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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm 21 and I keep getting told I'm way too young maybe it's just my area

What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We joined another site at 23 , here a few month later. We've never had a problem but some couples have turned us away as we're younger than their kids.

Some like younger guy , some like older. Just stick with it.

Jake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's too young. I'm 19.

I think men our age will have a little more trouble finding meets but I've had a few women message me so their's definitely some interest out there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had some interest just not much as alot are older than me :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im only 19 really ....honest ....not lying .....plus 31 lol...age is but a number but if people have joined site for sex and we assume they are adults so if thier choice i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im 20 and been here since i was 18 and i've been into this whole scene since i was 16! im very mature for my age and people think im many ages. it just depends on who you talk to. some folk are very old fashioned and others are open to it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jon you have a nice profile and im sure you will always attract across the age spectrum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess it's just my area then lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Having Kids myself one 18,21 and 25 id say yes defo too young for all of this ..get yourselfs out there see the world live a little then come back maybe in your 30's ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were a girl then im sure the answer would be a no, there are plenty on here that are looking for young guys keep trying,

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"im 20 and been here since i was 18 and i've been into this whole scene since i was 16! im very mature for my age and people think im many ages. it just depends on who you talk to. some folk are very old fashioned and others are open to it all. "
where did you swing when you were sixteen ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I understand where your coming from if I had kids and they were that know I wouldnt, just wanting to see what people fort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once chatted to a couple in their 50's..the female was stunning and i really wanted a meet but was told i was too young (28). When i spoke to the female 1 to 1 she said she would have loved to meet but her husband didn't want her having young guys....Think he was paranoid about her running off with a young stud lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The demographics of most of the users of this site are older and we tend to be attracted to our own age group as we have similar interests and life time experiences.

It's a pity there are not as many members you age group. This could be down to attitudes and perceptions. I suggested to a work college, who was 19 to join a dating site and his response was...' I am not freaking desperate'.... Glad I did not advice this site... LOL

Hang in there... The odds are staked again you, but perseverance and patience always pays off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I think age could be a barrier, it won't stop the right younger person getting meets. Our first reg is only now 24! But the same unwritten rules apply, no matter what your age:

Don't expect it to fall into your lap

Make your profile well-written, unique and interesting

If someone does make contact, try and engage on their level. You have to adjust.

Get involved with things like social parties to meet new people. A young fit guy will always be popular!

Be yourself - but on a good day x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you that's been noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had some interest just not much as alot are older than me :/"

I think young girls aren't so open to casual sex and a much rarer occurance on here than young guys..

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Theres always dry spells. Ive been a swinger since 18 and never really had a problem meeting apart from when having a gf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They are some young girls but most look fake, they never have pics and they say things on their profile says like I'm a dirty slut and that just seems fake to me with no pics too

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Not too young at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im 20 and been here since i was 18 and i've been into this whole scene since i was 16! im very mature for my age and people think im many ages. it just depends on who you talk to. some folk are very old fashioned and others are open to it all. where did you swing when you were sixteen ?"

i had a guy friend who introduced me to a great friend of mine who introduced me to fab but before fab it was word of mouth people who were interested and passing of numbers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol bet you got lots of meets been 16 and probs very tight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was as picky back then as i am now haha. between 15(when i became active) and 18(fab) i had 7 sexual partners(obv not all at once) haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having Kids myself one 18,21 and 25 id say yes defo too young for all of this ..get yourselfs out there see the world live a little then come back maybe in your 30's ... "

Just because we swing from a young age doesnt mean we dont get out there, see the world and live a little! I do and have had no problems since i was on here at 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol bet you got lots of meets been 16 and probs very tight "

haha,

this made me chuckle. Age has nothing to do whether a woman has a tight one or a gaping maw. Keagals however do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

age is just a number i see it a as a politee way of sayin no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol bet you got lots of meets been 16 and probs very tight

haha,

this made me chuckle. Age has nothing to do whether a woman has a tight one or a gaping maw. Keagals however do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"age is just a number i see it a as a politee way of sayin no"

use that reason on an older woman and see if she finds that a polite way of just saying no.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I agree with miss nawtyd I have a daughter of 27 hence I won't meet young people to me it doesn't seem right. I once spk to someone on here then realised he was her old school friend lol. Others are happy to see young which is their choice.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm 21 and I keep getting told I'm way too young maybe it's just my area

What do you think?"

My absolutely honest opinion is that you need to have a pretty mature head on your shoulders to deal with some of the mind games people will play with you. I don't know if you're mature or not but there's no reason for me to think that you aren't.

I wouldn't meet someone of your age for the main reason that I have a son of 21 and it would feel a bit weird but also because I like to have a connection with men I have sex with and I think it would be difficult to find common ground easily with a man of 21.

There are lots of women who would thoroughly enjoy meting you though

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By *emon DodgerMan
over a year ago

Blackburn

I'm 22 and also had this problem send message and reply " to young!!!!" Lol oh well they don't no what they missing lol haha

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

is 18-25 too young for the scene....depends on the person I think and why they are here .....swinging is a lifestyle not just an easy shag . I think alot of people believe young people(especially young guys) just see sites like this as a sure fire way to get laid ..in saying that alot of older people think the same judging by all the posts on forums ...u know the ones ...ive been here 3hrs and not had a.shag yet ..what am I doing wrong ?..... I think if your old enuff to be here ..and here for the rite reasons then why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think age is irrelevant though it is obviously easier for young women to get meets than young guys due to the sheer number of 40 year olds guys that wouldn't mind a tidy early-20s girl. Don't think it works as well the other way around. Sure there's 'cougars' but I think it's a myth. A lot of women won't even go younger than their own age.

I can understand the not wanting to sleep with anyone young enough to be their own kid though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im 45, ive always been interested in swinging even before i lost my virginity, wheen i was in my teens, been swinging on and off since 18-19 with first g/f, first got interested after watching Quadrophenia the party scene lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 22 and also had this problem send message and reply " to young!!!!" Lol oh well they don't no what they missing lol haha "

clubs are a great way to start. Lots of people who go to swinging clubs are on here and its a good way to get verifications. In my experience people tend to be more concerned about whether you are genuine and also not a timewaster oh and don't forget not an axe wielding psycho maniac, which can be negated by the odd verification or two. I was 20 when I started swinging and never had this as a problem as I just used to go to parties and clubs. its only relatively recent that I have joined this sight and come across people having this problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having Kids myself one 18,21 and 25 id say yes defo too young for all of this ..get yourselfs out there see the world live a little then come back maybe in your 30's ... "

See why does having kids that age mean you think they are to young. And why isn't being on here living? I only ask as I would rather my kids meet off here for their fun than someone random at a club.

I don't see why this is something for people in their 30s. I have been doing this since my early 20s and it's not a bad thing to explore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you look at the avg age onhere its not that surprising

im 31 and i dunno i just couldnt see myself getting it on with a teenager. i reckon my cut off points about 22`ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think age is irrelevant though it is obviously easier for young women to get meets than young guys due to the sheer number of 40 year olds guys that wouldn't mind a tidy early-20s girl. Don't think it works as well the other way around. Sure there's 'cougars' but I think it's a myth. A lot of women won't even go younger than their own age.

I can understand the not wanting to sleep with anyone young enough to be their own kid though."

I couldn't disagree with this anymore than I do. I have had many older women as well as younger women approach me over the years. I guess it's because I have been swinging for 10 years now and as such has many opportunities to meet people.

Stick with it. if you build it, they will cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 21 and I keep getting told I'm way too young maybe it's just my area

What do you think?"

As someone who was not much older than you when I started swinging, can I offer this perspective...?

No, 21 is not too young. BUT.... There are very mature 21 year olds, and there are some extremely immature 21 year olds (goes for people my age too, but that's another thread entirely!)

The problem anyone meeting you will have is - which are YOU? Will say the same thing I always say to people in their teens/twenties - you MUST understand that the average age of swingers is (probably still) over 40, and that means that they could potentially be your parents! Not everyone wants to be having sex with someone young enough to be their son or daughter.. So, if I were in your position again I would be looking to find one or two clubs which I can travel to easily and - most important - REGULARLY so that you can present yourself as you are and let people make a decision about you in person. It's the old thing about a picture being worth a 1,000 words - and the real you can be worth 100,000 words!

That's what I would do, anyway... Good luck with it.. and just have a little patience..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when you look at the avg age onhere its not that surprising

im 31 and i dunno i just couldnt see myself getting it on with a teenager. i reckon my cut off points about 22`ish "

teenagers are great fun, so easily led.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeh thats another reason dont like the idea of teens onhere

u`ll have some old fcukers trying to take advantage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeh thats another reason dont like the idea of teens onhere

u`ll have some old fcukers trying to take advantage "

it's not taking advantage if thats what they are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having Kids myself one 18,21 and 25 id say yes defo too young for all of this ..get yourselfs out there see the world live a little then come back maybe in your 30's ...

See why does having kids that age mean you think they are to young. And why isn't being on here living? I only ask as I would rather my kids meet off here for their fun than someone random at a club.

I don't see why this is something for people in their 30s. I have been doing this since my early 20s and it's not a bad thing to explore

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Tend to hear people say quite often that younger people cant hold a conversation as well either or wont have nothing to talk about with older members on here which i disagree with. Ive met people from early 20's through to late 30's and have never really struggled with conversation and finding common ground.

It is nice though when you meet people and they are surprised by how mature i am for my age. Obviously there's exceptions to this but the same can be said for older people, i just find it annoying how people can be tarnished with the same brush so easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think age is irrelevant though it is obviously easier for young women to get meets than young guys due to the sheer number of 40 year olds guys that wouldn't mind a tidy early-20s girl. Don't think it works as well the other way around. Sure there's 'cougars' but I think it's a myth. A lot of women won't even go younger than their own age.

"

This is so wrong on a number of counts: Disagree totally with it being easier for 'tidy early 20's' girls to get meets - whether they are looking for a guy around their own age (which is FAR more likely) than a 40 yr old bloke with a mid-life crisis! Also, if you're suggesting that it's harder for 40 yr old women to get meets with early 20's guys - I doubt it. MUCH harder for early 20's guys to get meets with 40 yr old women - women of that age group don't want a young guy to 'teach' him (which is invariably what the guy is looking for - fact. Sorry). They want a guy, regardless of age, who is confident in himself and can be 50% of the equation on the day.

As for 'Cougars' - no it's not a myth. There are women 'of a certain age' who deliberately and actively seek out young guys - it's just their preference - but they are almost certainly a minority. It is not to every womans taste to do that and quite a few forum regulars do not like the term 'Cougar' either. And finally... there are plenty of women who will meet a guy younger than them: some only a few years younger, some quite a lot younger, but again, it's all down to personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's age discrimination which some people seem to have imprinted. Naturally socially people are likely to have more common social aspects with people within their own age range but it doesn't mean that one end of the spectrum should monopolise the scene and tell the other end that they don't belong.

There'd soon be a shit storm if more younger people signed up and started telling anyone over 50 that they were too old to be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most teenaged girls are looking for something meaningful. its another reason they can be easily led and taken advantage of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tend to hear people say quite often that younger people cant hold a conversation as well either or wont have nothing to talk about with older members on here which i disagree with. Ive met people from early 20's through to late 30's and have never really struggled with conversation and finding common ground.

It is nice though when you meet people and they are surprised by how mature i am for my age. Obviously there's exceptions to this but the same can be said for older people, i just find it annoying how people can be tarnished with the same brush so easily."

Absolutely agree Juicy, and that bears out my point to Jon about getting himself to clubs on a regular basis so he can talk face to face with people so they can judge him in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think age is irrelevant though it is obviously easier for young women to get meets than young guys due to the sheer number of 40 year olds guys that wouldn't mind a tidy early-20s girl. Don't think it works as well the other way around. Sure there's 'cougars' but I think it's a myth. A lot of women won't even go younger than their own age.

This is so wrong on a number of counts: Disagree totally with it being easier for 'tidy early 20's' girls to get meets - whether they are looking for a guy around their own age (which is FAR more likely) than a 40 yr old bloke with a mid-life crisis! Also, if you're suggesting that it's harder for 40 yr old women to get meets with early 20's guys - I doubt it. MUCH harder for early 20's guys to get meets with 40 yr old women - women of that age group don't want a young guy to 'teach' him (which is invariably what the guy is looking for - fact. Sorry). They want a guy, regardless of age, who is confident in himself and can be 50% of the equation on the day.

As for 'Cougars' - no it's not a myth. There are women 'of a certain age' who deliberately and actively seek out young guys - it's just their preference - but they are almost certainly a minority. It is not to every womans taste to do that and quite a few forum regulars do not like the term 'Cougar' either. And finally... there are plenty of women who will meet a guy younger than them: some only a few years younger, some quite a lot younger, but again, it's all down to personal preference.

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You've clearly got the wrong end of the stick if you think I was saying it would be harder for an older woman to get a meet. At no point did I say it would be hard for ANY woman to get a meet on here. The sheer numbers game any woman who signs up could get a meet at the click of their fingers pretty much.

I wasn't comparing a younger woman and an older woman getting meets.

I was comparing how easy it was for a younger woman to get meets compared to a younger guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think age is irrelevant though it is obviously easier for young women to get meets than young guys due to the sheer number of 40 year olds guys that wouldn't mind a tidy early-20s girl. Don't think it works as well the other way around. Sure there's 'cougars' but I think it's a myth. A lot of women won't even go younger than their own age.

This is so wrong on a number of counts: Disagree totally with it being easier for 'tidy early 20's' girls to get meets - whether they are looking for a guy around their own age (which is FAR more likely) than a 40 yr old bloke with a mid-life crisis! Also, if you're suggesting that it's harder for 40 yr old women to get meets with early 20's guys - I doubt it. MUCH harder for early 20's guys to get meets with 40 yr old women - women of that age group don't want a young guy to 'teach' him (which is invariably what the guy is looking for - fact. Sorry). They want a guy, regardless of age, who is confident in himself and can be 50% of the equation on the day.

As for 'Cougars' - no it's not a myth. There are women 'of a certain age' who deliberately and actively seek out young guys - it's just their preference - but they are almost certainly a minority. It is not to every womans taste to do that and quite a few forum regulars do not like the term 'Cougar' either. And finally... there are plenty of women who will meet a guy younger than them: some only a few years younger, some quite a lot younger, but again, it's all down to personal preference.

You've clearly got the wrong end of the stick if you think I was saying it would be harder for an older woman to get a meet. At no point did I say it would be hard for ANY woman to get a meet on here. The sheer numbers game any woman who signs up could get a meet at the click of their fingers pretty much.

I wasn't comparing a younger woman and an older woman getting meets.

I was comparing how easy it was for a younger woman to get meets compared to a younger guy."

Ah, I see. Yes, valid point. I didn't read your comment that way though. Agree with what you have just said - and yes, it's all down to it being a numbers game... unfortunately...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most teenaged girls are looking for something meaningful. its another reason they can be easily led and taken advantage of"

what do you base this on? Plenty of teenage girls on here and they are definitely not looking for something meaningful, if they were then why would they be on here in the first place, the same with swinging clubs and I have met a few there as well.

I think you must mean in the "vanilla" world where in fairness quite a lot of people regardless of there age are looking for something meaningful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tend to hear people say quite often that younger people cant hold a conversation as well either or wont have nothing to talk about with older members on here which i disagree with. Ive met people from early 20's through to late 30's and have never really struggled with conversation and finding common ground.

It is nice though when you meet people and they are surprised by how mature i am for my age. Obviously there's exceptions to this but the same can be said for older people, i just find it annoying how people can be tarnished with the same brush so easily.

Absolutely agree Juicy, and that bears out my point to Jon about getting himself to clubs on a regular basis so he can talk face to face with people so they can judge him in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most teenaged girls are looking for something meaningful. its another reason they can be easily led and taken advantage of"

You can't meet many teenage girls them lol. Most are looking for fun. In fact girls these days seem worse than lads on that side of things. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most teenaged girls are looking for something meaningful. its another reason they can be easily led and taken advantage of

You can't meet many teenage girls them lol. Most are looking for fun. In fact girls these days seem worse than lads on that side of things. X"

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most teenaged girls are looking for something meaningful. its another reason they can be easily led and taken advantage of

You can't meet many teenage girls them lol. Most are looking for fun. In fact girls these days seem worse than lads on that side of things. X"

i agree with that one of the girls i know i would say is the worst person for that. she meets anyone under 30! lovely girl but my god she has to calm down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its too young.....just too young for me. My son is nearly 19 and the youngest person I would sleep with is 25.

I remember first getting into swinging and wouldnt sleep with anyone over 40 but now Mr is 41 so ive had to higher my age range

I was 24 when we started swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most teenaged girls are looking for something meaningful. its another reason they can be easily led and taken advantage of

You can't meet many teenage girls them lol. Most are looking for fun. In fact girls these days seem worse than lads on that side of things. X"

This is true. The impression before or the stereotype seemed to be that girls look for a potential relationship and end up meeting a string of guys "using them for sex" and not even staying in contact afterwards.

So when it came to meeting people I make a real social effort and even arrange to make a night of it, drink, film, food etc. A couple of times it's came as a suprise when they've been the ones quite happy for it to be "just sex".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i base it on life experience. not that ive ever been a teenaged girl

i been around enough and ive seen enough to think that. vanillas and swingers arent 2 different species. get some life experience under ur belt before u choose an alternative sex life

again tho am not saying all im saying a good percentage

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over a year ago

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'd say not. But as is the case with every single aspect of your profile, there will be those who don't want to play with you due to your age. There will also be those who do and don't want old farts... I mean wonderfully matured and classic playmates like me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha I don't know what to think, if you come off here and wait till I'm older or stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

getting life experience doesn't end because you choose to swing, its just as you say an alternative lifestyle.

Life carries on outside and for many it's only a brief distraction.

I accept you have your opinion and respect that as it's surely based on your experiences, however that doesn't mean to say everybody else has had though very same experience, albeit positive or negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dammit auto correct, does my swede in!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"most teenaged girls are looking for something meaningful. its another reason they can be easily led and taken advantage of

You can't meet many teenage girls them lol. Most are looking for fun. In fact girls these days seem worse than lads on that side of things. X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as over 18 then its all good but u got to realise most swingers r most 30 plus so some have hang ups with younger swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're happy swinging then that is all that matters,never judge a book by its cover or a person by their chronological age!

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By *exyminxy111Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"as long as over 18 then its all good but u got to realise most swingers r most 30 plus so some have hang ups with younger swingers "

Yep, agree with this. We don't have hang ups with younger swingers but had to ask for id just to be sure, they might be 20 but we want to be sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as long as over 18 then its all good but u got to realise most swingers r most 30 plus so some have hang ups with younger swingers "

why over 18?

is 17 illegal?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"If you're happy swinging then that is all that matters,never judge a book by its cover or a person by their chronological age!"

would agree wholeheartedly with this..

if someone is old enough to wear the uniform of the crown, fight in a war or Police the streets etc then they are old enough to explore this aspect..

lets be honest when us old buggers where younger and it was the pub or club to socialise with, how many of us may have dipped in so to speak..

the net and its ease have opened this up to a lot of genuine folk and pro rata the not so genuine..

yes we all have our preferences but no one has the right to say 'your too young' and should wait..

wait for what exactly..

as for living a little then starting, this if its right for the individuals can be pretty much a great time..

crack on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We feel like dirty old pervs for even considering people under 25...doesn't stop us sometimes though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're pretty young but never really get told that we're too young(except in chat occasionally, but I look younger than I am anyway). Its never been a problem for us, I think, because, we dont really meet people significantly older than us, although we would be willing to make exceptions if there was chemistry all round. I'm sure if I had kids the same age as someone I was potentially meeting, it'd make me think twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a babe face and look very young.

So women like it others don't I have not meet any ladies of this site yet. But spoke to some really nice people. Age is just a number all depends on how you come across to them.

I have meet older ladies off other sites and they have never had a problem with age. Only one ladie and that's because she did not belive my age.

But stick with it. Guys find it hard to get meets in here any way. Best sticking to fourms and chat and get your self know also of you have the time and confidence maybe go to your local clubs.

L

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

again... you have been here all of 1 week.. and you come up with the "age" is the issue.....

I'd say that if you are already complaining after 1 week... that "patience" is the issue... not necessarily age....

it doesn't tend to be insta-shag.... rome wasn't built in a day!!!

some like to get to know people for a while... for some people it takes months to get meets because you may be up against others for attention..

time,patience,common sense.....

1 week in doesn't for me show you have given it time, nor shown any patience...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you read my profile it says I've only just come back after a break been on here about 4/5 months

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"If you read my profile it says I've only just come back after a break been on here about 4/5 months"

and if that is the case... then I thought you would know what to expect from your first time round.....

the thing I have learnt from my time here is tif people complain, it is normally about the time that may exclude "them"...

concentraiting on those who won't as opposed to those who will.....

people use that as an exclude... easy to do, leave them blameless....right??? but... too easy an excuse, because that then doesn't leave anything on them...

maybe one of the things I thought you would have learnt from the first go round, is that those who do tend to have success is that they tend to get out what they put in and find a way to differentiate themselves from other people out there... so the question you may want ask yourself is do you? why not? and how can I do that....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You have it all wrong, I'm not moaning or anything I was just asking what people think that's all - chill ya bean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have it all wrong, I'm not moaning or anything I was just asking what people think that's all - chill ya bean lol"

I think it's fine. I know what people are saying about living a little first but I started having 3somes and attending group parties when I was still in school and I've turned out alright! I really enjoy meeting same age and older but sometimes do wish there were a few more 20-something couples on here!

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