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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See this on a lot of profiles.

Can’t share pics etc…

Always makes me wonder what job they do.

Nosey twat obviously.

We can’t share faces because our teenager would die of embarrassment btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teachers perhaps.

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By *omsubdevonCouple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot


"Teachers perhaps."

Indeed

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Based on the level of stirring some do they are either celebrity chefs or professional jam makers.

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

Retail, GP, nurses or doctors , school

A lot of job that involves meeting public every day and sometimes can be embarrassing to be recognised.

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By *omsubdevonCouple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot


"Retail, GP, nurses or doctors , school

A lot of job that involves meeting public every day and sometimes can be embarrassing to be recognised. "

Totally agree. Discretion isn't a nasty word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serial killer always pops in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an fwb who is a police officer...so she is careful

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By *ent1000Man
over a year ago

swanley

Discretion is always the better part of valour !

Professional and personal life are two very different things x

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By *unfabhopesMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Retail, GP, nurses or doctors , school

A lot of job that involves meeting public every day and sometimes can be embarrassing to be recognised. "

Totally agree!

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By *EW2HERECouple
over a year ago

ERITH


"See this on a lot of profiles.

Can’t share pics etc…

Always makes me wonder what job they do.

Nosey twat obviously.

We can’t share faces because our teenager would die of embarrassment btw. "

How has your teenager got access to this site

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

People have different levels of discretion. Some have face pics on their profiles, we've met people who very proudly tell their work colleagues what they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really unless you're a politician or celebrity, who cares?

It's 2023, people! Meeting people for sexual liaisons is not a taboo anymore. Thousands of people across the country use this website every day.

You know what you could do if you were cautious though? Download an app, and blur your face. And take some body shots. This way you can still have pics, and prospective meets can see you have the right number of fingers and toes, without being about to recognise "oh, that's Bob!"

Having no pics at all screams "I'm cheating on my partner and I'm paranoid I'll be recognised."

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By *ent1000Man
over a year ago

swanley

Personally it’s not that I don’t have any pictures on my profile but there are certainly no recognisable face pics.....and I’m not saying I don’t share pics including face pics on the contrary I do but with those I chat too and on my friends list ... they have access to my friends only folder

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By *EW2HERECouple
over a year ago

ERITH

What about those that just have cock pics. When you go to meet them are they going to have their cock out so you can recognise them

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By *rmrs95Couple
over a year ago

Chester


"Retail, GP, nurses or doctors , school

A lot of job that involves meeting public every day and sometimes can be embarrassing to be recognised.

Totally agree. Discretion isn't a nasty word. "

Completely agree with this when it comes to job. With us it's all about having older kids who would be mortified lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really unless you're a politician or celebrity, who cares?

It's 2023, people! Meeting people for sexual liaisons is not a taboo anymore. Thousands of people across the country use this website every day.

You know what you could do if you were cautious though? Download an app, and blur your face. And take some body shots. This way you can still have pics, and prospective meets can see you have the right number of fingers and toes, without being about to recognise "oh, that's Bob!"

Having no pics at all screams "I'm cheating on my partner and I'm paranoid I'll be recognised.""

Some professions would take a dim view of activity on sites like this. Career threatening/limiting type dim view.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"See this on a lot of profiles.

Can’t share pics etc…

Always makes me wonder what job they do.

Nosey twat obviously.

We can’t share faces because our teenager would die of embarrassment btw.

How has your teenager got access to this site"

.............................

Teenagers are resourceful, pics of their best friend's Mum naked on a swinging site would fly around the 6th form common room and further!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most employers have a clause for bringing a company into disrepute.

Disruption and harrasment that could be caused in work place by people being involuntarly outed can be enough for hr to invoke this clause if they need to get involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really unless you're a politician or celebrity, who cares?

It's 2023, people! Meeting people for sexual liaisons is not a taboo anymore. Thousands of people across the country use this website every day.

You know what you could do if you were cautious though? Download an app, and blur your face. And take some body shots. This way you can still have pics, and prospective meets can see you have the right number of fingers and toes, without being about to recognise "oh, that's Bob!"

Having no pics at all screams "I'm cheating on my partner and I'm paranoid I'll be recognised."

Some professions would take a dim view of activity on sites like this. Career threatening/limiting type dim view."

I'd be interested to see any evidence of this. I've seen articles where teachers have been disciplined for being on OF but this is about having a second career as a porn star, not being on what is no different from Tinder or Grindr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really unless you're a politician or celebrity, who cares?

It's 2023, people! Meeting people for sexual liaisons is not a taboo anymore. Thousands of people across the country use this website every day.

You know what you could do if you were cautious though? Download an app, and blur your face. And take some body shots. This way you can still have pics, and prospective meets can see you have the right number of fingers and toes, without being about to recognise "oh, that's Bob!"

Having no pics at all screams "I'm cheating on my partner and I'm paranoid I'll be recognised."

Some professions would take a dim view of activity on sites like this. Career threatening/limiting type dim view.

I'd be interested to see any evidence of this. I've seen articles where teachers have been disciplined for being on OF but this is about having a second career as a porn star, not being on what is no different from Tinder or Grindr."

Trust me.

I know from personal experience

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I always think having no pics means they're hiding something

We all have jobs and private lives ,that we want to keep private .

There are plenty of pics people can add that won't identify them to their work mates.

I just ignore profiles where they have no pics or are reluctant to share any.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Really unless you're a politician or celebrity, who cares?

It's 2023, people! Meeting people for sexual liaisons is not a taboo anymore. Thousands of people across the country use this website every day.

You know what you could do if you were cautious though? Download an app, and blur your face. And take some body shots. This way you can still have pics, and prospective meets can see you have the right number of fingers and toes, without being about to recognise "oh, that's Bob!"

Having no pics at all screams "I'm cheating on my partner and I'm paranoid I'll be recognised."

Some professions would take a dim view of activity on sites like this. Career threatening/limiting type dim view."

Absolutely this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"See this on a lot of profiles.

Can’t share pics etc…

Always makes me wonder what job they do.

Nosey twat obviously.

We can’t share faces because our teenager would die of embarrassment btw.

How has your teenager got access to this site"

Never underestimate what a teenager or their friends are capable of online.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

There are jobs that are governed by certain councils where anything deemed as bringing the profession into disrepute would be cause for dismissal, unfortunately that does include posting nudes online. So yes I understand it, but there's plenty of pics to post without showing who you are. I certainly don't see it as an excuse for no pics at all.

Mrs

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By *litpleaserMan
over a year ago

Oldham

Isn't that why the option of "friends only " photos is available. Personally I wouldn't hesitate to send a face pic to someone I have chosen to a friend ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to post a few pics without my face. Not sure why I'd need to have them slapped all over my profile really? Obviously I'll share with someone I'm looking to meet up with, but why would total strangers need to see it

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By *klondon1Man
over a year ago

London


"See this on a lot of profiles.

Can’t share pics etc…

Always makes me wonder what job they do.

Nosey twat obviously.

We can’t share faces because our teenager would die of embarrassment btw. "

Teacher here. Wouldn’t go down well.

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