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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have considered going to a club a few times before but am still not sure as to wether i would enjoy it. I would love to experience it but am unsure as to wether i would feel comfortable enough to play on my first time.

Any help as to what they are really like or how the people are there would be good, also i am aware that i am not everyones type being on the larger side so would hate to turn up and not get any interest lol mad, i know.

Any help welcomed, thanks

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Relax.

If its a good club then expect the following to apply:

You should never be under any pressure to do anything at all, let alone anything you don't wish to do. Play should never be expected by anyone, especially not the club owners as part of the deal.

Size should not matter, same applies to all the other ism's, race, religion, age, orientation, etc. Some parties will state a "preference" however that is exactly what it is, a preference for say BBW's, or BBC, etc. but that is normally for a one off event and not as a club direction.

As for interest, and leaving empty handed, you do have a distinct advantage over the other 95% of single attendees!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do? I must be thick coz i don't know what it is lol but thanks, that helps alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have considered going to a club a few times before but am still not sure as to wether i would enjoy it. I would love to experience it but am unsure as to wether i would feel comfortable enough to play on my first time.

Any help as to what they are really like or how the people are there would be good, also i am aware that i am not everyones type being on the larger side so would hate to turn up and not get any interest lol mad, i know.

Any help welcomed, thanks "

first I wouldnt say your on large side, and second you,d defo get attention in club, but if I were you I,d go with a friend for your first visit,x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the above. We are newbies and only been to a club twice. We found that everyone was polite and curtious. No different to any other social arena. Try to relax, which is easier said than done, but you will come away from the experience a stronger person.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have PM'ed you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, these are helping loads, will have to see when work allows and can get there, but will start looking into it abit more

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By *lirt_tasiaCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"I do? I must be thick coz i don't know what it is lol but thanks, that helps alot"

95% of singles at clubs will be male. You'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha true i guess lol

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