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By *awtee OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you not?

But please bare in mind this site is male heavy! The men have most likely already made attempts with the few nearby matches to no avail and then see Sandra’s post about being horny and think stuff it I’ll give her a try on the off chance, even though she’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!

Your moaning at guys that log in daily to an empty inbox unlike the “sorry guys just working through my 4000 messages” so give them a break, they’re just horny & trying their luck xx

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you not?

But please bare in mind this site is male heavy! The men have most likely already made attempts with the few nearby matches to no avail and then see Sandra’s post about being horny and think stuff it I’ll give her a try on the off chance, even though she’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!

Your moaning at guys that log in daily to an empty inbox unlike the “sorry guys just working through my 4000 messages” so give them a break, they’re just horny & trying their luck xx

"

Amen!!!

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By *awtee OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you not?

But please bare in mind this site is male heavy! The men have most likely already made attempts with the few nearby matches to no avail and then see Sandra’s post about being horny and think stuff it I’ll give her a try on the off chance, even though she’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!

Your moaning at guys that log in daily to an empty inbox unlike the “sorry guys just working through my 4000 messages” so give them a break, they’re just horny & trying their luck xx

Amen!!! "

I feel better now, was weighing me down

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you

But please bare in mind this site is male heavy! The men have most likely already made attempts with the few nearby matches to no avail and then see Sandra’s post about being horny and think stuff it I’ll give her a try on the off chance, even though she’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!

Your moaning at guys that log in daily to an empty inbox unlike the “sorry guys just working through my 4000 messages” so give them a break, they’re just horny & trying their luck xx

"

Very funny mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" She’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!

"
Women on here want more than that

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Man. Nothing worse than people moaning about things is there?

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By *awtee OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"Man. Nothing worse than people moaning about things is there? "

a problem shared is a problem halfed

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Brill. I shall continue to ignore and block, because Nawtee said I can!

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you not?

But please bare in mind this site is male heavy! The men have most likely already made attempts with the few nearby matches to no avail and then see Sandra’s post about being horny and think stuff it I’ll give her a try on the off chance, even though she’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!

Your moaning at guys that log in daily to an empty inbox unlike the “sorry guys just working through my 4000 messages” so give them a break, they’re just horny & trying their luck xx

Amen!!! "

Amen too

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By *awtee OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"Brill. I shall continue to ignore and block, because Nawtee said I can! "

You don’t need my permission

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By *awtee OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

I forgot to mention pretend Sandra’s pretend username, CockLovingSlut, I mean why she gets bombarded with messages I’ll never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got an inbox of men moaning about how long my profile is and they are left confused and head fucked.

(insert shrug emoji here)

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you not?

"

Trouble is....for every woman and couple that moan about men not reading their profiles there's ten guys moaning that women and couples keep ignoring and deleting messages and blocking them without replying.

It's a right nuisance.

A

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife


"I've got an inbox of men moaning about how long my profile is and they are left confused and head fucked.

(insert shrug emoji here)

"

I just actually read it and have to say, it is impressive.

Did you write all of it yourself?

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Or you could actually take the time to engage the profile we aren't here just for a quick shag believe it or not that's not swinging if you want to mindlessly hook up stick to tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're right - the site is "male heavy". So there are two ways for men to score:

1. Put in the work. Put effort into their profiles, write something interesting, and above all, read the women's profiles and make a good pitch if there's a fit.

2. Spend 5 minutes on their profiles and scattergun loads of women on the off chance.

Quality wins over quantity.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

It was pointless having a large amount of text… short and sweet from now on!

Mr HFSB.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

taunton somerset

often said that we should stop moaning about men on here ive also often said we should stop giving advice to men too ..

just leave them be and then the brain filters work for themselves the ones i want to meet stand out the rest dont ..

the thing is with this scene is nobody owes anybody anything no matter what sex you are

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Because when you get several messages with cock pics attached or with graphic content it gets annoying .

Same with wuu2 or hi babe

It takes a couple of mins to read a profile and see if you're what that persons looking for.If you can't take 2 mins to read my profile, you're not for me.

I know many don't read profiles by the amount of winks/messages I get from men miles away who smoke or have big beards .I use quite a few filters too to reduce the mail I get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem here is easily resolved by Fab to be honest.

Give us some more comprehensive filters we've been asking for this elsewhere on the forum for ages. This would mean that fewer, but much more relevant search results would transpire, saving everyone time.

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By *ature MandyWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Laziness pure and simple, especially early in the morning when their testosterone peaks, and they talk about women's hormones!

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

One of my friends uploaded a pic,She handed me her phone so I could see her inbox blow up with hundred of messages.

Mainly dick pics or Wnt 2 fck etc etc

Them males ruin it for normal men on here.

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Most people here are not swingers or all that fab !! but get an ego boost and love the attention,

Going to a club or social is the way to meet people .. sending messages that get ignored is a fools errand ....

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"So something I see all the time is ladies/couples moaning about men not reading their profiles and don’t understand why it’s such a nuisance? You can just ignore or block people that your not interested in can you not?

But please bare in mind this site is male heavy! The men have most likely already made attempts with the few nearby matches to no avail and then see Sandra’s post about being horny and think stuff it I’ll give her a try on the off chance, even though she’s only after athletic black guys with a 10inch plus cock, aged between 32.5-33, be over 7ft, sense of humour like Kevin Hart, able to sing like Sam Ryder, be a repeater and is a pianist!!!!

Your moaning at guys that log in daily to an empty inbox unlike the “sorry guys just working through my 4000 messages” so give them a break, they’re just horny & trying their luck xx

"

TL;DR

You're right, everyone should read the damn profile before they send a random message.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I think the problem here is easily resolved by Fab to be honest.

Give us some more comprehensive filters we've been asking for this elsewhere on the forum for ages. This would mean that fewer, but much more relevant search results would transpire, saving everyone time."

Filters are only as effective as the data used in them though.

How many use incorrect ages, sexualities, heights, body shapes, locations and interest's ?

Filters are useful, don't get me wrong. But detailed info in profile text and clear photos are much better tools to establish interest and attraction. Assuming someone looks at yours and has their own of course.

That and decent messages, conversations, clubs, socials......

The site gives tools. But not all the tools you need and nor can it ever.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a pain when you never normally get messages at all, and the only ones you DO get are from guys who clearly haven't read your profile or ignored anything you said in it. Nothing like getting excited at actually having something in your inbox (not like that ya perverts...) only to find out its a waste of time.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Sorry op, I never read that but I have sent you a dick pic instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry op, I never read that but I have sent you a dick pic instead."

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By *awtee OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *awtee OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"Sorry op, I never read that but I have sent you a dick pic instead. "

where’s my pic lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

But many users are only interested in those they find compatible none of this chit chat hi what you up to, what you been doing

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