FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging is surreal?

By *enerifehotwifecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Do any couples or singes feel that swinging is surreal and shake your head when you think of things that you’ve done over the years? We do x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't shake my head because I don't regret anything I've done

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By *andA123Couple
over a year ago

cannock

"I don't shake my head because I don't regret anything I've done"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think OP is thinking about regret more about wow that just happened especially compared to vanilla life...

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By *ourladysfavoriteMan
over a year ago

Dali was a swinger

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"I don't shake my head because I don't regret anything I've done"

Not in regret

Just in “wow did that really happen?”

You get what we mean?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I do

. I sometimes shake my head and laugh because some of the people I know wouldn't believe the stuff we've done

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Swinging wasn't a plan, it discovered me and there's been many times over the years when I think did that just happen.

Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often laugh in amazement at how different things are.

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By *reasyMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Absolutely not 20 years later, and I have loved every minute of it and I don’t really see a time of giving up. I know my tastes have changed over the years and I do things and now that I wouldn’t of done 20 years ago but I don’t regret any of it, and I love every second of it.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We should of written a book! Even now we don't belive some of the stuff we've seen and been involved in.

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yep all the time, I shake my head in utter amazement at how hot mrs l2 looks when she’s playing and at the naughty fun we’ve had when we reminisce

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

"I do

. I sometimes shake my head and laugh because some of the people I know wouldn't believe the stuff we've done "

Exactly that!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

When we first went to a club it was very surreal. During our guided tour we walked into a room and a couple were having sex, when you come from being vanilla that's very surreal! We don't play with others that often, when we do it's still surreal

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"I don't shake my head because I don't regret anything I've done"

Anyway better to regret things you have done than those you haven't

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By *ewsexycplCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Yeah we regularly say, WTF has gone on here, after 16 years of marriage and loads of great sex, we've gone from 0-10000mph in the last 3 months! It's bloody awesome! Love it!!!!

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By *onballer9Man
over a year ago

west midlands

"Do any couples or singes feel that swinging is surreal and shake your head when you think of things that you’ve done over the years? We do x"
I do all the time! Especially after a good club night!

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Not quite surreal, but for us each meet like the most filthy, erotic dream. Utterly addictive in every way

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I know exactly what you mean, I still can't believe half the things I've been up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do

. I sometimes shake my head and laugh because some of the people I know wouldn't believe the stuff we've done "

Yes, this me for sure. It’s always in a good way

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You

I've always been highly sexual, so for me it's everybody else that isn't normal!

It's only society that's given us the idea of what is "normal".

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By *edi123Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth

"I don't shake my head because I don't regret anything I've done

Not in regret

Just in “wow did that really happen?”

You get what we mean?"

Yes exactly, we never thought we would end up doing some of the things we’ve gotten up to. Want to make even more memories x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The buzz mainly has been the topic for us

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

I'm going to have some great tales to tell in the old folks home....

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I do

. I sometimes shake my head and laugh because some of the people I know wouldn't believe the stuff we've done "
I used to quite openly admit to my weekends fun... no one ever believed me x

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By *ustful_connectionCouple
over a year ago

cornwall

The only surreal and regretful thing is that we’ve only just gotten in the lifestyle! All those wasted years!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I do

. I sometimes shake my head and laugh because some of the people I know wouldn't believe the stuff we've done I used to quite openly admit to my weekends fun... no one ever believed me x "

A friend of mine once said

"I'm bored, tell me something exciting"

So I said that we were going to friends flat that night and I was going to have sex with him and Mr N. She laughed and replied

"No I meant something believable "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasnt us it was "Wet & Willing" they are the naughty ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when I was following a very sexy lady up to the bedroom in her house half my age knowing what was about to happen

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

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By *olly Goodhead83Woman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Do any couples or singes feel that swinging is surreal and shake your head when you think of things that you’ve done over the years? We do x"

Yes, quite often. Especially after a club visit. Almost seems like it’s happened to somebody else - like an out of body experience. It’s a great feeling though knowing I’ve explored so much.

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By *edi123Couple
over a year ago

aberystwyth

"Do any couples or singes feel that swinging is surreal and shake your head when you think of things that you’ve done over the years? We do x

Yes, quite often. Especially after a club visit. Almost seems like it’s happened to somebody else - like an out of body experience. It’s a great feeling though knowing I’ve explored so much. "

Definitely x

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Absolutely!! Surreal is a word we use..

In no way negatively though! Example , we just got back from a weekend away in Belgium, felt like being naughty, decided to visit Acanthus, got on a train from brugge to Harelbeke.. Got a lift from a local guy picking his daughter up from the train station to the club due to no taxis about

Spent 5 hour's there and a €120 taxi back... WTF!!! Would not change a thing, but.. We love that we'll have that memory

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Do any couples or singes feel that swinging is surreal and shake your head when you think of things that you’ve done over the years? We do x

Yes, quite often. Especially after a club visit. Almost seems like it’s happened to somebody else - like an out of body experience. It’s a great feeling though knowing I’ve explored so much.

Definitely x"

Second!!! X

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Some fantastic insights in your replies

Keep them coming! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't regret anything! Bring on more! X

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford

"I do

. I sometimes shake my head and laugh because some of the people I know wouldn't believe the stuff we've done "

This

Especially at work when I over hear some of the folks talking about their sexual exploits and in my head I’m thinking:

“You have no idea!”

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"I do

. I sometimes shake my head and laugh because some of the people I know wouldn't believe the stuff we've done

This

Especially at work when I over hear some of the folks talking about their sexual exploits and in my head I’m thinking:

“You have no idea!”

Exactly!! The quiet internal laugh at their 'naughty' exploits...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shake my head at things I passed up!

Moments I didn’t take advantage of..

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Exactly!! The quiet internal laugh at their 'naughty' exploits...

O:-

This in the staff room x

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

My sexy lady just showed me this.. Utterly agree!!

Question for the male halves though.. How many of you have 'Mates' groups?

How many times when the, shall we say misogynistic images or comments are posted, do you laugh? Y would blow their minds... Pmsl!!!

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By *heoneandonlyEJCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

A funny thing happened recently and I was left wondering whether to laugh, cry, or write a comedy sketch

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

It's a secret life, it's bound to feel a little surreal. Kinda like being a spy.

I accidentally gave Lucy's play name at a family funeral once. That was awkward.

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By *andyh78Man
over a year ago

manchester

I do sometimes find myself grinning from ear to ear as I think about what I have done. Can’t tell anyone about it though.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Not at all.

But then I don't keep it secret or worry about what other people think so it's just what it is

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"It's a secret life, it's bound to feel a little surreal. Kinda like being a spy.

I accidentally gave Lucy's play name at a family funeral once. That was awkward. "

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Please keep your thoughts on surreal swinging experiences coming x Nice to get to messages too

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