FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By *eterA9 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Been on here awhile but thinking of going to a club for the first time, mostly likely Cupids!

Any advance for a single male going on his own?

By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

Whichever club you go to the advice is the same. Don’t stalk around following couples in the hope of being asked to join them. It won’t happen. Rather be friendly and chatty with people and increase the polite flirting as you chat. Have fun.

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Get a tour of the club from a member of staff, who'll give you a lay of the land.

By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Probably the three biggest things is to understand no means no, not have any expectations and to have a good time!

By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

As a single male that’s done it my advice would be don’t worry if you’re nervous it’s totally normal, you’ll probably feel intimidated on your first visit as it’s a big step to take by yourself.

Also don’t force the situation, I was super worried about how to approach people and didn’t want to be creepy or sleazy, so stood at the sides and felt awkward.

But once I realised it’s the same as anywhere and just being friendly and talking to people normally was fine I gained confidence.

Oh and the last bit of a five, don’t expect anything to happen. Just enjoy the experience. If you put pressure on it’ll be a bad night for you, and you’ll put others off