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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What was your first experience of a swingers club ?

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Rough and seedy x

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By *ikingandMaiden2Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West

Amazing and got us hooked

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By *elaxing2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Nervous for few mins until lots of fun began and we there until closing and been hooked ever since x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awful full of rough dirty men and the place stank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubbish. Clique women, hungry men and no sense of safety or control. Horrible free for all

Mrs C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the replies here would suggest the wrong club was visited for their first experience.

We go to Chameleons (Darlaston), a great club, clean, generally respectful people and fabulous policing.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Got put off by the ridiculous porn playing in every room and left after a hour.

Mrs

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

I was fortunate to have transitioned from the naturist club scene directly to Chameleons.

Spoilt would be the term that comes mind as Chameleons is definitely a club that so many aspire to

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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Spent half hour there got scared and left, But i did return at a later date. Picking the right club is important as the vibe is more relaxed at a good club.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hamburg in the 1970s and I found it fascinating!

Mike

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Amazing. We met a few friendly guys for a chat and flirt, and Vixen met a gorgeous domme who did some incredible things to her in the dungeon on our first visit. Most club experiences have been great (one or two shockers) but we’re absolutely hooked x

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Not great and put us off going back for a long time. Too many single men coming up to me when Mr R had popped to the bar or the loo and made me very uncomfortable. We had picked the wrong club/ wrong night really. Did more research when we finally decided to try again. Went to Xtasia and had a very different experience. Loved it.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Le Glamour at Cap d'Agde over a decade ago. It was a great experience and my first play with another woman, something I had been wanting to do for years and years.

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By *oodgirlbadboyCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"What was your first experience of a swingers club ?"

Will never forget our first time, think that we were lucky that it happened to be chameleons in Darlaston, that first night, the nerves how my stomach was turning all I had pictured in my mind was a dark seedy rooms full of smoke kind of place full of dirty old men in raincoats, god how many times did we walk from the car to the door and then back to the car I can’t remember but then it happened, we finally entered and wow what an experience, stomach turning eyes looking everywhere, must have taken about an hour or so before the nerves started to settle, once we got talking to one or two couples and then a few guys, now we look back and laugh,

Saying that I still get nerves approaching the club whenever we go but once we are in and see one or two familiar faces the nerves just disappear,

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By *randMrs397Couple
over a year ago

durham


"Some of the replies here would suggest the wrong club was visited for their first experience.

We go to Chameleons (Darlaston), a great club, clean, generally respectful people and fabulous policing.

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We haven't done a club yet but I'd on the horizon this year, chameleons has been recommended to us by loads of people

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By *locsmilfWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Rough and seedy x"

This , although glad tried again at a much better club.

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By *ockboy77Man
over a year ago

Angus, and Aberdeen area

The old Xanadu in Blackfriars St Manchester in the ‘90’s… Actually quite good then although some “regular” ladies were shall we say expecting “generous gents”!

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By *issmeltingpotWoman
over a year ago

Darlington


"What was your first experience of a swingers club ?

Will never forget our first time, think that we were lucky that it happened to be chameleons in Darlaston, that first night, the nerves how my stomach was turning all I had pictured in my mind was a dark seedy rooms full of smoke kind of place full of dirty old men in raincoats, god how many times did we walk from the car to the door and then back to the car I can’t remember but then it happened, we finally entered and wow what an experience, stomach turning eyes looking everywhere, must have taken about an hour or so before the nerves started to settle, once we got talking to one or two couples and then a few guys, now we look back and laugh,

Saying that I still get nerves approaching the club whenever we go but once we are in and see one or two familiar faces the nerves just disappear, "

First one I went to was Chameleons with my ex.

Almost all of the same feelings as above .

Was I overdressed

Was I under dressed

Went in

Dry mouth

Ten minutes later was wondering why we waited so long to go to a club .

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We had a fantastic night on our first club visit. This was also our first foray into the swinging scene.

We have a club local to us and we decided to head along there. The nerves were rattling a wee bit as we arrived but quickly disappeared once we got the tour. The host was absolutely fantastic and couldn't have been any more helpful.

The other club goers were also lovely and were all up for letting 2 newbies know all the ins and outs. We actually got chatting to a couple we had been messaging on here too which was great.

It was a pretty chilled night with no expectations to play but we were seduced later on in the night by a gorgeous pair

Exhibitionism, voyeurism and non-monogamy all experienced for the first time in a matter of a few hours. What a wild night!

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chameleons many many years ago

Went as a single guy and thoroughly enjoyed it. More the social aspect which surprised me

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

Loved our visit and now are hooked.

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By *issmeltingpotWoman
over a year ago

Darlington


"Chameleons many many years ago

Went as a single guy and thoroughly enjoyed it. More the social aspect which surprised me"

Lol

Was like us when we first went .

Everyone was so friendly

Like a swinging utopia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mine was either Abfab or F-Club

Abfab was a bit like being in someone's living room. F-Club was on a trading estate and I ended up going home with 2 women, so not all bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chameleons many many years ago

Went as a single guy and thoroughly enjoyed it. More the social aspect which surprised me

Lol

Was like us when we first went .

Everyone was so friendly

Like a swinging utopia "

And it just gets better

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By *amLaraCroftWoman
over a year ago

London

My first experience was Kestrels just over two years ago I went with a partner and just pretty much observed the whole day

It was a great introduction and I really enjoyed my first visit

The staff were friendly and reassuring and they are still so lovely now to me all the time xx

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By *bflirtyCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

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By *bflirtyCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Swingers club was Arousals (Now Penthouse Playrooms) but had been. to Torture Garden and Rubber Nipple Club before that in the 90s.

We were quite nervous and spoke to a few coupes who didn't want to play. Near the end of the night we went in the couples room and ended up playing with a much older couple who we had seen earlier in the night and thought may be they were a bit above our age range - just goes to show - 20+ years on and we are the older couple

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By *igforfun100Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

First club was Townhouse in Liverpool. Lots and lots of nerves visiting with girlfriend. It was a greedy girls event and although a large promotion of guys to girls they were all respectful. We controlled our play and left well impressed. Also went to Townhouse in Glasgow. Just pre Covid time and every one scared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decadance in Rochdale 6 people in there including us and two staff . At least it eased us In gently haha

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