FabSwingers.com forum: Unattractive sex

By *ranimallxl5 OP Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Have you ever had sex with someone you don't find attractive?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No I don't think I have.

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By *erry2020888Man
over a year ago

stockport

yes i have

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Guilty

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Unattractive personality, face, body or all three?

I've definitely had sex with someone and discovered their personality is unattractive afterwards

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By *owbadisbadMan
over a year ago

Sleaford / Grantham

Yes, when I was on the rebound at 19 years old and my ex wife. It was the mere thought of sex that got me going but in reality I wasn't attracted to them (ex drastically changed her appearance and personality to be polite)

I am attracted to every type of woman, but sometimes there isn't a click there.

I also left a threesome when she mentioned (before much happened) she was into hunting, sorry, cock floppy, I'm off....

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

I’ve always enjoyed sex, everyone is attractive in their own way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. It’s just sex!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope as it'd never lead that far if I didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course and sometimes I was sober!

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By *haz46Woman
over a year ago

Stockport

think plenty i have been with would say they had lol

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Couldn’t do it

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope.

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By *iscreetguy16Man
over a year ago

chester le street

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oroMale41Man
over a year ago

Stockton on tees

Definitely has to be appealing, otherwise I flop

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Attraction comes in different forms for me. And yes there have been times when I haven't found someone initially attractive but because we got on so well they became more attractive to me. So I suppose yes I have if you are talking about just looks.

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

That’s what a social is for ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but it doesn’t bother me after all I am no oil painting

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

Yes, initially wasn’t that attracted but was great enthusiastic sex and the beauty blossomed from within.

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Never judge a book by its cover as they say ?

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By *urenutsMan
over a year ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

Guilty

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By *rincess1988Woman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

Yeah a couple of times and I regret them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course all the Guys are saying Yes lmao

because a shag is shag to them, no matter if you find them attractive or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but usually mind blowing as you know you're not going back so you make sure you leave a lasting impression

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Nope not that I can remember anyway!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Never judge a book by its cover as they say ? "

you gotta look at the cover though!!!!!!

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By *idsHornyCpl40Couple
over a year ago

West Mids area

Aren't you getting confused with sex for sex or sex with attractive people....

Never seen or heard of a guy when out dogging or at a gangbang - say the lady is not attractive enough to fuck....

Wife never said while in the middle of a gangbang the guy fucking her is ugly - if your just have pure animal instinct sex - then sex is sex yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, when youre after sex then a pussy is good. But i do believe if you find them attractive then the sex is better

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Physically not attracted to Yes, many times. But thats when it is part of the fantasy scenario. Being “Made” to fuck anonymous strangers. Some may be hot, others not However, chatting afterwards have always found the guys to be lovely and have great personalities. So don’t regret it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unattractive personality, face, body or all three?

I've definitely had sex with someone and discovered their personality is unattractive afterwards "

Will not be called regret?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like reading a book once you get your head stuck in you're engrossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like reading a book once you get your head stuck in you're engrossed

Do you mean you got your head stuck in an unattractive ladies vagina?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course as long as it tastes sweet and both enjoying why not.

You don't look at the mantlepiece while poking the fire. Same thing wouldn't have to look at her if my heads down there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, made me realise attraction is a must for me

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Hubby here - Yes,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had sex with a few I didn't fancy but there's 1 particular that she was the best sex still don't fancy her but hard just at thought of meeting her which I do regularly

Back in the 80s I saw a specific page 3 model a few times boring sex even though she was gorgeous

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

no never and never will i have to sexually like the guy or she stays as dry as a dessert

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

I have NEVER slept with an unattractive woman/couple in all my life............

BUT................

I have woken up with a few!!!!!!!

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

No…never.

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Very interesting question this for me.

I met a lady via a dating app but when we met up I wasn't attracted to her looks wise but everything else about her I was, we'd been speaking on the phone for a few months and on the date we got on brilliantly. Went back to hers and, well, yes we did what we did. She was the most compatible sexual person I'd ever encountered and just a beautiful human being, ended up falling for her but I couldn't fully commit at the time so it ineviatbly fizzled out. Learnt that attraction isn't always looks based for me, there's so many more layers involved.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I've had amazing sex with someone I'd told previously they were not for me looks wise. Got to know them and it just happened.. was great.

.I've also had amazing sex sessions with people I have no clue what they look like.

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

Yup.

But in most cases I can find SOMETHING attractive about the person.

Except that one time... *Shudder*... The "we've been here a long time and it'd be kind of rude not to" shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. Can't speak for Mr, though. I can't have sex with someone I don't have some sort of attraction to, and it's not just about looks, it's about a connection

Mrs

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Never, how are you supposed to be turned on and even perform if you don’t find them attractive…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a large group play we have played with people we wouldn't have taken to a room in private, but we didn't find them unattractive, just not people who made our jaws drop.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

I prefer to judge someone on their personality!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've had amazing sex with someone I'd told previously they were not for me looks wise. Got to know them and it just happened.. was great.

.I've also had amazing sex sessions with people I have no clue what they look like.

Me too, blindfold sex is great!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes I have more than once.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"I’ve always enjoyed sex, everyone is attractive in their own way!"

Yes they are but not to everyone

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes, unfortunately... It's one reason why I joined fab... No drinking before I arrange anything with anyone

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By *llfunandgames7810Man
over a year ago

xhippenham

"Have you ever had sex with someone you don't find attractive?"
yes my ex wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I had sex with a few women who were physically unattractive but their personality were great

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Well I had sex with a few women who were physically unattractive but their personality were great"

Tbh I would rather someone didn't bother, if they were only attracted to my personality

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

"Well I had sex with a few women who were physically unattractive but their personality were great

Tbh I would rather someone didn't bother, if they were only attracted to my personality

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was years ago, I wouldnt have sex with someone I dont find physically attractive now regardless of personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but I closed my eyes and tried imaging them 20 years younger and slimmer.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Pretty much every time…

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes and again in the morning that was worse, so that I could get a lift back to the hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, sexiness is more than good looks its behaviour that matters.

Which may explain why I've been fucked by men when I'm naked in the woods. I don't fancy them at all but I want that hard cock inside me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course all the Guys are saying Yes lmao

because a shag is shag to them, no matter if you find them attractive or not

If that's the case why do you have an age limit on your profile? After all you said a shag is a shag!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Have you ever had sex with someone you don't find attractive?"

nope

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"In a large group play we have played with people we wouldn't have taken to a room in private, but we didn't find them unattractive, just not people who made our jaws drop."

Yes think this is quite common in group situations especially if the room is dark

It is one of the joys of such situations that people can dabble with all kinds. I think is where people who meet singles one on one and people (singles and couples) who go parties/clubs and enjoy group situations often have a different perspective.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Have you ever had sex with someone you don't find attractive?"

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

"Attraction comes in different forms for me. And yes there have been times when I haven't found someone initially attractive but because we got on so well they became more attractive to me. So I suppose yes I have if you are talking about just looks. "

I agree with this and have had sex with guys who were not initially attractive but their personality attracted me.

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By *erry2020888Man
over a year ago

stockport

find it a turn on

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We aim at personality, it’s often a cut above all else

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

I just can't do it! I won't maintain an erection or be turned on unless I'm attracted to them

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

When leaving a club at 3 am its surprising who looks attractive

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Guilty. My Ex lol

But had shagged women that sort of pushed the scenario on me lol if thats possible. Most times I have pretended to cum and got up and left. One I broke her virginity but still couldn't cum.

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By *gor247Man
over a year ago

london

Unfortunately yes, I’m my younger years had to take one for the team when my mate pulled and I had to keep the other friend company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, no attraction, no erection..

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Nope, no attraction, no erection.."

Amen to that brother

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes, but for good reasons

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I've been attracted to someone and kind of repulsed at the same time. They were quite coercive.

Other than that no I don't think I have.

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By *haz46Woman
over a year ago

Stockport

yes i have, and some have with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’m physically incapable. A blessing in disguise

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By *imbob85Man
over a year ago

inverness

More likely happen to me than for me todo it to some one else lol

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole

All 3. Though I'm sure I'm someone's all 3 as well

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Well I'm having this debate now... personality is good body is good, dick is good

.... just not really the face...would you still carry on fucking?

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Nope I can honestly say that I've not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know about "Unattractive" but have certainly had activity with those I wouldn't necessarily consider beautiful, and often thoroughly enjoyed it

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

No we have standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

Yes but for reasons that were very justified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well give that whenever I have sex, I am present... the answer is yes

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah the drink helped though

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Sort of, he was no oil painting but very well hung. With a cock ring on I couldn't get my hand round it. So I just shut my eyes and hoped for the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but I think it’s quite a fluid thing

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

Just been warching the cams and would not carw how they looked as long as they where free now lol

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By *igs72Man
over a year ago

motherwell

Never attracted to a male but have gone there just for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had sex when blindfolded so not aware if they were attractive or not, although I trust hubby to pick guys I'd like

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never had sex just for the sake of it so therefore it follows that I've never had sex with someone I found unattractive.

A few may have had unattractive attitudes afterwards though.

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