FabSwingers.com forum: Do people

By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Get turned off by age filters?

Personally, I cringe when I see 18 to 65. It makes me feel like the person will accept any action.

I do try to be objective and assume most people just never bother to change their age range but it still sometimes makes me wonder.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I get turned off by people outside my filters who try to get around them rather than the filters themselves.

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By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"I get turned off by people outside my filters who try to get around them rather than the filters themselves. "

Completely! I've had people message me that look into their 70s, which is way out of my filters. Again, I get that maybe they just had rough paper rounds but after a while, you see what's going on...

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

You set a age filter but people never look and still message then argue that age is just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...maybe they just had rough paper rounds"

Mine was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My peen shrinks when I see 28+ only in the filter.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No I don't. I can't see a problem with wanting to meet people across a wide age range

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By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"No I don't. I can't see a problem with wanting to meet people across a wide age range"

I guess thats the joy of a site like this, everyone can find what floats their boat

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No I don't. I can't see a problem with wanting to meet people across a wide age range

I guess thats the joy of a site like this, everyone can find what floats their boat"

Well, everyone can ask for what they want

whether they find it or not is another matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its their profile , they set their rules.

If someone doesnt want anyone contacting them from outside the age range they are looking for there is a filter they can use.

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By *obbiesnugfitMan
over a year ago

maidencombe

"Its their profile , they set their rules.

If someone doesnt want anyone contacting them from outside the age range they are looking for there is a filter they can use."

And should be respected.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have mine wide open because... although I do generally have a preferred age range, I don't want to miss out on that one special person who may fall outside of it.

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By *rench boyMan
over a year ago

France (23)

"Get turned off by age filters?

Personally, I cringe when I see 18 to 65. It makes me feel like the person will accept any action.

I do try to be objective and assume most people just never bother to change their age range but it still sometimes makes me wonder."

Age is really not an important criterion for me in the context of swinging so I set the range wide and I have never had any disappointment that could make me reconsider.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

"I have mine wide open because... although I do generally have a preferred age range, I don't want to miss out on that one special person who may fall outside of it.

Same as me, if the person looks nice and sexy, I'm not bothered about their age.

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By *ames250122Man
over a year ago

Worcester

"Get turned off by age filters?

Personally, I cringe when I see 18 to 65. It makes me feel like the person will accept any action.

I do try to be objective and assume most people just never bother to change their age range but it still sometimes makes me wonder."

For me personally, age isn’t a big issue and I’ve not really put a lot of thought into it. To be honest, having a connection and attraction is what I focus on more rather than age brackets as it’s not their age that attract me to their profile if it me making contact with them. Though for me I find it tends to sort itself out naturally on here as most peoples profiles I see and end up chatting with aren’t miles apart in age, whether they’re younger or older. Though I appreciate age can be a important factor for people, so it hard to say what the best view or approach is xx

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

I can't say as it bothers me. I imagine some people just don't bother setting them, rather than that they're *actually* looking to meet everyone from 18 to 99, and it's probably similar for those who say 18-65. I think sometimes people read too much into it. I think mine are set to something like that too. It's more a case of 'I'm not bothered by someone's age' and I wouldn't rule anyone out on that basis, though at the same time generally I find I have the most connection with people in/around my own age bracket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d forgotten what mine were, I’ve just had to check

In this lifestyle I’m more open minded than I would be in normal life so my age filters aren’t set in stone.

I often see profiles with a very narrow age range but each to their own. We all run our profiles differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d forgotten what mine were, I’ve just had to check

In this lifestyle I’m more open minded than I would be in normal life so my age filters aren’t set in stone.

I often see profiles with a very narrow age range but each to their own. We all run our profiles differently."

LOL I had to check mine ! I agree with you, depends on the individual and how you may feel at the time. Or is it an age thing?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Get turned off by age filters?

Personally, I cringe when I see 18 to 65. It makes me feel like the person will accept any action.

I do try to be objective and assume most people just never bother to change their age range but it still sometimes makes me wonder."
18-99 i mean many profiles have that age range then theirs the ones i want to message that finish at 50 i mean how unfair is that, i may look older than my age but i definitely act younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL I had to check mine ! I agree with you, depends on the individual and how you may feel at the time. Or is it an age thing?"

Could be actually! Keeping my options open as I’m fast running out of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL I had to check mine ! I agree with you, depends on the individual and how you may feel at the time. Or is it an age thing?

Could be actually! Keeping my options open as I’m fast running out of them!

There are aways options x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us both it's about being honest with people. Below a certain age and we are venturing into ranges that match our offspring - above and it's getting into parents territory.

There is a ten year age gap between us which sets our limits at ten years older than me and ten years younger than her

Now I'm sure that there are people out there that are very lovely and all but we go with what feels comfortable for us. There are many kinds of filtering mechanisms and we don't tend to be offended when we fall outside any of them - age filters included

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