FabSwingers.com forum: My plan for the month of April

By *man91 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

So I have been using this website for around 8 years now. Most of my meets have been through swinger's clubs and socials.

This month I have decided to get more active in chatting to people through private messages and possibly arranging meet ups.

Previously I have been rarely able to get any replies. However, this month I will limit myself to messaging 5 profiles a day with whom I have not previously communicated and just see how I do over the month. Therefore I will be active throughout the month, but won't over invest time here.

I will try to message ladies and couples who are possibly looking for a single male like myself and will tailor my initial messages to any descriptions they may have on profile. I will initially search through meet adverts locally and profiles from north west.

Let's see how I do. Will keep you all updated here every weekly-ish.

Feel free to provide any advice on the way. Thank you.

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By * Le ShhhhhMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Good luck

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's potentially worth taking on board some of the advice given to single men who struggle here, as you're restarting efforts. These invariably include updating the profile and other tips, to complement what others often expect.

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By *man91 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

So 1st week gone. Messaged about 30 profiles with replies from about 6 which was not too bad. One conversation eventually lead to a meet with a lovely couple at a hotel who were visiting Manchester. One couple had an erotic conversation over the phone. One lady I met on club visit.

Overall I found it easier messaging people who had upcoming meet posted, referred to a particular header to be used for messages and listed the type of things they were currently looking for.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

In all honesty keeping a running commentary of your meets (or non meets), could be viewed a little negatively. Change your approach sure, but people meet every day of the week without the need for a forum diary.

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"In all honesty keeping a running commentary of your meets (or non meets), could be viewed a little negatively. Change your approach sure, but people meet every day of the week without the need for a forum diary."

You don’t need to read it.

Plenty of other posts in forums are in my opinion totally pointless. Leave him be and let his experiment continue. It might help some, it naught annoy others but so what.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

You don’t need to read it.

Plenty of other posts in forums are in my opinion totally pointless. Leave him be and let his experiment continue. It might help some, it naught annoy others but so what."

Am I allowed to comment if I have read the thread or should I message you in adv for checks? I don't need to read the thread, but I have - his experiment can continue all it likes though people don't usually like being part of a public tally.

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By *man91 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

A quite week this week. But on the upside, it can only get better.

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By *man91 OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

No further updates. It has been pretty quite here for me and I have also been away for the last few days so couldn't really log in either.

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