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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Although I’ve always thought of myself as a cuck that loves seeing my wife with fit younger models (like driving a super car on a track day) we’ve recently realised that we are offended when men want to meet her alone. Where’s the fun in that? Although I get the element of humiliation that some cucks crave, being present and involved is much more satisfying for all. Who agrees?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've played with wives in both cases - it's a matter of preference. Some couples want the man to be present, either watching or sometimes in another room... other couples like the scenario where I meet the woman in a hotel room while the husband stays at home. Or he goes out while I visit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although I’ve always thought of myself as a cuck that loves seeing my wife with fit younger models (like driving a super car on a track day) we’ve recently realised that we are offended when men want to meet her alone. Where’s the fun in that? Although I get the element of humiliation that some cucks crave, being present and involved is much more satisfying for all. Who agrees?"
Some men might struggle to perform with another man around.

You have to be in the 'zone' like an Athlete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done both. But I definitely prefer when my husband is involved.

It makes me so horny knowing he’s watching me or even better when he joins in.

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yeah for us it's about more hands etc....we have great sex amongst ourselves so adding an extra in is what ticks our boxes....

That said... trying the hotwife scenario is hot, but just fantasy I think...can totally see why people do though

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By *ylonattireTV/TS
over a year ago

Liverpool

Never ever considered myself cuck.

When we started our swinging journey it was about my wife having fun.

Don't get me wrong I will always participate, however I love watching get sucking on another cock and being fucked.

It was for both of us the anticipation and build up off the meet. The dressing up and getting ready, and by far it was always the best sex on our own afterwards.

Does that make me a cuck ?.

Only with one long term chap, did my wife met on her own for sex.

It was a turn on, knowing what she was upto.

Guess I am a cuck, but don't think of myself as one

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood


"Although I’ve always thought of myself as a cuck that loves seeing my wife with fit younger models (like driving a super car on a track day) we’ve recently realised that we are offended when men want to meet her alone. Where’s the fun in that? Although I get the element of humiliation that some cucks crave, being present and involved is much more satisfying for all. Who agrees?"

The issue has always been with couples on couples profile. Although got nothing against solo guys, guys not what I'm looking for.

Usually couples, well guy of the couple either meeting them alone or him, even though clearly says in the profile only meet a couple as a couple. Has often resulted in a torrent of abuse.

Over the years just learned that it is what it is and not get hung up over or offended by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer solo and returning a wife happy than having a husband standing around getting in the way being all needy. But each very much to their own.

If we are both playing with the wife, totally different. But I don't want to humiliate a guy, while I understand that is part of their thing, it isn't something that does it for me and feel forced and awkward from my point of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although I’ve always thought of myself as a cuck that loves seeing my wife with fit younger models (like driving a super car on a track day) we’ve recently realised that we are offended when men want to meet her alone. Where’s the fun in that? Although I get the element of humiliation that some cucks crave, being present and involved is much more satisfying for all. Who agrees?

The issue has always been with couples on couples profile. Although got nothing against solo guys, guys not what I'm looking for.

Usually couples, well guy of the couple either meeting them alone or him, even though clearly says in the profile only meet a couple as a couple. Has often resulted in a torrent of abuse.

Over the years just learned that it is what it is and not get hung up over or offended by it.

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They have normally just kept the account because it can still be more powerful than single guy profile. The wife has long gone in most of those cases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much prefer solo and returning a wife happy than having a husband standing around getting in the way being all needy. But each very much to their own.

If we are both playing with the wife, totally different. But I don't want to humiliate a guy, while I understand that is part of their thing, it isn't something that does it for me and feel forced and awkward from my point of view. "

It’s not all like that. My husband definitely wouldn’t be getting humiliated. Know some people love that but definitely not our thing. The very thought of it makes me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much prefer solo and returning a wife happy than having a husband standing around getting in the way being all needy. But each very much to their own.

If we are both playing with the wife, totally different. But I don't want to humiliate a guy, while I understand that is part of their thing, it isn't something that does it for me and feel forced and awkward from my point of view.

It’s not all like that. My husband definitely wouldn’t be getting humiliated. Know some people love that but definitely not our thing. The very thought of it makes me laugh "

Yeah, previous experience of that has put me off. Love all playing as equals, not so much being the entertainment brought in to make everyone happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much prefer solo and returning a wife happy than having a husband standing around getting in the way being all needy. But each very much to their own.

If we are both playing with the wife, totally different. But I don't want to humiliate a guy, while I understand that is part of their thing, it isn't something that does it for me and feel forced and awkward from my point of view.

It’s not all like that. My husband definitely wouldn’t be getting humiliated. Know some people love that but definitely not our thing. The very thought of it makes me laugh

Yeah, previous experience of that has put me off. Love all playing as equals, not so much being the entertainment brought in to make everyone happy. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have arranged meets only for the man to ask will my partner meet on own they get blocked then

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Both ways work for me/us, sometimes he's present, sometimes he's not.

Sometimes he's made to watch as close up as close up gets, sometimes he's in the bathroom handcuffed to a radiator.

Variety is the key for me/us

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs


"Both ways work for me/us, sometimes he's present, sometimes he's not.

Sometimes he's made to watch as close up as close up gets, sometimes he's in the bathroom handcuffed to a radiator.

Variety is the key for me/us"

interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although I’ve always thought of myself as a cuck that loves seeing my wife with fit younger models (like driving a super car on a track day) we’ve recently realised that we are offended when men want to meet her alone. Where’s the fun in that? Although I get the element of humiliation that some cucks crave, being present and involved is much more satisfying for all. Who agrees?"
I think both have a place if we are talking about cuckolding

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By *reat-me-Bad2020Couple
over a year ago

London

Depending on the people involved, I like both when (A) is involved or watching and then when I meet alone and he’s getting photos or vid from me .

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By *r SmartypantsMan
over a year ago

London

Been involved with both, meets with the wife on her own were often down to the gent being away for work, but best part was face timing him so he got a window into the fun, drove him wild.

Is a hot way of doing it.

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By *K-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I love watching my wife play, Missus always wants me there and wants me to get involved.

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Agreed much more fun and a visual mind fuck x

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By *S-cardiffiansCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Just different opinions, it’s a horny feeling for some people to send their wife away and not know what’s happening til she comes home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't find the suggestion offensive, though it's not what we look for.

We do feel our eyes roll when the first message is them asking if Mrs meets alone.

Though, if that's what they seek, it's best it's mentioned sooner than later anyway.

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By *enerifehotwifecpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

True it’s all in the mix

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

We play at home but I may leave the room to give them privacy but always I the house for safely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would definitely prefer to play together and I think being involved or even watching in person is a better option but if we did have a regular meet and she wanted too then I would be happy them playing alone, as long as I got regular updates/videos and we had some more fun when she got home!!

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By *ust for fun78Couple
over a year ago

walsall


"We would definitely prefer to play together and I think being involved or even watching in person is a better option but if we did have a regular meet and she wanted too then I would be happy them playing alone, as long as I got regular updates/videos and we had some more fun when she got home!!"
we prefer to meet as a couple but there has been the odd occasion I've dropped k off and waited outside, all good to us with trusted people

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By *reat-me-Bad2020Couple
over a year ago

London

We get it too , but it’s our fault for not stating Hotwife ) but at the moment I am not perusing that , (A) does meet hot wife’s tho

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By *irebrand 1263Man
over a year ago

near you

I like for hubby to watch or join in

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’ve only had this once and the hubby was there but had to stay outside the bed room ! Luckily there were two of us guys there to give the wife some fun as it was so much fun I popped far to early but managed to relay what the other guy was doing which had a good effect on him !! As they went straight to their van to have sex afterwards lol

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I think the fantasy of my wife alone with another is so hot and we roleplay this together ( me being a boyfriend she meets regularly without me her husband)

however as with most in reality seeing my wife enjoying the pleasures of other cocks would be something id not wish to miss

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Having done both, with and without hubby being there, I suppose I prefer sending a hotwife home to hubby who is waiting to reclaim her. If hubby is present I’m not into any form of humiliation but prefer to play with people on equal terms.

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