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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you. "

I prefer this actually as find hotels impersonal.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I usually invite ladies into the back of my car

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I think it's about where the woman feels safe, especialy if you don't know the meet very well.

You have to be careful and if you don't feel safe how are you going to relax into the meet.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield, centralish


"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you. "

Not at all. In fact I'd be more annoyed at the automatic assumption that they could come to mine.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you. "

Depends on how well you know the guy and trust as been built up. As a cuckold couple Dee much prefers to play at the guys house, she can take her time without the worry of me hanging around lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laziness is the 'best' scenario - be thankful it isn't for any sinister reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those types usually think Swingers are desperate for sex and their 'offer' is doing us a favour.

Often a man hundreds of miles away with his cock in his hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Laziness is the 'best' scenario - be thankful it isn't for any sinister reason "

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff


"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you. "

Most men struggle on here as ladies sometimes think they are playing away, that instance is a guarantee the guy isnt. It is difficult for guys on here sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ladies choice...I'm happy to travel or accom....whatever she prefers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you.

Most men struggle on here as ladies sometimes think they are playing away, that instance is a guarantee the guy isnt. It is difficult for guys on here sometimes."

Good point! Interesting thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you. "

Personally I'd be worried about anyone meeting at your personal address. We don't know who or what this other person has done or is like.

Safety should always be a first priority (ex security can't help myself)

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff


"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you.

Most men struggle on here as ladies sometimes think they are playing away, that instance is a guarantee the guy isnt. It is difficult for guys on here sometimes.

Good point! Interesting thought. "

Ultimately its best where the lady feels safe

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

There are 4 basic choices:-

Your place.

My place.

Someone else's place.

Outside.

Someone else's place could be:-

A friend's place.

A hotel.

A club.

Outside can include in a car for dogging.

Fairly certain if you get 10 people in a room and give them a straight choice between any 2 things, you'll come out with a split. There is no right or wrong answer, only preference.

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester


"Is it just me or do you ladies get annoyed with this? To me it just shows laziness. This is about men who just spoken to you. "

So if a guy cannot accommodate it's assumed that he is cheating, yet if he invites a lady to his house it's laziness. Talk about a no win situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you meet a women it should always be somewhere that she feels comfortable meeting a guy for the first time and then go from there hope this makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't often ask anyone back to mine until I met a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I woke up this morning to five messages sent between 2 & 4.30 am all asking if I was free to go round to theirs

It feels like dial a h**ker and happens almost nightly so I understand your point OP.

If I got to know someone then I’d prefer going to theirs but I’d always put safety measures in place first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't often ask anyone back to mine until I met a few times"

Same. I have my profile set to ‘can’t accommodate’ but what it really should say is ‘willing to accommodate after we’ve met a few times in a neutral location’. I had someone who decided just to start turning up to a previous home address without an invite like it was fine and a normal thing to do.

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By *ill and Ben69Couple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

It takes several meets to build that sort of trust.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

I guess the fact he's happy to accommodate at his shows he is in fact single and not playing away, also some I would guess wouldn't want a bloke to no where they lived for safety reasons/crazy stalkers

As someone said it's about feeling comfortable and safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends but I don't mind if a woman comes to my house or if they want me to go to theirs, whatever is easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with my tent it cosy and homely comes with a view

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Always in the back of my van with some old carpet for comfort

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