FabSwingers.com forum: Original member 10 years ago but only really joined last night

By *ighirls OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I consider myself new to this site becoming a Gold Member last night .. However I had originally joined 10 years ago as a Friend helped me as I didn’t know about fabswingers then.She verified me but I never understood this site at that time and didn’t really know how to use it. Now it appears that when I tell individuals on here I’m new they’re telling me I’m a bullshiter cos I’ve been a member 10 years.. Anyway, I’m not into drama/disputes etc but neither am I trying to mislead or be a bullshiter. However I’ve been blocked twice because of this and although I’d written reply explaining I was told if you’re going to be a bullshiter be better at it.. I’m only interested in moving forward on this site as Ive already joined till December . I know technically I’d joined all those years ago but I’m genuinely a newcomer in relation to the workings of this site. I just want advice what’s best to do moving forward . Do I have to mention this everytime I respond to someone or is there a simpler solution.Im genuine and don’t want my original “joining” 10 years to give impression im a bullshiter. Thank You , Tommy

By *ightNWet69Woman
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

Maybe put in your bio although you joined many years ago you haven't really used the site until recently, your veris show that you haven't been verified by meet since joining so not sure why you're being classed as a bullshitter.

By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Maybe put in your bio although you joined many years ago you haven't really used the site until recently, your veris show that you haven't been verified by meet since joining so not sure why you're being classed as a bullshitter. "

Good advice but wouldn't worry. Just do what you can now - add some new pics, try to meet and perhaps get new veris so the 10 year old thing disappears then nobody will know. Actually I guess even a cam veri will make that disappear. Also if you have old pics in Friends then delete/set to private.