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"It's only fun when the guy isn't into that much " Totally. Has to be uncomfortable for him haha | |||
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"It's only fun when the guy isn't into that much I think I heard a man who enjoyed young children say the same on a documentary once. Apparently it’s nothing to do with physical sensations but more the mental and emotional pain of their victims and the emotional and mental high of the predator. " We are talking about consenting adults here, there is no comparison to that quote, and to suggest it’s similar is troublesome. The idea of “forced” in this context would be consented and safe, the same as any dom/sub relationship and whilst power undeniably plays a part (as it does in a lot of sex games) choice and boundaries still play a huge part. The quote you cite is about a person with disgusting and illegal fetishes and as similar to this as non consenting sex is to swinging | |||
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"Surely if it's forced then it's wrong, the person for has to want or like it. To force someone to do something isn't my cup of tea sorry" It's always consensual, they do actually want to do it | |||
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"Surely if it's forced then it's wrong, the person for has to want or like it. To force someone to do something isn't my cup of tea sorry It's always consensual, they do actually want to do it " That's not what's implied by forced though is it? Or am I wrong and it's like 'fab straight' not really forced | |||
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"Surely if it's forced then it's wrong, the person for has to want or like it. To force someone to do something isn't my cup of tea sorry It's always consensual, they do actually want to do it That's not what's implied by forced though is it? Or am I wrong and it's like 'fab straight' not really forced" Nobody should ‘actually’ be forced into doing anything they’ve not had prior consent. This relates (or it should) to fantasy only. I have had messages from men wanting me (force them) to dress in female attire and then have to do certain acts. All consensual and a desire for these guys. | |||
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"Surely if it's forced then it's wrong, the person for has to want or like it. To force someone to do something isn't my cup of tea sorry It's always consensual, they do actually want to do it That's not what's implied by forced though is it? Or am I wrong and it's like 'fab straight' not really forced Nobody should ‘actually’ be forced into doing anything they’ve not had prior consent. This relates (or it should) to fantasy only. I have had messages from men wanting me (force them) to dress in female attire and then have to do certain acts. All consensual and a desire for these guys. " Lmao agree. Use of word 'forced' is in the consensual kink sense of being 'forced' to do something. Obviously anything non consensual doesn't belong here. | |||
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"Surely if it's forced then it's wrong, the person for has to want or like it. To force someone to do something isn't my cup of tea sorry It's always consensual, they do actually want to do it That's not what's implied by forced though is it? Or am I wrong and it's like 'fab straight' not really forced" Of course it's not really forced. It's all part of the role playing and as others have said fully consensual. | |||
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"Got talking to a couple that was into feminisation. Full on stockings, dress, wig, make up etc. Even down to caging the cock in a micro cage. Seemed pretty intense " I don't suppose they were from down my part of the world, because love to meet a couple into that. | |||
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"Surely if it's forced then it's wrong, the person for has to want or like it. To force someone to do something isn't my cup of tea sorry It's always consensual, they do actually want to do it That's not what's implied by forced though is it? Or am I wrong and it's like 'fab straight' not really forced" Exactly that | |||
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