple.

I now wait for loads of messages from single guys claiming they are truly genuine. Don't believe it."

I disagree, I think people will blame a single guy; even if its a couples profile.

Its easier to believe you've been messed around; instead of just saying, ok theyve changed their mind and Im not for them.

Each group has 'time wasters'

however, I recently saw both sides of a 'time wasters incident' and neither parties were actually time wasters, it was a mis communication. It made me realise why name and shame would never work too.

More salt people,

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre


"Yet another whinging single female who's only been on site 11 months and can't get a meet!

Us blokes don't whip off our Y-fronts just anyone you know

Y-fronts do men still wear them "

Thinking the same,

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

A profile with no pics, one club veri from a couple who chatted to the op 11 months ago? Hmm. Were that a guys profile I wouldn't even bother.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Yet another whinging single female who's only been on site 11 months and can't get a meet!

Us blokes don't whip off our Y-fronts just anyone you know

Y-fronts do men still wear them "

Only by special request, otherwise it's the mankini or elephant posing pouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"A profile with no pics, one club veri from a couple who chatted to the op 11 months ago? Hmm. Were that a guys profile I wouldn't even bother."

Trust me, any self respecting bloke wouldn't look twice at it either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another whinging single female who's only been on site 11 months and can't get a meet!

Us blokes don't whip off our Y-fronts just anyone you know

Y-fronts do men still wear them

Only by special request, otherwise it's the mankini or elephant posing pouch "

*spits out coffee* got the giggles now !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles "

That's odd ! What is wrong with them ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe all 30 are reading this, repenting their sin and thinking 'my loss'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read the profile and yes it's a little strange isn't it?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"maybe all 30 are reading this, repenting their sin and thinking 'my loss'"

I'd go one step further View, all 30 have read this, messaged the OP with fulsome apologies, re-arranged meets and she's getting rogered to within an inch of her life which is why she hasn't had time to come back on to the thread...

And they all lived happily ever after...

Cynical? Moi???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit i cant believe it myself

Being a single woman on here i know how many messages and offers you get and even if i out all the men im not interested in or attracted to i could still get a meet a day every day for the next 6 month without meeting the same guy twice, and theres bugger all special about me so if i can get meets why cant the OP

Seems a bit attention seeking to me this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet another whinging single female who's only been on site 11 months and can't get a meet!

Us blokes don't whip off our Y-fronts just anyone you know

Y-fronts do men still wear them

Only by special request, otherwise it's the mankini or elephant posing pouch "

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"A profile with no pics, one club veri from a couple who chatted to the op 11 months ago? Hmm. Were that a guys profile I wouldn't even bother.

Trust me, any self respecting bloke wouldn't look twice at it either..."

I kind of meant that I couldn't take the profile seriously.

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By *rs tart OP   Woman
over a year ago

derby

well having read your mixed replys been at work hence y iv not been on . and yes its all true and iv got to say this had the venue the singles asked for the meet and it was group fun you need to ask 30 to get 3 to turn up

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By *ausage and sizzleCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles "

In our experience most talk the talk and haven't got the bottle to walk the walk when it comes to it and back out at the last minute, bit pathetic really from grown men ! Unfortunately the genuine guys suffer because of it I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30 in a week? I think the OP is dreaming or fantasizing. "

What about in one day

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"well having read your mixed replys been at work hence y iv not been on . and yes its all true and iv got to say this had the venue the singles asked for the meet and it was group fun you need to ask 30 to get 3 to turn up "

then you should consider what YOU have to do different moving forward....

any ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well having read your mixed replys been at work hence y iv not been on . and yes its all true and iv got to say this had the venue the singles asked for the meet and it was group fun you need to ask 30 to get 3 to turn up "

I find best thing is to use a club. I find that that way the guys tend to turn up. And in case of not enough guys turning up. There are guys on hand anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles

In our experience most talk the talk and haven't got the bottle to walk the walk when it comes to it and back out at the last minute, bit pathetic really from grown men ! Unfortunately the genuine guys suffer because of it I'm afraid."
Yeah we do, lots of us are genuine. Some guys must like the fantasy of meeting but have not got the bottle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30 in a week? I think the OP is dreaming or fantasizing. "
I was thinking age 30 ? lol if 30 men let her down she must be doing something very wrong .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the genuine guys do not suffer, they make their own destiny... mostly with self respect, a honed selection criteria, taking time to get to know people and not a scattergun any orifice will do mentality works..

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

When I see females and couples complaining about massive let downs by single guys, it gets me wondering how much due diligence was done in the initial selection process.

For instance, with the OP, did you just invite any single guy who replied to your meet request or did you check whether they were:

* Verified

* Local

* Had pictures

* Could string a sentence together

Did you speak to any of them on the phone? Did you give them good directions to the venue?

The fact of the matter is that there are a lot of timewasters out there, so you have to give yourself the best shot at getting genuine people by doing some simple vetting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I see females and couples complaining about massive let downs by single guys, it gets me wondering how much due diligence was done in the initial selection process.

For instance, with the OP, did you just invite any single guy who replied to your meet request or did you check whether they were:

* Verified

* Local

* Had pictures

* Could string a sentence together

Did you speak to any of them on the phone? Did you give them good directions to the venue?

The fact of the matter is that there are a lot of timewasters out there, so you have to give yourself the best shot at getting genuine people by doing some simple vetting."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the genuine guys do not suffer, they make their own destiny... mostly with self respect, a honed selection criteria, taking time to get to know people and not a scattergun any orifice will do mentality works..

"

Worked for me when I was single. If anything the fakes and timewasters or whatever you call them worked in my favour. Same as crap profiles. In the kingdom of the blind the one eyed man is king and amongst all the dross on here, as a single guy it is very easy to stand out from the crowd.

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"

I'm sorry, but if you have been let down by over 30 single blokes on here, you must be doing something wrong big time.....maybe looking at how these meets are being arranged is the first place to start!

.....I did think the same.....

Me too. That amount in such a short time, the OP is doing something massively wrong."

Not all single men the same but that is a awful lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'm sorry, but if you have been let down by over 30 single blokes on here, you must be doing something wrong big time.....maybe looking at how these meets are being arranged is the first place to start!

.....I did think the same.....

Me too. That amount in such a short time, the OP is doing something massively wrong.

Not all single men the same but that is a awful lot "

its bad odds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the genuine guys do not suffer, they make their own destiny... mostly with self respect, a honed selection criteria, taking time to get to know people and not a scattergun any orifice will do mentality works..

"
Your just like that wise old owl story my gran would tell me bed time when i was a child , Wise words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people who let others down should not be on here its hard enough for genuine guys as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest.

30 meets and not one shown up i think you need to look at your profile and vetting to see what the hell is going on

but we only are having one side of the story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see you have now added some text to your profile, which is a definate improvement.

maybe try some clubs, it's a good way to meet people and make friends within the swinging community which can then lead to further meets and party invites.

Hope things work out for you.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Well I am revisiting this thread to offer my apologies to the OP and eat some humble pie.

It turns out I have met the lady in question socially at a club several times and that this is her single female profile.

She is genuine and the let down seems entirely true, staggering as it seems.

So my apologies for my doubting comments and I wish you far better luck in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just the women that don't show up then lol ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just the women that don't show up then lol ,

"
she had 30 men not turn up , So you have a long way to go to beat that ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she's just attention seeking to get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i had 30 no shows i would be worried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP

Irrespective of the number of failed meets, your profile says you cannot accommodate - but in your post you mention the 'failed to turn up'?

Was this to a pre-arranged social meet or a hotel?

That many hotel meets that have gone tits-up is hellishly expensive!

That many social meets that never turned up - I hope you have a Costa loyalty card

But to drive round to so many houses and they all be out?? Phew, that's just bad luck .

Perhaps as people suggest, a different approach in ing out the time-wasting no-hopers and getting to the quality chaps who are on this site is whats needed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single men get bad press on here. what about couples letting singles down/ couples down. lets here from those people. its swings and roundabouts.excuse the pun. it happens to everyone for whatever reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must say in our experience we have had a lot of single males that love the idea but give them the opportunity and they bottle it but have also met some very nice totally genuine men.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

well with there now being over 100 replies and not a single other post by the OP ... I think we can tell who is serious about not meeting people.

I am wondering though how many back up plans someone needs and...

I am wondering what is meant by being let down.

Is it a case of they chatted to you so you automatically think they are meeting?

No that I expect a reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do we start?

Lack of piccies, lack of a grasp of the english language....total revamp of your profile may help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do we start?

Lack of piccies, lack of a grasp of the english language....total revamp of your profile may help!

"

Im sorry, I'll try harder next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30 have arranged a meet and let you down?"

Didnt take long between realising they had let you down and arranging another meet then? Over four a day IMPRESSIVE!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30 have arranged a meet and let you down?

Didnt take long between realising they had let you down and arranging another meet then? Over four a day IMPRESSIVE!!"

...like a line at the Deli in Sainsbury's!

Now serving number 14...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well having been let down by 30 plus so called single men on here in 1 week well beggars belief that they moan they carnt get a meet and a lot are narrow minded wen it comes to bbws soory you ask for meet then dont show up and no sorry from them going to become a nun or shopping more fun than you singles i dont get it why dont us singles get offers like you down this way, ud have 30+ queueing down the street"

She'd have a sore fanny too

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