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By *hawy06 OP   Man
over a year ago

warrington

I had my first mmf on the weekend as being curious I decided to let the man fuk me whilst his missis was sucking me off wow it realy does hurt after 5 mins he had to stop it was hurting I'm still very sore now so I see why woman say no now I realy do but it realy was a good meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a good partner for anal. Someone who takes it slow and uses lots of lube. Done properly it makes me cum more than vaginal sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had my first mmf on the weekend as being curious I decided to let the man fuk me whilst his missis was sucking me off wow it realy does hurt after 5 mins he had to stop it was hurting I'm still very sore now so I see why woman say no now I realy do but it realy was a good meet "

If it hurts he wasn't doing it right !

Preparation , lube, lube, and more lube , till you are used to taking it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, sounds like you jumped straight in, in the heat of the moment. You do need a good partner for your first time(s).

It takes a bit of preparation and consideration. Happy to advise more if you want to pm me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly sounds as though it was 'heat of the moment' moment!

Done properly it is mindblowing.

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By *hawy06 OP   Man
over a year ago

warrington

Cheers for the advice but can it realy be good an mind blowing for a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers for the advice but can it realy be good an mind blowing for a man "

Oh god yes I would rather get fucked than fuck !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers for the advice but can it realy be good an mind blowing for a man

Oh god yes I would rather get fucked than fuck ! "

In the right situation with the right preperation.....oh yes.

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By *onghMan
over a year ago

cardiff


"Cheers for the advice but can it realy be good an mind blowing for a man "

Definitely with the right preparation. As has been mentioned, plenty of lube, preferably a finger or two or small dildo / vibe to get the anus ready for the real thing.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Loads and loads of lube, take it slow at first. Being fucked up the arse while having my cock sucked makes me cum bucketfuls, it feels incredible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mm. One bad experience is enough to put them off doing it again. You were open to the idea, so try it again with an experienced man. Maybe get a toy and practice how you like it. I've managed to convince a few girls to try it and most prefer it over vaginal. Hang in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it hurts he wasn't doing it right !

Preparation , lube, lube, and more lube , till you are used to taking it ! "

Totally agree, the first time I had anal my OH really took his time with me, is not the sort of thing that can be rushed else you will end up having a bad experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me thinks the OP was to eager to get cock up him bum lol

First time anal was always going be tight - next time be more prepared and use masses of good lub

Happy fucking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my first anal today and it did hurt a bit! We used dildos and a vibrating inflatable butt plug to warm me up too! I enjoyed it and would like to do it again!

Maybe a mmf? Any takers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal shouldn't hurt , take your time and lube up...anyone who wants to try it give me a shout...always happy to help people explore anal ...male or female.

You need to trust the person with anal..If they just shove a cock in it can really hurt!!

I occasionally let a guy fuck me but its not often..too many just want to shove it in...Women with strapons can be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree that is is painful, my friend likes lube and she slowly easies my cock in to my balls then she moves to enjoy and cums to the max of 3 joys at a time before the pain sets it.

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By *andy T.V.TV/TS
over a year ago

cardiff

In my experience, you have to make your ass Yours before you make it someone else's.

Use a douch...get really clean, and with lots of lube explore yourself with a finger, then 2....etc...

Get a butt plug and do the same..

Once your familiar with your own ass sharing it will not be painfull, not least of al because you will be relaxed.

If you can do the above with a trusted lover or FB...even better.

Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need a good partner for anal. Someone who takes it slow and uses lots of lube. Done properly it makes me cum more than vaginal sex. "

ditto x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree anal gives me stronger orgasms than vaginal. The 1st time I took control. Had plenty of lube to hand. Got the guy really hard then slowly backed on to him. Once I was totally relaxed nd enjoying it. He took control again.Wow there really is something dirty sexy about anal. Ummm

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By *ndyforfunMan
over a year ago

dudley/tipton

My first anal experience was a bit painful. It was a heat of the moment thing, not planned and with the benefit of hindsight, we should have taken things rather more slowly. However, it was still enjoyable enough to repeat the experience and with a little less haste, more care and loads of lube the second time was great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had my first mmf on the weekend as being curious I decided to let the man fuk me whilst his missis was sucking me off wow it realy does hurt after 5 mins he had to stop it was hurting I'm still very sore now so I see why woman say no now I realy do but it realy was a good meet "

it will hurt the fiest time, im not trying to talk you into doing it again but if you did you would find the more you do it the less it hurt to the point it dont hurt at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers for the advice but can it realy be good an mind blowing for a man "

Even for woman I think it hurts way to much to enjoy no matter how much you lube and how slow you take it. I've loved my ex so much if do anything for him so did anal twice and both time I was do relax and he was so careful over half bottle lube and nope never again. Everybody is different and this is for sure not for me

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

As 2innotts said , if done right it can be fantastic

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

If I remember correctly ( it was a long time ago ) but my first few virginal sexual experiences weren't completely unpainfull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need a good partner for anal. Someone who takes it slow and uses lots of lube. Done properly it makes me cum more than vaginal sex. "

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By *lbecCouple
over a year ago

Whitstable

Me the male have had a woman put her fingers in my bum, but just feels as i am going to shit myself !!!! is this normal ??

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By *erkshireMan123Man
over a year ago

Devizes


"Me the male have had a woman put her fingers in my bum, but just feels as i am going to shit myself !!!! is this normal ??"

I quite like a finger while i get sucked off

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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo


"I quite like a finger while i get sucked off "

Amazing how much better the orgasm can be if the guy enjoys the finger up the bum whilst he's getting sucked off. Someone recently said to me that he'd not managed to go to completion with a BJ in over 20yrs until I did it and inserted a finger at the same time ... mmmmmmmm really sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its hurting like others have said its not right..

Plenty of lube and the first initial time can be a bit uncomfy to start but soon gets better if done right.

You will enjoy it if you take your time and use the lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had my first anal today and it did hurt a bit! We used dildos and a vibrating inflatable butt plug to warm me up too! I enjoyed it and would like to do it again!

Maybe a mmf? Any takers?"

Surprised you'd be interested in an MMF when your profile says you're straight. Unfortunately, you are outside our age parameters otherwise we could be interested in helping you with this and for you to help us too as BamBam is quite used to my dildo, vibes and strap-on and is now wanting to try the real thing.

Why not try a Bi-night at one of the clubs (Monday at Chams or Thursday at Xtasia)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took an 8 inch cock when i lost my anal virginity........but i had been practicing with my 6 inch vibrator for quite a while

As others say, plenty of lube, in fact loads and loads if you have never had more than a finger up there......and try to relax (it worked for Frankie)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need a good partner for anal. Someone who takes it slow and uses lots of lube. Done properly it makes me cum more than vaginal sex. "

Yes I agree and it does the same for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Took an 8 inch cock when i lost my anal virginity........but i had been practicing with my 6 inch vibrator for quite a while

As others say, plenty of lube, in fact loads and loads if you have never had more than a finger up there......and try to relax (it worked for Frankie) "

Definitely takes time for things to become accustomed don't it. A quick spit and shove session is a bit full-on if you're unaccustomed like's been said - best to work up to it than it be a painful shock with aftereffects

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe that spiky condom would have gave it way that itd hurt

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

Ooooch I think you kind of rushed in there, need lots of experimenting by yourself and to be relaxed and lots of lube .... You can't have to much lube .... And lots of finger play or slim toys first before the big thing. It also helps for the first time to be with someone you trust and have seen before and you've had a conversation about it.

If this is something you really wanted to do then I do feel for you and I wouldn't let this experience put you off, just take it a little slower, it really can be amazing. Good luck. As far as being a little site now .... Try a little anusol.

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood


"Me the male have had a woman put her fingers in my bum, but just feels as i am going to shit myself !!!! is this normal ??"

That's just a momentary reflex action and yes is quite normal. When you feel that reflex just even out your breathing and relax your sphincter .... Hey presto it goes and thereafter it's awesome

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood


"You need a good partner for anal. Someone who takes it slow and uses lots of lube. Done properly it makes me cum more than vaginal sex.

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