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"Search for the beautiful mythical creature continues. Are there any unicorns out there? " Lots of them | |||
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"Search for the beautiful mythical creature continues. Are there any unicorns out there? " I know two so I believe in them completely. | |||
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"We exist. " And what a lucky couple it would be to share you!!! #BeautifulUnicorn | |||
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"I know a few, we roam in packs Clubs are great places to meet us xx" Which ones would these be and when | |||
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"There’s lots of lovely single ladies, not all like the unicorn name which is perfectly understandable x" agreed not many single ladies want to play with me or us lately but we live in hope! | |||
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"I know a few, we roam in packs Clubs are great places to meet us xx Which ones would these be and when " Liberty Elite & Chameleons are my nearest but so venture out sometimes too xx | |||
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"I know a few, we roam in packs Clubs are great places to meet us xx Which ones would these be and when Liberty Elite & Chameleons are my nearest but so venture out sometimes too xx" We will keep any eye out | |||
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"No, of course not, but I could always put a cone on my head " Picture on your profile as proof please | |||
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"If you are just looking for a unicorn, most unicorns or woman as us in polite society refer to them as, will avoid you like the plague, 1. Because you refer to them as unicorns, an object, a play thing in a sense and 2. Because most single woman avoid couples who only want to play with a single lady, it throws up so many red flags, when I play as a couple we want another couple, so much more fun x" You seem to have made many assumptions here. Unicorn is not a derogatory term. It's just cute nickname referring to how beautiful and rare they are. This world is full of such nicknames. Some enjoy the nicknames and some don't. I doubt it's a concern for most people. And it certainly isn't a red flag that couples only want to meet single women. That's their choice. | |||
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"Perhaps one route to a "unicorn" is one where she is part of a couple but plays with the other couple without her husbands involvement in play. " Wow ok….maybe they do lol | |||
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"If you are just looking for a unicorn, most unicorns or woman as us in polite society refer to them as, will avoid you like the plague, 1. Because you refer to them as unicorns, an object, a play thing in a sense and 2. Because most single woman avoid couples who only want to play with a single lady, it throws up so many red flags, when I play as a couple we want another couple, so much more fun x You seem to have made many assumptions here. Unicorn is not a derogatory term. It's just cute nickname referring to how beautiful and rare they are. This world is full of such nicknames. Some enjoy the nicknames and some don't. I doubt it's a concern for most people. And it certainly isn't a red flag that couples only want to meet single women. That's their choice. " Couldn't of put it better | |||
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"Search for the beautiful mythical creature continues. Are there any unicorns out there? " They sure do.. | |||
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"Am I alone in finding these sort of terms unsavoury? I mean it's all juts nonsense isn't it? Single women being singled out and objectified in order to fulfil other people's fantasies just seems like a weird way to think about it. I feel the same about terms like BBC which does the same Single women are single women. They're not mythical creatures laid bare for you to use & objectify." Use or objectify???? Objectified??? Really?? We are not forcing anybody to do anything! Simply put, we would like to play with a single woman that we could both have fun with. We don’t want another man involved. That’s our “fantasy” at a basic, entry level. Now, we realise that to make this happen we would need to meet a woman who has the same fantasies. To be with woman and man, maybe it suits them also that we are married, maybe that turns them on, they enjoy the feeing of being wanted by both male and female half’s?? I really have no idea, not being a single woman myself with this fantasy! Everyone has their own kinks etc if it’s not for you move on. | |||
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"Am I alone in finding these sort of terms unsavoury? I mean it's all juts nonsense isn't it? Single women being singled out and objectified in order to fulfil other people's fantasies just seems like a weird way to think about it. I feel the same about terms like BBC which does the same Single women are single women. They're not mythical creatures laid bare for you to use & objectify. Use or objectify???? Objectified??? Really?? We are not forcing anybody to do anything! Simply put, we would like to play with a single woman that we could both have fun with. We don’t want another man involved. That’s our “fantasy” at a basic, entry level. Now, we realise that to make this happen we would need to meet a woman who has the same fantasies. To be with woman and man, maybe it suits them also that we are married, maybe that turns them on, they enjoy the feeing of being wanted by both male and female half’s?? I really have no idea, not being a single woman myself with this fantasy! Everyone has their own kinks etc if it’s not for you move on." Why do people say things like that at the end? This is a forum, by definition we're supposed to come on here and express our opinions aren't we? I do feel that the terms 'unicorn' and 'BBC' are term of objectification, yes. It doesn't mean I don't understand or want those things in my life. It just means I find the terminology off-putting. There's nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with a single woman joining you as a couple - it's the terminology that I don't like, not the act itself. Women and people of colour are constantly put in boxes by people with privilege, and I see this as the same thing. | |||
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"Am I alone in finding these sort of terms unsavoury? I mean it's all juts nonsense isn't it? Single women being singled out and objectified in order to fulfil other people's fantasies just seems like a weird way to think about it. I feel the same about terms like BBC which does the same thing. Single women are single women. They're not mythical creatures laid bare for you to use & objectify." No. I personally dont like the term either and i hate being referred to as such | |||
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"Am I alone in finding these sort of terms unsavoury? I mean it's all juts nonsense isn't it? Single women being singled out and objectified in order to fulfil other people's fantasies just seems like a weird way to think about it. I feel the same about terms like BBC which does the same thing. Single women are single women. They're not mythical creatures laid bare for you to use & objectify. No. I personally dont like the term either and i hate being referred to as such" Your ok with vixen though?? Surely they are that small thing?? | |||
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"Am I alone in finding these sort of terms unsavoury? I mean it's all juts nonsense isn't it? Single women being singled out and objectified in order to fulfil other people's fantasies just seems like a weird way to think about it. I feel the same about terms like BBC which does the same thing. Single women are single women. They're not mythical creatures laid bare for you to use & objectify. No. I personally dont like the term either and i hate being referred to as such Your ok with vixen though?? Surely they are that small thing?? " The “unicorn”’part is simply an, almost comical way, of describing something that is so rare it’s almost “mythical”??? | |||
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"Am I alone in finding these sort of terms unsavoury? I mean it's all juts nonsense isn't it? Single women being singled out and objectified in order to fulfil other people's fantasies just seems like a weird way to think about it. I feel the same about terms like BBC which does the same thing. Single women are single women. They're not mythical creatures laid bare for you to use & objectify. No. I personally dont like the term either and i hate being referred to as such Your ok with vixen though?? Surely they are that small thing?? " Yes i am. And just because im ok with one way of describing myself doesnt mean i have to be ok with another way | |||
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"I don't mind the term "Unicorn", however I do object to the assumption that couples are using "Unicorns" for their own satisfaction. In my case it's more about me using a couple for mine if anything." Exactly my point!! Xx | |||
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"Am I alone in finding these sort of terms unsavoury? I mean it's all juts nonsense isn't it? Single women being singled out and objectified in order to fulfil other people's fantasies just seems like a weird way to think about it. I feel the same about terms like BBC which does the same Single women are single women. They're not mythical creatures laid bare for you to use & objectify. Use or objectify???? Objectified??? Really?? We are not forcing anybody to do anything! Simply put, we would like to play with a single woman that we could both have fun with. We don’t want another man involved. That’s our “fantasy” at a basic, entry level. Now, we realise that to make this happen we would need to meet a woman who has the same fantasies. To be with woman and man, maybe it suits them also that we are married, maybe that turns them on, they enjoy the feeing of being wanted by both male and female half’s?? I really have no idea, not being a single woman myself with this fantasy! Everyone has their own kinks etc if it’s not for you move on. Why do people say things like that at the end? This is a forum, by definition we're supposed to come on here and express our opinions aren't we? I do feel that the terms 'unicorn' and 'BBC' are term of objectification, yes. It doesn't mean I don't understand or want those things in my life. It just means I find the terminology off-putting. There's nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with a single woman joining you as a couple - it's the terminology that I don't like, not the act itself. Women and people of colour are constantly put in boxes by people with privilege, and I see this as the same thing." I see where you're coming from but I think you're reaching a bit with that. 'Unicorn' is just a bit of fun, not a conspiracy to box women in | |||
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"I don't mind the term "Unicorn", however I do object to the assumption that couples are using "Unicorns" for their own satisfaction. In my case it's more about me using a couple for mine if anything." I do get your drift about you using the couple rather than them using you, but for me, when I meet couples, no one is using anyone, we are all getting mutual pleasure and satisfaction, so no one feels used or comes away having any negative feelings. Three way fun for all is what it's all about. | |||
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"Yes we exist. I’m generally found in clubs tho. Wouldn’t meet up with couples (or men) outside a club" Same for me | |||
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"Hi Wow!!! You’re gorgeous!!" Aww thank you. You are very kind. | |||
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