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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was wondering how many ladies/men on here have been sent a message from one half of a couple asking you to meet them discreetly on their own?, even though it may say in their profile they only play as a couple? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've had that and it's always been the male half of the couple. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup been asked a few times and as others have said always by the male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a few, it's the guy asking to meet. Oddly most of them they have no pics or verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering how many ladies/men on here have been sent a message from one half of a couple asking you to meet them discreetly on their own?, even though it may say in their profile they only play as a couple? x"

i.had a female half of.a couple approach me, but she did have his permission and he was fully informed... also she mailed.me from her.single woman acct rather.than her joint... she was my first squirter too... happy.days...

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

The females do it too. But it is mainly the men it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crackling's been asked a few times recently... and there was absolutely NOTHING discreet about it! One was right in front of his wife!!!!..... who wasn't in agreement.... let's just put it that way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not happened would be a resounding no!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Crackling's been asked a few times recently... and there was absolutely NOTHING discreet about it! One was right in front of his wife!!!!..... who wasn't in agreement.... let's just put it that way...

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Abosluetly no respect for yourselves or their partner then !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crackling's been asked a few times recently... and there was absolutely NOTHING discreet about it! One was right in front of his wife!!!!..... who wasn't in agreement.... let's just put it that way...

Abosluetly no respect for yourselves or their partner then !!!! "

You got that right....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering how many ladies/men on here have been sent a message from one half of a couple asking you to meet them discreetly on their own?, even though it may say in their profile they only play as a couple? x"

All the time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it doesnt say much for being open and honest does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it doesnt say much for being open and honest does it "

If even swingers will cheat then it doesn't hold out much hope for anyone else.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I usually get the female half messaging on behalf of the male, saying the female is away and she wants me to entertain their man for a while.

Yeaaahhhhh, surrrrre...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admit to being new here so Im still trying to understand how Fabs works. I've had a few messages from the male half of several swinging couples asking to meet me 'discreetly'. My feelings are if someone is part of a swinging couple but playing alone secretly then somehow it seems wrong to me. I'm wondering if a lot of these requests are really from single guys who pretend to be part of a couple as a way to gain intitial trust from single woman??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get the female half messaging on behalf of the male, saying the female is away and she wants me to entertain their man for a while.

Yeaaahhhhh, surrrrre..."

Oh yes had a few of those messages too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were surprised when we first started out as a couple as to just how many were messaging us to that end...and how many couples want to bareback...but thats another thread or 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatelaine-advice from an experienced fabber. Block and delete any requests like that. They are either going behind their partners back which isn't swinging or they're fakers. Many couples do play seperately but they are upfront with each other about that. Welcome to Fab and if you need any advice about anything then post a thread. Ms

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"I was wondering how many ladies/men on here have been sent a message from one half of a couple asking you to meet them discreetly on their own?, even though it may say in their profile they only play as a couple? x"

Yep mr p gets young hot sexy females pestering him to meet all the time.well in his dreams he does lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always getting them... Latest was when was sent a message from a couple and the female half was 26 and he was 38. My reply was I'm sorry your wasting your time because I have a daughter older.The reply back was, well if you won't meet me you can meet my bf alone ! Made me wonder if it was just him mailing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a mail from a fem, scares me to meet as the last thing I want is some angry b/f knocking on my door threatening me cos I banged his g/f lol!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chatelaine-advice from an experienced fabber. Block and delete any requests like that. They are either going behind their partners back which isn't swinging or they're fakers. Many couples do play seperately but they are upfront with each other about that. Welcome to Fab and if you need any advice about anything then post a thread. Ms"

Thank you for that - appreciated. I recently spent a few days chatting online to a really nice single bi-woman that seemed very genuine and friendly (had nice pics etc) then after a few days she suddenly tried talking me into meeting a male friend of hers!! When I said I would prefer to meet her she got really pushy about meeting her friend instead. My instincts told me something was wrong. I mean, seriously, do guys have to really resort to tricks like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprises me how many profiles are single female's but once you start talking they are actually a couple either trying their luck hoping I'll (Sam) play on my own or we want a 4 person meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly there are some desperados out there!!! Trust your instinct, make friends and network on here. When I was playing alone I found that far better than dealing with all the randoms. X

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Feeling all neglected now

Never been asked. Well not knowingly anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling all neglected now

Never been asked. Well not knowingly anyway..."

Well we can't have you feeling left out, wanna play with me, I won't tell my FB about you lol!!!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Feeling all neglected now

Never been asked. Well not knowingly anyway..."

Me too, either we're mingers Jez, or our twatometers work really well and those sort of "couples" don't get past our filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surprises me how many profiles are single female's but once you start talking they are actually a couple either trying their luck hoping I'll (Sam) play on my own or we want a 4 person meet!

"

Same experience. There's lots of 'not really single' single women on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have and its always the male never the female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it a lot

Ive even had it from couples i know in the flesh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it doesnt say much for being open and honest does it

If even swingers will cheat then it doesn't hold out much hope for anyone else. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always getting them... Latest was when was sent a message from a couple and the female half was 26 and he was 38. My reply was I'm sorry your wasting your time because I have a daughter older.The reply back was, well if you won't meet me you can meet my bf alone ! Made me wonder if it was just him mailing "

Ive had that,a couple where the girl was 19 and i declined...He then was trying to tell me she would be happy for him to play alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always getting them... Latest was when was sent a message from a couple and the female half was 26 and he was 38. My reply was I'm sorry your wasting your time because I have a daughter older.The reply back was, well if you won't meet me you can meet my bf alone ! Made me wonder if it was just him mailing

Ive had that,a couple where the girl was 19 and i declined...He then was trying to tell me she would be happy for him to play alone "

ive had that a few times too

Or women mailing me and asking me from the start to meet their fella alone

I had one woman ask me if i would meet her fella because he only let her meet alone if he had a meet too and she had a guy she wanted to meet that weekend lol

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Lost count of the amount of times the 'male half' of a couple has contacted us wanting to meet either 'discreetly' or his partner 'allows' him to. Every time we just ignore or block as it's my opnion that it is just a single guy pretending to be a couple just so you read his message, in the hope he might get laid.

However last week we were approached by the female half of a couple who wants us all to herself-so we're meeting them both for a drink in a couple of weeks with the view that she can then spend an evening or two with us. Result!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thank you for that - appreciated. I recently spent a few days chatting online to a really nice single bi-woman that seemed very genuine and friendly (had nice pics etc) then after a few days she suddenly tried talking me into meeting a male friend of hers!! When I said I would prefer to meet her she got really pushy about meeting her friend instead. My instincts told me something was wrong. I mean, seriously, do guys have to really resort to tricks like that?"

I chatted to a 'lesbian' on another site. I knew it was a bloke after just a couple of days chatting, but it didn't bother me at all. 'She' introduced me to her male friend and I chatted to him too. I knew it was the same person.

We chatted for ages but then I made the mistake of saying I knew it was a bloke/ the same person and we lost touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get the female half messaging on behalf of the male, saying the female is away and she wants me to entertain their man for a while.

Yeaaahhhhh, surrrrre..."

Ugh, agreed, I hate this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we went to a couples house and had a good meet, the following month we were invited back for another meet so said yes, when we arrived we got the impression that she hadn't been told about the meet, she then decided to get pissed and went up to bed without saying a word, he then said we can always have a threesome so the night isn't a total loss, needless to say we quickly left they were removed from our friends list as soon as we got home

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

many a time to loose count, we just block and move on xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even I get it. Always from the male half of course. But they never come out and say it straight away. I always get looked at and winked first, then a neutral message from them, and I reply with a "thank you both" message. Then it's usually asking if I'm able to meet sometime, to which I reply "I'd love to meet you both". Finally it's revealed that it's just the male half. End of conversation.

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