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Why is it so difficult to meet for FF play?

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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Trying to arrange FF play and not getting much joy.

Any advice?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Trying to arrange FF play and not getting much joy.

Any advice?"

No one is going to trust the man of the account acting as a middleman for an ff play.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

If you're looking for girl on girl play only, and their male partner isn't allowed to watch, why on earth would they respond to the male half of you?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Try a club

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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Fair enough.

Wife had a single account but got messed around with fakes and timewasters on that so doesnt bother anymore to arrange meets. I deal with all the admin side lol x

Have no interest in playing at all at the moment x

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Trying to arrange FF play and not getting much joy.

Any advice?

No one is going to trust the man of the account acting as a middleman for an ff play. "

That’s true, I wouldn’t. Maybe creating single woman profile and filtering men/MF/MM couples would work better for you. Just my suggestion.

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By *andA123Couple
over a year ago

cannock

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By *andA123Couple
over a year ago

cannock

My mrs has a single profile for this but think she has given up now as kept getting let down last minute

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Fair enough.

Wife had a single account but got messed around with fakes and timewasters on that so doesnt bother anymore to arrange meets. I deal with all the admin side lol x

Have no interest in playing at all at the moment x"

If someone can't be bothered to reach out and attempt to make a connection themselves I'm sure as hell not interested in responding to some middleman. Personally.

Good luck I guess.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Here is the problem.....a while ago I met a woman at hers on the understanding that her other half was working away for a few days.

As we were getting intimate with each other he comes home from his trip early.....and I was expected to believe that she wasn't in on it.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Two factors really. First the Internet isn't full of women looking for women. Yes lots love the company of a woman however in the grand scope of things there's not a huge amount looking for exclusively FF. Second lots of women have been let down by the Internet so are particularly cautious with strangers from the Internet. Especially when it a profile that doesn't display credible verifications from other credible females in relation to FF encounters. Especially because often what's supposed to be an FF encounter sometimes turns into pressure from them M to watch and/or join in (not at all saying this is your intent just it happens a lot and leads to F's being wary). However this is where socials and clubs can be a great place for F to meet potential F's to play with. People far more trust people they get to meet beforehand in the real would than a profile off the Internet with no verifications of FF encounters. I would say send F off alone to a social or club to find her own FF encounters. F being alone would really help her find good encounters without male involvement.

Basically a good FF isn't easy to find so don't kick your self about. But there are definitely things like send F out alone in the physical swinger world that may help.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Fair enough.

Wife had a single account but got messed around with fakes and timewasters on that so doesnt bother anymore to arrange meets. I deal with all the admin side lol x

Have no interest in playing at all at the moment x"

You see the women your wife wants to meet as admin that needs to be dealt with by you. Possibly try the personal approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard enough to find a woman to join a couple let along for FF play though I have found couples to join when I've gone to clubs alone.

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By *helamontsCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If you manage to pull this off, could you please send me next weeks lottery numbers ...

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I love FF play. I’d rather meet at a club though, I don’t trust anything on fab.

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By *eastXMan
over a year ago

London


"Trying to arrange FF play and not getting much joy.

Any advice?"

Sweety. Work on your profile.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Fair enough.

Wife had a single account but got messed around with fakes and timewasters on that so doesnt bother anymore to arrange meets. I deal with all the admin side lol x

Have no interest in playing at all at the moment x"

If you don't do the legwork you don't get the meets.

Also I'd be very wary that a man arranging meets for a woman would be... A man pretending to be a woman - a fake wasting my time. As you know, single female accounts don't like wasting time on fakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is difficult but not impossible.

I find clubs and social events are a great way of meeting ladies although I have met a few wonderful ladies via this site.

I personally would be dubious at having to chat with the male of the couple though, I always insist on chatting with the lady, if that's not possible then I say goodbye.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

If I'm playing FF, then I expect to speak directly to the other female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet for FF play, but I won't meet if the man is arranging it. I need to communicate directly with the woman seeking play.

Also loads of couples profiles on here are just men looking for wank fodder with an imaginary wife.

Prefer club meets.

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"Here is the problem.....a while ago I met a woman at hers on the understanding that her other half was working away for a few days.

As we were getting intimate with each other he comes home from his trip early.....and I was expected to believe that she wasn't in on it.

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That’s awful. And is exactly the problem with FF meets.

I’ve managed to arrange this once, hubby was in the house and we were honest about that from the start. He had no involvement and us girlies went upstairs and had a very enjoyable evening.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trying to arrange FF play and not getting much joy.

Any advice?"

….Women get all jelous of the other woman. …..

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By *eniandMikeCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Jeni has been trying to just find a woman to even chat to for ages!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the whole scenario and your profile look seriously suspicious. If she genuinely wants FF play (and it’s not just your fantasy), then she should look for it herself and put the time and effort into filtering through the fakes and bullshit, like everybody else on here has to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love ladies but I'm not having the male half sort out the particulars of it. I want to speak to the female and arrange through her.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Trying to arrange FF play and not getting much joy.

Any advice?"

As a bisexual woman, I would totally avoid your profile.

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