FabSwingers.com forum: Is my wife cheating

By *igone40 OP Man
over a year ago

harlow

So a couple of years ago my wife wanted to stop taking the pill . So I had the snip all okay,apart from I felt I never satisfied her . The last month I've noticed sexy underwear and she has started taking the pill is she cheating on me ?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Why don’t you just ask her?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Does she know you're on here?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Please reply in forum not DM.

If you're on here essentially cheating I wonder why you are bothered if she is doing the same? Maybe she has a profile on here too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she is, she's either not very good at it, or she's sending you a message...

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By *igone40 OP Man
over a year ago

harlow

Very true ,I don't mind if she is but I'd like her to be true full . She knows I,m on here by the way but says she has no interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give her a sniff next time she gets home late, if she smells of quavers of scampi fries you'll have your answer.

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By *igone40 OP Man
over a year ago

harlow

I hope I can smell something very sexy but I'll probably ask her what's going on

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Probably. But so are you. So you have no right to complain. Or is it jealousy because she’s getting more cock that you ?

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope I can smell something very sexy but I'll probably ask her what's going on "

Do what you've just said, "ask her" not us, how would we know

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By *J5551959Man
over a year ago

Alford

Well, you have a profile on here so i guess you either are or are planning to cheat on her unless she knows.

Perhaps some frank talk between you is what's needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She might be taking it again for women’s reasons. Ya know, periods and that

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Perhaps the question should be, why aren't you cummunicating in the relasionship.

If you come onto a swinger site and ask random strangers if your wife is cheating then, perhaps that should be the red flag.

Surely you have a better relasionship with her then we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she is, so are you being here. So it's a bit hypocritical.

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"So a couple of years ago my wife wanted to stop taking the pill . So I had the snip all okay,apart from I felt I never satisfied her . The last month I've noticed sexy underwear and she has started taking the pill is she cheating on me ?"
ask her but same time tell her your on a swingers site as single male not couple perhaps she might be interested

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"If she is, so are you being here. So it's a bit hypocritical. "
totally agree hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a case for Jeremy Kyle "is my wife cheating on me, even though I'm cheating on her "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does she know you're on here?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, she is swinger and likes this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps the question should be, why aren't you cummunicating in the relasionship.

If you come onto a swinger site and ask random strangers if your wife is cheating then, perhaps that should be the red flag.

Surely you have a better relasionship with her then we do."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She might be taking it again for women’s reasons. Ya know, periods and that "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say so.

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By *hogun300Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Could this be a fantasy and belong in story section?

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By *eastXMan
over a year ago

London

She probably is. And you should be ok about it, as you are here. Plus, you should be happy she is being satisfied again.

If you ever create a couple profile, hit me up, you seem like a good cuckold.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Do you tell her about the meets you arrange on here? If you get any that is

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By *lay 4 uMan
over a year ago

bolton

Don't know what's worse stupid question or people humouring him .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her why she's on the pill, if you don't believe the answer then you know the reason. But talk to her

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Hopefully, go down on her, you may get a sexy surprise. Always gets me in the mood

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

If you are watching her and joining, it is not cheating

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By *utForAdventure26Couple
over a year ago

St Neots

Man posing as single on sex website complains to total strangers that his wife might be doing the same.

Seems sensible.

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

It sounds like that's what you're hoping for.

But if she's cheating behind your back because you don't satisfy her, it isn't going to end well for you, whatever your fantasies.

As others have said, talk to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you asking us and not asking the person who can actually answer your question.. what ever you get here will be assumption, hypothesis and these will answer your questions. So my suggestion ask her

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

Ok, so she knows your on here, meaning that there is at least the potential for you to be having fun with someone else and you say she not interested

... not interested in the fact that you might be able to see someone yourself or the fact your on this site? either way thats a RED FLAG and a reason for her to go elsewhere... you need to be honest with yourself and sit down and have a serious talk about your future together, ask if she would like to join you here and if your not wishing for her to do the same as yourself well....

I wish u both the best, not sure the world of fab is the right place for you to air your dilemma tho.

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By *airyboxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

OP needs to sit down and talk with his wife.

Once that’s done and issues are aired between them they can both move on to addressing them.

People take things like the pill for a variety of reasons

Have you stopped physically communicating with her?

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

If she is fair play to her because she don’t know your on a swinger site so hun if you are good luck to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah she is, can you tell her she left her knickers in my hotel room

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

I am sure i have read this in The Sun last week.

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By *istressdandsubtCouple
over a year ago

caterham

Why is it men are quick to pose blame rather than being honest about their desires

Tou go to clubs or websites and loads of so called single men who can never accomodate and can only take a phone call at certain times .

My guess is they are all married but to embarrassed to say what they want . Dint like the idea of their lady having a sex life as they see them only as a home maker and mother god forbid they have sexual desires

Where as if they were honest they would probably fund that their better halves have as much if not more fantasy and would actually be up for discussion on swinging in whatever scenario they like

Just saying

I opened up and by god has tbe cat become a tiger

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Each to their own

We shouldn’t judge on here x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Maybe she is maybe she isn't. There's more than one reason for taking the pill.

You'd find out if you actually talked to her though so maybe do that rather than asking strangers if she is cheating or not.I know that is a crazy idea to actually communicate with your partner and actually ask them .

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By *usbandandktCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Give her a sniff next time she gets home late, if she smells of quavers of scampi fries you'll have your answer."
absolutely dying at this Lmfao

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

I cannot help notice you are on a swingers/kink website.

Even if she is, it is hardly a new concept.

The fact you advertising it suggests this not a concept that offends or repels you!

Maybe the question should be, if she is, do I support it or is it a deal breaker.

I trust my lady and she has my complete permission and support to do what she likes. I have asked she tells me but I have also made it clear it would not cause offence or upset if she didn't.

Maybe thats the decision you need to make BEFORE you ask her?

ONLY ever ask questions that you know you can handle the answer too.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

If she knows you are on here does she know you are bisexual and have had four meets with three men? If not then honesty and openness is a two way thing. As others have said, ask her why she is on the pill not us.

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford

"If she knows you are on here does she know you are bisexual and have had four meets with three men? If not then honesty and openness is a two way thing. As others have said, ask her why she is on the pill not us. "

Exactly this. Especially if your secretly meeting with other men and potentially increasing the health risks. Honestly goes a long way and more appreciated than most realise.

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By *ickbcMan
over a year ago

failsworth

I had same problem with my girlfriend she was making lots of effort for work everyday then sexy photos of her in underwear and some without started appearing on our laptop she obviously didn’t know they was I was looking through then pops up her boss with just shorts on I thought it’s only few pics off Facebook until I kept going through more pictures of him then naked ones of him many cock pics I thought mine was big but his was massive ones of him with it on the table next to a sky remote and he’s was bigger ??then I get to hidden files I clicked onit and there it was all in front of me all videos of her sucking him off fucking her on desk in work then car sex ones hotels even though it was a upsetting shock it got me so hard watching them at it and how she screamed I didn’t say anything for another few weeks

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Well, I'm no expert, but I think the best thing you should do is check your local paper lonely heart ads for "Do you like piña coladas?"

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By *ulldipadovaMan
over a year ago

Amsterdam

She is probably cheating.

I love to fill married pussies behind husband.

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

"Give her a sniff next time she gets home late, if she smells of quavers of scampi fries you'll have your answer."
Funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don’t you just ask her? "

Sonif she denies it, is he to take that as true and stop thinking it?

Ps yes she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we met her she said she only started after she saw your profile.

Christ she’s insatiable isn’t she?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Sounds like it. Or wanting to. Im sure folks here will say its all your fault mind

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By *elshcouple4000Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'd say so pal

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

I can report that said wife is on her way home now as I've drilled her back doors n tell her il see her same time next week

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By *ock74Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well she's not cheating on me...

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Thank god I was wondering where she'd got to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could this be a fantasy and belong in story section? "

Exactly what I was thinking

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