FabSwingers.com forum: Being watched

By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I feel like I'm in the minority in that I don't like being watched having sex, I mean I'm not a lights off must be dark but in general I just don't like it, makes me slightly awkward and kinda like I'd have to put on a show which isn't natural for me. I'd love some professional pics done but there's no way I could get it on Infront of a photographer.

Is anyone else the same or does everyone like to be watched?

And those that don't how do you feel during 4+ moresomes?

Do you notice others watching or are they too busy?

Mrs

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By *iscreetguy16Man
over a year ago

chester le street

I bet you could work on the moment just go with the flow

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Have been known to fill a dungeon at Pandora’s.

Suspect it was more to do with the two ladies I was playing with, than me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I thought I'd like being watched but it turned out I didn't when we tried it. It actually upset me.

Perversely I actually enjoy it if I can 'pretend' I don't know. Eg in a room at a club with a small window.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I thought I'd like being watched but it turned out I didn't when we tried it. It actually upset me.

Perversely I actually enjoy it if I can 'pretend' I don't know. Eg in a room at a club with a small window. "

That actually could be worth a try, I've never been watched other than the Mr so would be a good way to see.

Mrs

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I hate the idea of people just being around, watching.

Im ok with more people but as long as it's actively doing something together, it's just the thought of people sitting, staring.

Gives me the icky feeling, don't know why.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I thought I'd like being watched but it turned out I didn't when we tried it. It actually upset me.

Perversely I actually enjoy it if I can 'pretend' I don't know. Eg in a room at a club with a small window.

That actually could be worth a try, I've never been watched other than the Mr so would be a good way to see.

Mrs "

The first time I tried it we were in the woods at Eureka with an audience of about 15/20 men. I had to tell one to back off when he got too close. Although I found it exciting I also felt upset by the wanking zombies which overrode any pleasure. On the same day we went to a private room where I was more than happy for a guy to peer through the window.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I hate the idea of people just being around, watching.

Im ok with more people but as long as it's actively doing something together, it's just the thought of people sitting, staring.

Gives me the icky feeling, don't know why."

Yes this is me, it's the staring, I don't think it would bother me if others were getting it on too, but sat watching just makes me feel on edge.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issue with being watched. It's having pics or films taken without my consent I hate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just replied on another thread about being watched so I'll put the same reply here

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I love to be watched, New Years Eve I was enjoying a FFFF and had 9 spectators enjoying watching. As if it wasn't horny and hot enough, the fact I was being watched by men and couples was the cherry on the cake.

On a side note, I didn't actually count how many were watching whilst I was playing as I was too busy and enjoying the moment, it would of been weird if I was there counting 1, 2,3...my husband told me afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being watched. Not got an issue with absolutely anyone watching

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By *andA123Couple
over a year ago

cannock

Love being watch on cam going try dogging this weekend up Cannock chase hopefully we find a good spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to perform in front of others especially to women and couples

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By *idcot58Man
over a year ago

Chepstow

Love being watched as i am bi its a turn on

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Seems I'm definitely in the minority then, that or I just don't know because I haven't tried?

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Seems I'm definitely in the minority then, that or I just don't know because I haven't tried?

Mrs "

I think taking the population as a whole you're probably in the majority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was a bit nervous about being watched until I tried it.

So hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems I'm definitely in the minority then, that or I just don't know because I haven't tried?

Mrs "

Only one way to find out for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being watched just not when they get too close without a invertation

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"I hate the idea of people just being around, watching.

Im ok with more people but as long as it's actively doing something together, it's just the thought of people sitting, staring.

Gives me the icky feeling, don't know why."

We're the same. In the middle of a big bed surrounded by the sights and sounds of others fucking is an incredibly sexy place to be. 'Putting on a show' in a room while people watch through a window or open door while they chat amongst themselves isn't for us. Maybe it will come in time and with more experience we'll be able to switch of that part of our brains, or maybe we don't have the exhibitionist gene.

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We found being watched in a club open room quite thrilling. We were part of a group playing though which helped I suppose. I'm not too sure the thought of us playing alone with people watching is too enamouring but if it's part of a larger situation, why not?

The audience would also matter I think. Having a mixed audience would be more comfortable than a wall of wanking single lads...

C x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Seems I'm definitely in the minority then, that or I just don't know because I haven't tried?

Mrs

Only one way to find out for sure

That's very true

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

When you're in a club and invited to fuck a lady you just go for it without thinking whose watching, till afterwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being watched by others, as long as they are not able to come close or touch, unless of course it is part of a meet with a couple. But I can also get through the rest of my sex life without anyone else watching

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

We’d love to be watched. C.

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
over a year ago

here and there

We don't mind being watched ,as long as thay arnt being creepy or trying to get too close .quite often play on the couples bed at jaydees x

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By *andotherjCouple
over a year ago

wetherby

Mrs J hates it, mrJ loves it so much he's taken up nude photographic modelling, often with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't enjoy being watched by single men, but love being watched by couples. Problem is we don't end up being watched for too long as mrs often reaches for his cock and they then join us

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