FabSwingers.com forum: Shh, I’m a beginner looking for advice

By *ason_silver OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Gotta love Newcastle, very own local swingers club.

Down side, single male so insanely out of practice and diving in the deep end it would make a psychiatrist need therapy

So. As I understand it...

Wednesday- gay men

Thursday- women who like a lot of men

Friday- when I go

Saturday- couples.

Sound right?

So far, I’ve chatted wonderfully in the bar and jacuzzi (latter has benefit of us all being naked)

But I’m clueless when it comes down to turning friendly into even vaguely sexual...

Any ideas or advice?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of the chat is going well then ask what they are looking for, they may say the complete opposite of what you offer and this could be a polite 'no thanks' or the complete truth.

If you fit what they are after then ask would they like to visit a private room with you, it really can be as simple as that.