FabSwingers.com forum: Am I entitled?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I had an unsolicited messaged calling me entitled and being f**king precious. All off the back of just reading my profile. I won’t go into the details but their profile was basic and long time ago verified.

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

You're entitled to have your own standards

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think we're all entitled to have our profile the way we want

And other people are entitled to interpret it their way

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

No I don’t think you are entitled, you are not making any crazy demands, you are just detailing your expectations. DM me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, I like the concise nature of it, leaves very little room for silly misunderstandings

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Sounds like you have just been on the site long enough to spot the bullshit

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

I wouldn't say entitled, especially not by the standards of some profiles on here.

But it does read rather hostile to be quite honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, just straight forward and to the point.

Pxx

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

I see no issues with your profile text OP.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Maybe he was a narcissist

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By *r99mr99Man
over a year ago

Ealing

"So I had an unsolicited messaged calling me entitled and being f**king precious. All off the back of just reading my profile. I won’t go into the details but their profile was basic and long time ago verified.

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled? "

Having standards and knowing what you want isn't entitled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled? "

From me a definite no

Just read whole profile and it just says what you want and don’t want

Definitely not entitled

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Profile looks fine to me, I doubt we'd hit it off for various reasons but that doesn't make you entitled

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By *itty AmourWoman
over a year ago

just around the corner

Your profile is clear, concise, well written and not at all entitled.

Other people's views of you have very little to do with you,but have more to do with themselves.

You carry on as you are chick, block 'em xx

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

Ive gotten the same OP. I dont see anythin wrong with your profile. Block and move on.

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Straight forward and to the point.

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nah, straight to the point, without being a dick about it x

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By *utterfly1983Couple
over a year ago

Widnes

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled? "

Probably just annoyed because none of it applied to them

Just ignore and wait for someone worth your time..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say entitled, especially not by the standards of some profiles on here.

But it does read rather hostile to be quite honest. "
Yes this exactly.

Reads likes she's been hurt before.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Not entitled at all.

I love a blunt profile.

If they can't be bothered to read your profile and respect your wishes, they don't deserve to meet you anyway. ??

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

You're not at all entitled OP; you're very clear about what you're looking for and that's not a bad thing. However, you say nothing about yourself; maybe this is why, that person took a guess at what kind of person you are?

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled? "

Seems clear and unequivocal. Obviously requires those trying to chat with you to display some intellect but nothing wrong with setting the odd challenge. No-one deserves to be insulted just for being part of the site - good luck to you, I think you deserve to do well, nothing about being entitled!

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I've just looked at your profile and it's straight to the point, if someone has an issue with it then they are entitled to move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obly thing your entitled to is wrote what ever the f^^k you want on your profile.....pay them no mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say entitled, especially not by the standards of some profiles on here.

But it does read rather hostile to be quite honest. Yes this exactly.

Reads likes she's been hurt before.

Yes my original profile was more bubbles. I guess Ive written it in response to the negative experiences I’ve had and there’s been a few. Not that anyone reads it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled? "

It’s fine to me … Seems you know what you want …

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Yes my original profile was more bubbles. I guess Ive written it in response to the negative experiences I’ve had and there’s been a few. Not that anyone reads it though "

The people are worth your time read it though. Just ignore the multitudes of assholes in between those rare good ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say entitled, especially not by the standards of some profiles on here.

But it does read rather hostile to be quite honest. Yes this exactly.

Reads likes she's been hurt before.

Yes my original profile was more bubbles. I guess Ive written it in response to the negative experiences I’ve had and there’s been a few. Not that anyone reads it though "
Yeah sorry to hear that, could be a bit more light hearted.

Find a balance.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I wouldn't say entitled, especially not by the standards of some profiles on here.

But it does read rather hostile to be quite honest. Yes this exactly.

Reads likes she's been hurt before.

Yes my original profile was more bubbles. I guess Ive written it in response to the negative experiences I’ve had and there’s been a few. Not that anyone reads it though "

I don’t think you sound entitled at all, there are loads of profiles on here that list things they don’t want and it comes across as agressive and feels like an attack on men here sometimes, I don’t get that impression from you at all though.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled? "

Nothing weird or nasty in your profile.

In fact.you say it as you see it.

the only thing you are entitled to is me fancying you after looking at your pic! Very nice indeed!

end of

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled? "

Not entitled no. Just the result of women getting 100s of messages a day…..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say entitled, especially not by the standards of some profiles on here.

But it does read rather hostile to be quite honest. Yes this exactly.

Reads likes she's been hurt before.

Yeah sorry to hear that, could be a bit more light hearted.

Find a balance.

Changed the writing style but kept the points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say entitled, especially not by the standards of some profiles on here.

But it does read rather hostile to be quite honest. Yes this exactly.

Reads likes she's been hurt before.

Yeah sorry to hear that, could be a bit more light hearted.

Find a balance.

Changed the writing style but kept the points "
Better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. You’re a seasoned player who isn’t interested in having her time wasted. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not at all. You’re a seasoned player who isn’t interested in having her time wasted. Xx"

Thank you

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I think it's great and doesn't come across as entitled at all.

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By *readstone500Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled? "

I wonder what they think you're entitled to exactly! Sounds to me like the usual regurgitation of bullshit. A bit like when people say 'don't judge me!' Of course people will judge you, that's called human behaviour...if you act like a twat people will draw the conclusion that you are a twat...so try not to be a twat!

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Nope it's like ronseal, does what it says on the tin

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Your body, your choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled? "

Not at all. In my mind, people that react like that to profiles tend to not meet the requirements and don't like that fact.

You do you, there's no need to change your standards for anyone. You need to want to meet someone and not be guilted into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be some crazy incel nutjob who is offended by anything from a woman who knows her own mind and has standards

Your profile is well written x

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I see nothing to cause anyone to call you that. Your profile is cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He probably doesn't understand the word "entitled" and equates it with being able to write in sentences and construct a decent profile setting out what you're looking for.

Rather than you being entitled, it's more about him being deprived. Of brain cells.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love your profile, you're direct and clear on what you want. Not entitled at all

Mrs

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I get feedback like that occasionally because I dare to have a relatively long profile that takes at least 1 minute to read through. Ignore the twats.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone. Good feedback and some small changes made

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Whatever you put on your profile, or whatever pictures you post or don't post you will find someone who object or complains. Our advice is that your profile is yours and nobody else so use it exactly as you want to.

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By *oulkissMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Looks fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have an amazing profile. Nothing wrong at all. It's sad but true. Some people come here to upset and hurt people. His opinion is literally worthless. Your gorgeous xxxx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled? "

Your profile reads well & you are absolutely entitled to have preferences.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have an amazing profile. Nothing wrong at all. It's sad but true. Some people come here to upset and hurt people. His opinion is literally worthless. Your gorgeous xxxx"

Awww

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I get slated for my profile for being crap but I'm not gonna copy the trend of profiles, bit of mystery is always good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect written profile and we agree your gorgeous. Take no notice of those that are critical of what you have stated, we get the same when we post sti clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled? "

I got the exact same message although he added “rude and obese” into the mix haha. Wonder if it was the same guy?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled?

I got the exact same message although he added “rude and obese” into the mix haha. Wonder if it was the same guy?! "

Probably

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Just had a quick look at the profile. There's nothing there that makes you sound entitled.

Busy, yes, independent, yes, no what they want and won't accept less. Yes.

So pretty much the same as most other confident ppls really.

That's probably thier problem. Some men seem to think that because you're on here your desperate, when in actual fact the opposite is the case.

Just laugh, block, move on. Xx

Claire.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Does not read that way to us OP. It may come across to some readers as a bit blunt but cannot see anything wrong with that if it working for you.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I guess calling yourself a quality meet could come across as a little entitled but really I'm clutching at straws as that's the only thing I could take as slightly entitled

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By *he Dark GentlemanMan
over a year ago

London

Nope not entitled, just direct so people know what you expect and what they can expect from you so that nobody's time is wasted.

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By *aughtyfireflyWoman
over a year ago

Near Llanidloes

Looking at my profile, would you think I’m entitled? "

Definitely not

But who cares? Women out number men so why shouldn't you be selective about what you want. I really like your profile - clear and honest.

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

100% nothing wrong with your profile it's polite and it's what your looking for. So gives the heads up excuse the pun, to men women couples tv etc who read it. Trust me I've read some profiles and there proper hard-core (again excuse pun) to the point about what they only want.

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