FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting Blind

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We posted a meet and despite our profile clearly saying we are not going to meet without a face pic (which we would obviously reciprocate) we are getting pestered by faceless profiles, some with absolutely no photos.

Are we being oversensitive here finding the thought that Mel would meet a guy, for fun, with no idea as to what he looks like or if there is any attraction?

Then when we very politely suggest we need to know if Mel finds you attractive we are then made to feel in the wrong? Who on earth would agree to sleep with someone not knowing what they look like? That is surely not “shallow” or “arrogant” is it? Or are we in the wrong and does it not matter in the swinging world?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If going to meet then photos are a given, even a video chat isn't that hard to do

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a filter to block anyone with no public pictures to save you the hassle.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't engage with profiles that don't match your requirements. Reply politely if you want to but block straight afterwards to prevent further messages.

Also as has been suggested to message filters and block profiles with no public photos.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys dont read profiles. Maybe put that you want a face pic sent on your meet request?

By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"There is a filter to block anyone with no public pictures to save you the hassle."

Unfortunately, some still manage to get through the filters temporarily setting one picture to public, then change it as soon as the message is sent.

By *armale69Man
over a year ago

warrington

If the guys have nothing to hide it's so easy to send an instant pic on here. Though mine tend to put people off