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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (grumpy) used to meet a woman before I met sher and that's all we used to do just watch each other wank I found it brilliant easy no pressure way to get rid of your frustration

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Yep. Trouble is preventing it from escalating, if you’re in person.

On cam it’s great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would meet for mutual wank. I find it very hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, it can be quite sensual too. I would happily do this and only this on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Meli. Mutual masturbation is high on my list of likes. I'd actively encourage a partner to masturbate while playing with myself. There is an element of voyeurism about it which I like. Not so keen on doing it virtually via cam or phone as the connection (no pun intended) isn't the same. Happy Monday to you x

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Love it so hot love watching being watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently met a girl who liked to watch, and be watched. It’s hot if you ask me, and just set things up for more. Not done the virtual thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, so much fun.

Would anyone be interested in doing this virtually?

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By *00 Percent CheekyMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

With a previous fb it reduced the nervousness of the first meet and relaxed us both as was able to see and hear what the other liked and what buttons to press. It did end in a long session after that

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By * Le ShhhhhMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Love a mutual wank! Love watching others have one too! I have never done it with anyone from here but I would.

I get quite a lot from it, if I was to go watch porn it would be in the self pleasuring category anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about on the day of a group social meeting afterwards?

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By *arko2020Man
over a year ago

Sale

I've done it on webcam and love it.

Never done it in person...but would absolutely love to! I think it would be hugely horny

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

It's only hot if you met and played with that person before

And yes...I have done it...

Would I like a stranger to wank on my pics or vids or cam?not so sure about it.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I (grumpy) used to meet a woman before I met sher and that's all we used to do just watch each other wank I found it brilliant easy no pressure way to get rid of your frustration"

See that sounds like it could be really hot in person. Not so much over cams but yep, someone to help scratch the itch/make my horn worse could be a lot of fun.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Yep. Trouble is preventing it from escalating, if you’re in person.

On cam it’s great fun. "

Yes. It's quite hard to not go further once a certain point is reached. You kind of want the person even more when you see it because they're right there. Doing that. I'd like to think I have more resolve but not sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

I wouldn't mind doing that on the 1st meet with anyone. It's a horny thing to do x im a bit of a wanking expert at the best of times lol xxx

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

A mutual masturbation session is a wonderful way of exploring a partner.

On cam it's basically all you can do, and it's a great way of turning a potential meet on. I recommend it.

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By *ensual bi mature gentMan
over a year ago

London and elsewhere

Loved masturbating with my ex.

Her with the vibrator and fingers and me wanking.

We tried to time it so we came off together.

Watching each other pleasuring ourselves was so lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, i wanked a man off and he wanked me off. We cummed on each other and that was the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (grumpy) used to meet a woman before I met sher and that's all we used to do just watch each other wank I found it brilliant easy no pressure way to get rid of your frustration

See that sounds like it could be really hot in person. Not so much over cams but yep, someone to help scratch the itch/make my horn worse could be a lot of fun."

I was never tempted to go further I liked the voyeurism part of it too

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

You’ve been talking about wanking a lot today Meli. Is something on your mind?

Sorry, I should stay on topic.

Yes. So much yes. Masturbating together with a partner is so, so hot. But, as almost everyone has said … an awkward one for a first meet. That, I’ve never tried. Might be fun though.

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago

Absolutely love this.

I’ve done it before where it’s just been me masturbating for someone and I’ve had it where we’ve both played but not touched each other.

There’s something hot about just watching someone play with themselves as they watch how turned on you are by them.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

Yes, definitely.

It can be an exquisitely intimate experience.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Hi Meli. Mutual masturbation is high on my list of likes. I'd actively encourage a partner to masturbate while playing with myself. There is an element of voyeurism about it which I like. Not so keen on doing it virtually via cam or phone as the connection (no pun intended) isn't the same. Happy Monday to you x"

Yes, that voyeuristic element is definitely rather.... something isn't it? I think it's giving that person your full attention, doing something that's normally very private, seeing that side of someone. That's part of why I like it.

I love phone sex but it's never as satisfying and leaves me craving more.

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By *orkiepud_69Couple
over a year ago

Scarborough

Would love to have phone sex with you Meli or cam to cam mutual wanking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point, just do it yourself?

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By *azza72Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

I love it and have done so with numerous women but not sure it was in the early days of knowing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Meli. Mutual masturbation is high on my list of likes. I'd actively encourage a partner to masturbate while playing with myself. There is an element of voyeurism about it which I like. Not so keen on doing it virtually via cam or phone as the connection (no pun intended) isn't the same. Happy Monday to you x

Yes, that voyeuristic element is definitely rather.... something isn't it? I think it's giving that person your full attention, doing something that's normally very private, seeing that side of someone. That's part of why I like it.

I love phone sex but it's never as satisfying and leaves me craving more."

Meli you can phone me anytime for a bit of phone sex x it's a turn on for me too xx

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Love a mutual wank! Love watching others have one too! I have never done it with anyone from here but I would.

I get quite a lot from it, if I was to go watch porn it would be in the self pleasuring category anyway "

I'm surprised, I thought you would have D!

Yes, watching someone pleasure themselves is incredible, maybe I'm just a perv. And need to get to a nunnery.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"What about on the day of a group social meeting afterwards? "

Smooth as silk.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Sat down opposite one another

Both watching intently as the other person slowly strokes, rubs etc. Watching each other getting more and more aroused and wondering who'll be the first to grab the other person & take them, there and then.

Not to be performed in your local Toby Carvery though.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"You’ve been talking about wanking a lot today Meli. Is something on your mind?

Sorry, I should stay on topic.

Yes. So much yes. Masturbating together with a partner is so, so hot. But, as almost everyone has said … an awkward one for a first meet. That, I’ve never tried. Might be fun though."

Possibly. Is it a tad obvious?

You read my posts though. That's the main thing I'm taking from this. And followed me into the murky underworld of Swinger's Chat. Slightly surprised, mainly ego boosting.

I think a first meet it could be quite awkward. Guess it depends on the chemistry, how relaxed you naturally are around each other. Food for thought anyway.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I'd have thought it was a perfect soft swing introduction for a first meet, no touching involved at all. I've done this quite a bit on cam on Flingster and it's very hot, albeit not as good as the real thing.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"… followed me into the murky underworld of Swinger's Chat."

As if I don’t hang out in here anyway …


"I think a first meet it could be quite awkward. Guess it depends on the chemistry, how relaxed you naturally are around each other."

It’s not that I think there has to be awkwardness involved. Just that the first time you get naked with a new partner there’s usually … I don’t know … less calculation. Less planning. Less thought. More lust. More going with the flow. More being desperate to get to know every bit of the other person.

It would take quite some commitment to the bit, is what I’m saying.

But it would be a fun challenge.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I do it quite a bit with the Mr, I'm not sure I'd feel comfortable on a meet though unless I knew them well.

But I don't like being watched.

Mrs

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By *limBobStretchedPantsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Love the idea of this. Same room wanking. Both (or more) enjoying the sites and the sounds and the smells that come with a good wanking session. Just need a willing volunteer x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about on the day of a group social meeting afterwards?

Smooth as silk."

Deadass, stop laughing at me

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Sat down opposite one another

Both watching intently as the other person slowly strokes, rubs etc. Watching each other getting more and more aroused and wondering who'll be the first to grab the other person & take them, there and then.

Not to be performed in your local Toby Carvery though. "

Possibly not. Maybe somewhere a tad more upmarket like Miller and Carter. No chance of stray peas falling into your lubed up hands then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sher loves watching me wank she doesn't think she is good at it but I tell her practice makes perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sat down opposite one another

Both watching intently as the other person slowly strokes, rubs etc. Watching each other getting more and more aroused and wondering who'll be the first to grab the other person & take them, there and then.

Not to be performed in your local Toby Carvery though.

Possibly not. Maybe somewhere a tad more upmarket like Miller and Carter. No chance of stray peas falling into your lubed up hands then."

You may get a few lettuce lickers in miller and carter??

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By *uffhandymanMan
over a year ago

selby/peterborough

I’m always happy to take part in this! Love being watched masturbating and love masturbating whilst someone else Is doing the same next to me, so so hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

Be a pleasure to join you for one to get you more comfortable with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love you to watch me Meli. Drop me a line if interested xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I could definitely wank in front of women, I have done it many times. I d like to do it in front of two or three ladies!

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

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By *ananas2013Man
over a year ago

wolves

Not done it but on mylist to try

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By *9XAYNOR69Man
over a year ago

Centralised he/him/his From the land of cocksuckers

I don't see it as an issue I've had straight curious bisexual guys looking for some uncomplicated uncompromising fun

Totally respectful of any boundaries

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

It's tricky because sometimes you don't aim for mutual masturbation, it just ends up like that. We kiss, we fondle, I reach down and start stroking and fingering your pussy. It's not a massive stretch to you pulling my pants open and grabbing hold as well.

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By *i_guy37Man
over a year ago

Oxford

Wanking 1 or 2 cocks together with my own, is always very enjoyable for me. Even better in front of others.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Having done a lot of work overseas, cam wanking was a great way to stay in touch with significant others!

I have a strong exhibitionist / voyeur streak too, so I'm very happy to be watched wanking as long as I can see the people watching me. They don't have to be wanking too, but it's so much better if they are.

Dogging spots, sex cinemas, sex shop cabins. All great places to go for a wank where strangers can sit there and watch you.

Gbat

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"It's tricky because sometimes you don't aim for mutual masturbation, it just ends up like that. We kiss, we fondle, I reach down and start stroking and fingering your pussy. It's not a massive stretch to you pulling my pants open and grabbing hold as well. "

See, I think we need to make a distinction here. Between masturbating *each other* and masturbating *for* each other. As in, watching each other at it. Beside each other on the bed. Or across the room from each other.

And all the points in-between, too. Stroking my own cock while a woman watches, hungrily. While she cups and fondles my balls. While she kisses me. Or seeing a girl’s hand slide down between her own legs while I’m kissing her …

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

It’s something I’ve done on line & in person.

Stunning to watch and the visual of both stimulating each other and cuming is so hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it...and I'm ready now...skype

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"It's tricky because sometimes you don't aim for mutual masturbation, it just ends up like that. We kiss, we fondle, I reach down and start stroking and fingering your pussy. It's not a massive stretch to you pulling my pants open and grabbing hold as well.

See, I think we need to make a distinction here. Between masturbating *each other* and masturbating *for* each other. As in, watching each other at it. Beside each other on the bed. Or across the room from each other.

And all the points in-between, too. Stroking my own cock while a woman watches, hungrily. While she cups and fondles my balls. While she kisses me. Or seeing a girl’s hand slide down between her own legs while I’m kissing her …"

Ah, see that's all about terminology, if I'd have understood that at the beginning

Yes, wanking yourself for the visual pleasure of the other person, either in the same room, through a window or on live video. Yep, lots of fun.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I've had a leisurely wank with a few guys on Flingster on occasions whilst they show me pics of their wife. Surprisingly enjoyable!

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

Two scenarios

Watching each other wank, great experience so horny and ultimate cum.

Secondly

Wanking each other , her hand cupping my balls and other running up and down my dock as I slide my fingers in and out of her wet pussy.

Again very horny xx

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Would happily meet for a mutual wank. It’s a very horny moment that can be shared.

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By *eo!!Man
over a year ago

Grest Yarmouth

It’s something i would definitely be interested in

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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago

Fairytale Wood


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

Certanly something i have enjoyed with both with guys and girls. Not something id do on a first meet unless person was uncomfortable and i wouldn't push to go further. Was part of a group of friends which we'd meet maybe after a few drinks one would start and the rest would follow.

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

It might be difficult to keep hands to yourself.

Maybe It would turn into a sort of edging contest…..prize for the winner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet years ago that was full of all kinds of awkwardness.

We were sat in this bar, not knowing what to say and I knew I had to disrupt it or it would just end up in a big fat nothing.

So, I declared "right this is pointless, I'm going to my car for a wank -- follow me if you want to watch".

I didn't think she would, but she did, and that was the start of several months of adventure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup - I've had a date where we got to having sex and for one reason or another it just didn't feel 100% right, so we just laid on the bed and wanked together then had a cuddle.

It was actually really lovely

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By *om cat 215Man
over a year ago

Derby


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

You can watch me wank anytime x

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

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By *aturedWithAgeMan
over a year ago

Ashton

Yes, when your staring into each others eyes while you do it!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"Yes, when your staring into each others eyes while you do it!"

I also look elsewhere during this scenario!

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, when your staring into each others eyes while you do it!"

What the flark. You’d be missing out on toe, curling, vagtech and the nip flicks brah

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By *uperrflyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Would love to experience this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love mutual masterbation watching her play whilst your playing and seeing her reactions the question is how long till ya can't hold back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr and I love watching each other as we wank ourselves and we also love to do it to each other - I find it so horny even just watching him play with his cock. Whether or not I'd do it with someone I didn't know very well just depends on how the vibe is at that moment in time

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love playing with myself why watching Mr W&W wank especially if hes close to my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a previous girlfriend we used to do this more than penetrative sex. She said she’d never done it before with any partner and thought it was a bit weird but as the relationship progressed really got into it.

I did it with a female in a private room in Cham’s as her partner looked on. That was horny

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By *andyh78Man
over a year ago

manchester

I have done it online plenty, but it felt pretty flat.

Only done it face to face once. It was much more intense, sitting at opposite ends of a bed watching each other play.

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By *gfbMan
over a year ago

thorne

Had it once with my ex's friend she's watched me masturbating while squeezing her boobs amazing experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do, but only with each other. It’s definitely an intimate thing

Mrs

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

There's something very sexy about lying down, legs over each other, masturbating together. The horned up eyes rolling all over one another

C x

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes I have.

In my late 20s, my then girlfriend and I mutually masturbated over a number of hours.

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By *ensman100Man
over a year ago

Hounslow

Very much enjoy it.. have done so in person with women and men!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve wanked whilst a lady has watched and then I’ve watched her masturbate and yeah it was a meet from off here.

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

never done it but would love to do so with a lady I met here....

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By *irebrand 1263Man
over a year ago

near you

I'd like to try this

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

Mrs always play with herself when she's watching me wank over her or other guys wanking at the clubs

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By *eembuckMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes this is something I enjoy a lot and have been fortunate enough to have had a few mutual meets

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I think this would be hugely popular. If only we all lived closer or went to the same clubs.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act.

Certanly something i have enjoyed with both with guys and girls. Not something id do on a first meet unless person was uncomfortable and i wouldn't push to go further. Was part of a group of friends which we'd meet maybe after a few drinks one would start and the rest would follow."

Now that sounds fun, group mutual wanking.. all have to be disciplined but could turn out great fun if not .. mutuality masterbated with a few partners .. great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a mutual masturbation meet obviously after a coffee social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, with people I am friends with preferably, but have had people come for a random play, that can be pretty exciting too

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge


"Yep. Trouble is preventing it from escalating, if you’re in person.

On cam it’s great fun. "

Agree entirely. Much more exciting than doing it alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to wank for women and cpls

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Yup - I've had a date where we got to having sex and for one reason or another it just didn't feel 100% right, so we just laid on the bed and wanked together then had a cuddle.

It was actually really lovely "

That does sound really lovely! And in a very not patronising way, it's nice you could both say "yep, this isn't working, let's do this instead".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, we have a suggestion. Every couple (mf,ff bi or not) who want to watch the two of us wanking together. Message us and we shall explain

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By *unbipleasure84Man
over a year ago

around you

Plenty of times amazing

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By *iscreetguy16Man
over a year ago

chester le street

Never have but would be interested in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it on occasion and would definitely do it more, given the opportunity. I hear what you say about intimacy but for me, it's more about sex and lust. As they say, "Different folks, different strokes"...

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Done it on occasion and would definitely do it more, given the opportunity. I hear what you say about intimacy but for me, it's more about sex and lust. As they say, "Different folks, different strokes"..."

Yes, I don't think there's a right way to do it really. It can be purely sexual, driven by lust and enjoying watching someone you really really want to fuck losing themselves in the moment. And nothing more. That's not a bad thing, far from it.

I guess because I tend to pleasure myself in private, I'm not really one for clubs or exhibitionism, it does feel like something more intimate for me - having someone watch exactly how I explore my lips, seeing me in my intimate moments as my fingers tease my clit? It's quite personal, to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just reminded me that I went away for the weekend with a friend. We were sharing a bath together. I popped out to get my phone and when I came back she was masterbating and carried on as I did the same. I filmed the whole thing and still have the video. Watch it occasionally for private use

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I like to do it with guys while their Mrs watches us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love it as part of foreplay

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By *YorksBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

I love it, in person or on cams

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By *i-ManMan
over a year ago

Barton

Love it it’s a huge turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done it on occasion and would definitely do it more, given the opportunity. I hear what you say about intimacy but for me, it's more about sex and lust. As they say, "Different folks, different strokes"...

Yes, I don't think there's a right way to do it really. It can be purely sexual, driven by lust and enjoying watching someone you really really want to fuck losing themselves in the moment. And nothing more. That's not a bad thing, far from it.

I guess because I tend to pleasure myself in private, I'm not really one for clubs or exhibitionism, it does feel like something more intimate for me - having someone watch exactly how I explore my lips, seeing me in my intimate moments as my fingers tease my clit? It's quite personal, to me."

Let me call you later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's a big YES! But, only with someone I know, or a person that has expressed a definite interest in watching/being watched. It can be VERY arousing.

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By *ob_bieMan
over a year ago

Bath

Do it as much as possible, it’s amazing!!! Very open to anyone that’s wants to join me in this…

…particularly a lovely beautiful and confident women!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we love it

always a fun part of foreplay

using it to edge is always enjoyable

if somebody joins us, all the better!

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Oh my horniness and the things it leads to me posting.

I'm going to put myself on a screen ban when I'm in an insatiable mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my horniness and the things it leads to me posting.

I'm going to put myself on a screen ban when I'm in an insatiable mood. "

Don’t do that that!!

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By *oanna88TV/TS
over a year ago

Here and There

I've never tried it but it does sound fun, maybe loose the awkwardness by watching some porn together instead of staring directly at each other? Xx

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By *orthcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We do this often, we both find it an incredible turn on.

Years ago I used to cam a lot and found it horny but don't cam at all now, it went very boring after the initial thrill.

Have done this quiet a bit in clubs too with others involved, guess it ties in with exhibitionism which I love.....

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By *avelovesfeetMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I have done this before. It is very enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done it on occasion and would definitely do it more, given the opportunity. I hear what you say about intimacy but for me, it's more about sex and lust. As they say, "Different folks, different strokes"...

Yes, I don't think there's a right way to do it really. It can be purely sexual, driven by lust and enjoying watching someone you really really want to fuck losing themselves in the moment. And nothing more. That's not a bad thing, far from it.

I guess because I tend to pleasure myself in private, I'm not really one for clubs or exhibitionism, it does feel like something more intimate for me - having someone watch exactly how I explore my lips, seeing me in my intimate moments as my fingers tease my clit? It's quite personal, to me."

Would love you to watch me Meli, and maybe join in if you liked what you saw! Drop me a DM if interested xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not this again. Only joking this makes my top 3

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By *ock Around The ClockMan
over a year ago

WINSFORD

Completely find that such a turn on…yes please lol

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I've never tried it but it does sound fun, maybe loose the awkwardness by watching some porn together instead of staring directly at each other? Xx"

I've thought about that before, it could be hot.

But it's not what I want. I don't want overly simulated fake orgasms as background music.

I want to hear someone's every moan and gasp and sigh. Greedily drink in that sound of someone lost in their pleasure, the slickness of someone's fingers touching their skin, the growl when someone is close to coming but wants to extend this bliss, this moment with you.

I don't want to watch porn stars lazily acting out sex. I want to see someone's face as they bite their lip in ecstasy. The flushed cheeks as someone's arousal grows, the way their eyes darken and they're lost, consumed by their lust. That dexterity of someone who knows their body well, showing you exactly how they touch themselves when they think about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why snapchat was invented

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By *oanna88TV/TS
over a year ago

Here and There


"I've never tried it but it does sound fun, maybe loose the awkwardness by watching some porn together instead of staring directly at each other? Xx

I've thought about that before, it could be hot.

But it's not what I want. I don't want overly simulated fake orgasms as background music.

I want to hear someone's every moan and gasp and sigh. Greedily drink in that sound of someone lost in their pleasure, the slickness of someone's fingers touching their skin, the growl when someone is close to coming but wants to extend this bliss, this moment with you.

I don't want to watch porn stars lazily acting out sex. I want to see someone's face as they bite their lip in ecstasy. The flushed cheeks as someone's arousal grows, the way their eyes darken and they're lost, consumed by their lust. That dexterity of someone who knows their body well, showing you exactly how they touch themselves when they think about you.

"

Well I have nothing to argue against that, when you explain it that way it sounds extremely horny and alot of fun xx

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I often masterbate in clubs for others to watch, and wank if they like was my first experience in a club doing this.

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By *rinwin69Man
over a year ago

STOCKPORT

Love to watch and be watched, have done it many times, sometimes it leads to other meets and further, it can be a great way of telling a d showing another how you like to be touched i find it very hot to talk about pleasure with another...

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Absolutely love this.

It's one of my home made porn searches, but I'd love to find a like minded woman to do this with.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I really enjoy it, it’s something I’ve done a lot more on cam than in a room together, but I get very turned on watching a woman get herself off, and if she’s enjoying watching me too then that’s even better!

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By *lubchuckerMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

In the past i've been lucky enough to be wanked while i've given a wank and once or twice its lead to blowing and being blown, not done it for a while but never say never.

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By *teadygaitMan
over a year ago

west berkshire

It's a very intimate act. All need to be on the same page and then it's wonderful. I've only had the joy of it a few times and always very hot.

Total exposure, offered in return, is kinda the ultimate version of consent and I can think of few things more exciting than consent. Ya know it's just gonna go well from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to masturbate with my friends in the past but I am really willing to do it with someone ?

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

West London

I’ve had a couple of mutual masturbation meets with other guys which were great fun and very horny.

I’d love to find a woman for similar fun online or in person.

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By *as1373Couple
over a year ago

Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf

My wife and I regularly mutually masturbate. It’s a huge turn on watching her play with herself and a good way to learn where to touch. It’s also good when both are tired and we don’t want to let each other down but still want the intimacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D has recently found a desire to meet up with another guy and then both wank and cum over my pics together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"D has recently found a desire to meet up with another guy and then both wank and cum over my pics together"
love wanking over your photos

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I did this with a woman twice. She was in the early stages of dating a guy so although she didn't want to "cheat" she would sometimes get insanely horny so....

We both have similar taste in porn so she invited me around to watch together but with the strict instruction that there'd be no fucking.

We'd start off sat on separate sofas wanking, me with my fleshlight and her with her rabbit but soon lost interest in the porn.

We ended up on the same sofa and I took great delight in using her rabbit on her while she stroked my cock with my fleshlight.

It was a long held fantasy and boy did the reality live up to it mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this. Been lucky enough to do it a few times on beaches over the years & also on cam. Always up for more.

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By *eekingjoy777Woman
over a year ago

dorset

Its natural to love watcing peoppe wank men or other women

I love it

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By *limJim35Man
over a year ago

chester

I’ve done it a few times, love to show off. Anyways up for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out my status if you’re a woman and interested in mutual masturbation!xx

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By *netobeextraMan
over a year ago

location varies

It’s something quite different about mutual masturbation. It’s something I shouldn’t enjoy but it is a guilty pleasure

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By *ent1000Man
over a year ago

swanley

An erotic and stimulating pleasure mutual playtime and pleasures

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

I find it such a turn on, when it happens and the thought of it! Just writing this after reading everyone else's comments is giving me flashbacks and more ideas!

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

It's a very intimate act. I think I would need to have a strong connection with the person.

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By *onkeyman72Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Love it, fave porn genre at moment too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done it, i do it. With women in person and done it with men online. Love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

I personally love watching a woman masturbate, it's a huge turn especially if I'm wanking to

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By *ryagain2Man
over a year ago

Morecambe

Love to do it on cam if anyone is interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my fave things as you can see from my vids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miss and I quite often wank in front of each other

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Done it a few times great fun

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By *yresMan
over a year ago

Midland town

It's something I have never tried, but would be willing to give it ago with maybe a couple.

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By *rmrs95Couple
over a year ago

Chester


"I've never tried it but it does sound fun, maybe loose the awkwardness by watching some porn together instead of staring directly at each other? Xx

I've thought about that before, it could be hot.

But it's not what I want. I don't want overly simulated fake orgasms as background music.

I want to hear someone's every moan and gasp and sigh. Greedily drink in that sound of someone lost in their pleasure, the slickness of someone's fingers touching their skin, the growl when someone is close to coming but wants to extend this bliss, this moment with you.

I don't want to watch porn stars lazily acting out sex. I want to see someone's face as they bite their lip in ecstasy. The flushed cheeks as someone's arousal grows, the way their eyes darken and they're lost, consumed by their lust. That dexterity of someone who knows their body well, showing you exactly how they touch themselves when they think about you.

"

I know Exactly what you mean. Me and Mrs play in front of each other, other than that tho, only done it in clubs which is great but you don't get the intimacy

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham


"I've never tried it but it does sound fun, maybe loose the awkwardness by watching some porn together instead of staring directly at each other? Xx

I've thought about that before, it could be hot.

But it's not what I want. I don't want overly simulated fake orgasms as background music.

I want to hear someone's every moan and gasp and sigh. Greedily drink in that sound of someone lost in their pleasure, the slickness of someone's fingers touching their skin, the growl when someone is close to coming but wants to extend this bliss, this moment with you.

I don't want to watch porn stars lazily acting out sex. I want to see someone's face as they bite their lip in ecstasy. The flushed cheeks as someone's arousal grows, the way their eyes darken and they're lost, consumed by their lust. That dexterity of someone who knows their body well, showing you exactly how they touch themselves when they think about you.

"

No doubt I'm one of thousands who would volunteer to do this with you especially if able to vocally encourage each other..your voice is so exceptionally sexy on your public video..many could cum from just your voice alone

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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This thread.

I think sometimes I should step away from the fora when I'm feeling a bit... frisky. Ovulating. Both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread.

I think sometimes I should step away from the fora when I'm feeling a bit... frisky. Ovulating. Both."

This is my favourite thread op. More of this please and thanks

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Yes, love it. A group of guys together watching porn is my ideal scenario for this.

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By *ames_HertsMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

I'd love to give this a go

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Yes and I have done this several times - often in quite public locations

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes done it alot. I have friends who we meet and just watch porn and wank both male and a female friend

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Encouraging each other to cum and helping out being very vocal with it.

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By *estarossa.Woman
over a year ago

Flagrante

Its hot, I have done it.

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By *avin77Man
over a year ago

camberley


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

Yep, done it before and would do it again

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By *anty mateMan
over a year ago

merseyside

Yes I’d give it a go , done a few WhatsApp cam wanks really horny, would love to cam with a couple or anyone who likes to watch

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness

Only done it on Kik but would do it in company if asked. Wanked and sucked a few cocks in meets but that's not the same

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By *iscreetfunonly1Man
over a year ago

York

Same room wanking is great but I also enjoy it on cam too x

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By *eanieMan
over a year ago

Worcester

Never done it but would like to on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, done it before, and would do it again.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"This thread.

I think sometimes I should step away from the fora when I'm feeling a bit... frisky. Ovulating. Both.

This is my favourite thread op. More of this please and thanks "

I'll definitely start posting more of my horny musings after this encouragement.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I'll definitely start posting more of my horny musings after this encouragement. "

Start? You mean there’s more? A lot more?

I’m gonna go get some popcorn. And a comfy chair. And wait right here.

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By *opa SandsCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We mutually wanked each other off in bed on Sunday. Mmmm

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

A lot of fun with the right person

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By *napppaMan
over a year ago

London

Absolutely, it's been something I've been thinking about arranging recently, any takers Meli??

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah Meli I’ve done it before and with women I’ve met from the forums.

It’s very sexy watching a woman masturbate at any time never mind when you’re in front of them doing it too!

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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago

Kingsbridge


"Yep. Trouble is preventing it from escalating, if you’re in person.

On cam it’s great fun. "

Agree it’s great on cam, probably even better in person although I’ve yet to experience it off here. Used to enjoy it with gfs in my youth though!

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Its natural to love watcing peoppe wank men or other women

I love it"

_eekingjoy777, oh yes, ..., especially women,

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I'll definitely start posting more of my horny musings after this encouragement.

Start? You mean there’s more? A lot more?

I’m gonna go get some popcorn. And a comfy chair. And wait right here."

Oh you.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I'll definitely start posting more of my horny musings after this encouragement.

Start? You mean there’s more? A lot more?

I’m gonna go get some popcorn. And a comfy chair. And wait right here.

Oh you. "

Meli, and you, how do you enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is nice to be appreciated being watched on cam,never masterbated with someone in the same room,suppose the extra close view could be even sexier,by all means I am regular on cam in chat rooms love for you to view sometime _eli

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral

I love to do this, Meli love to play for you x

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

Yes and yes something I find very exciting.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

Just another wonderful avenue exploring ourselves, and each other … it’s very erotic - I love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love doing it with Silver

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Sounds good to me, safe, no risk of STIs, not much risk of disappointment, what’s not to like?

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend


"Is it something you've done before?

Would you be interested in doing it with someone you've met from here, eg on a first meet or would it be something you do after a few? What do you get from it?

I love watching people wanking and will happily play with myself as they watch but I'm not sure if it's something I'd do with with someone I don't know well - it's quite an intimate act."

Done it a lot. Love seeing women masturbating, either on cam or, ideally, in real life. Such a huge turn on

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