FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the ladies

By *airybox OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

I am curious to know as I have had this happen a few times, where a girl I have had sex with has gone to her friends and told them about the experience. Two or three times o have had further approaches from said girls friends.

Is this a girl thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While we do talk about sex ,I would be pretty hacked off if my friends then started approaching the person .

I certainly would never do that to any of my friends.

Casual sex or not, it would be wrong

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By *airybox OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

"While we do talk about sex ,I would be pretty hacked off if my friends then started approaching the person .

I certainly would never do that to any of my friends.

Casual sex or not, it would be wrong "

This was my initial thought. I’d imagine people would get really pissed off. For the record I haven’t taken them up on their offer. I have too much respect to knowingly engage in such activity

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't tell my friends this stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curious to know as I have had this happen a few times, where a girl I have had sex with has gone to her friends and told them about the experience. Two or three times o have had further approaches from said girls friends.

Is this a girl thing?"

Swingers do. Verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly we talk... Women recommending their current husbands / partners is definitely a thing (for those who like to share). I've much less frequently had that kind of conversation when everyone concerned is single.

But I'm chatty. Have more than once had two halves of rl play dates call me up to tell me about it afterwards!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Yes, particularly awful or funny experiences. The last awful one concerned erectile dysfunction and a sulking man !

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No it's not something I do. I don't see why anyone would want to listen about it anyhow or why I would want to tell people about what happens between me and anyone I meet anyhow .

I have had people on here though go through my veris and contact people I have met which I found strange .

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By *neatelevenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I talk to some (girl) friends about the sex I have, but have never experienced any of them approaching the guy themselves...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I had this with a bloke in my younger days, I kinda felt pimped out and told them all to fuck off.

I'd be unhappy if any of my friends did this, we don't share dick.

Mrs

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'd say it's more a horny fab guy wishful thinking thing

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood

"No it's not something I do. I don't see why anyone would want to listen about it anyhow or why I would want to tell people about what happens between me and anyone I meet anyhow .

I have had people on here though go through my veris and contact people I have met which I found strange . "

Agree. This is why i keep my veris and friends list private on this profile and couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had an ex gf who actually discussed our sex life with my sister! Talk about inappropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Within the swinger world I do enjoy sharing but I’d discuss that with my partner before offering them out to anyone, I generally make it clear I’m happy for them to see others, the only ask I have is they keep safe, as in wrapping up and not getting into dangerous situations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a girl thing?"

It’s definitely a thing, but there is supposed to be some kind of unspoken code that you don’t go after someone else’s guy like that. But in reality it happens all the time.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I've never had a lady's friends come after me after word of my performance got out (if it even did). Either my performance was bad, this isn't a thing, or I haven't met ladies who tell all to their friends

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By *airybox OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Is this a girl thing?

It’s definitely a thing, but there is supposed to be some kind of unspoken code that you don’t go after someone else’s guy like that. But in reality it happens all the time. "

In my book they aren’t very friendly if you’re gonna climb on board straight after. Like I said I got wind of what was happening and cancelled the date.

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

Obvious humblebrag is obvious

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've often wondered about networking without consent on here.

I've seen quite a few people make recommendations but not all the people being recommended are aware that they are being discussed.

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