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Indecent proposal

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By *ay and geeta OP   Couple
over a year ago

bexleyheath

Recently had a indecent proposal

Basically a person has offered mrs a job, which is quite well paid in finance.

His paying 30% more then she would get, plus other perks

Deal is he sleeps with her once a week on permanent basis, the gentlemen in question is older wealthy and is very genuine in his proposal…

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

and how do you both feel about it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a giant world of shit waiting to happen. Avoid.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

tell him to fuck off,,

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By *ollys69Man
over a year ago

Hampshire

Probably already done it if that’s the proposal lol your on fab, plenty of verifications. Get it done

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By *omsubdevonCouple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

It's not about sex. It's about power and control. Avoid like the plague.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the nature of the job inbetween shags? If it's a good job that brings work satisfaction then sign that contract

Mrs C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am getting bored in my job any offers!

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Report him.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Recipe for disaster in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds great as a fantasy, but the reality could be a whole lot different.

Working together, and weekly intimacy can create confusion, be that a building of emotions, real or misunderstood, or it can create a toxic atmosphere, feeling it's become a duty.

Short term, it could be a little fun, though still not without risk.

Long term, more risk than glory.

Is it easy to get out of this contract/agreement?

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By *educing_EmCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

I have so many questions.Is she sexually attracted to him? Obviously there's a contract for this job...does it/will it mention the sexual aspect of the deal? Would this deal lead to him wanting/demanding more and more from her over time that she isn't comfortable with? This situation could be great if the above mentioned weren't an issue but I feel that it could be a potential disaster. Only my opinion,it's ye're lives and only you two can make that decision

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

My opinion, for what it’s worth, is it’s a big no. Lots of trouble in store.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no no

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

is it that robert redford again scoundrel,,

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By *ay and geeta OP   Couple
over a year ago

bexleyheath

It’s profession job and her career path, what will normally take a few more years

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By *ay and geeta OP   Couple
over a year ago

bexleyheath

Have said yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following for updates. Be interesting to see how this goes!

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By *ay and geeta OP   Couple
over a year ago

bexleyheath

Thank you darling , professional contract with 12 % pension contribution and lot more etc

We have already said yes

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"Thank you darling , professional contract with 12 % pension contribution and lot more etc

We have already said yes "
,,, good luck..

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By *ay and geeta OP   Couple
over a year ago

bexleyheath

Thanks, yes you’re right it is that scenario what you said, but it won’t be working underneath him in anyway. Contact with company not him

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By *ay and geeta OP   Couple
over a year ago

bexleyheath

Yes will do

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Why ask us then?

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By *ay and geeta OP   Couple
over a year ago

bexleyheath


"What's the nature of the job inbetween shags? If it's a good job that brings work satisfaction then sign that contract

Mrs C "
hopefully satisfaction as well, job is in finance

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Does it not worry you that someone could find out and she gets labelled as someone sleeping her way to the top?

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By *ay and geeta OP   Couple
over a year ago

bexleyheath


"Why ask us then? "
did have nerves about and generally cautious

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

You would have thought Robert Redford could retire now. The dirty manipulative bastard.

Ed

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"You would have thought Robert Redford could retire now. The dirty manipulative bastard.

Ed "
,, hes a fkn shit house

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

I think the question is

"Is your wife a professional lady of the night"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully, things turn out just right.

We all need a break, this could be it.

Fingers crossed.

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By *rystalsswingCouple
over a year ago

Galway / Midlands / West


"Recently had a indecent proposal

Basically a person has offered mrs a job, which is quite well paid in finance.

His paying 30% more then she would get, plus other perks

Deal is he sleeps with her once a week on permanent basis, the gentlemen in question is older wealthy and is very genuine in his proposal…"

'Gentleman' in question?? I'd rather eat beans on toast!

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By *ay and geeta OP   Couple
over a year ago

bexleyheath


"Hopefully, things turn out just right.

We all need a break, this could be it.

Fingers crossed. "
thank you hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck

Hope it goes as you hope x

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By *ay and geeta OP   Couple
over a year ago

bexleyheath


"Does it not worry you that someone could find out and she gets labelled as someone sleeping her way to the top?"

Not really ? How would they find out , could same the same if people found out we are swinging etc

Mostly people mind there own business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So technically shed be a pro*titute? Ad rather be skint

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By *J_SpiceyCouple
over a year ago

Kinky Kings Lynn

Intrigued with such a dilemma

The film Indecent Proposal questions what would you do for money.

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By *irtyKittenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

From reading your profile you want a sugar daddy.

Which is what this is basically.

If your wife falls in love with him you will lose her.

If he gets bored your wife will need to get a new.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe


"Does it not worry you that someone could find out and she gets labelled as someone sleeping her way to the top?

Not really ? How would they find out , could same the same if people found out we are swinging etc

Mostly people mind there own business "

What if it doesn't work out between your lady and the boss? Guys talk sometimes...

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By *ay and geeta OP   Couple
over a year ago

bexleyheath


"Does it not worry you that someone could find out and she gets labelled as someone sleeping her way to the top?

Not really ? How would they find out , could same the same if people found out we are swinging etc

Mostly people mind there own business

What if it doesn't work out between your lady and the boss? Guys talk sometimes..."

His got more to lose so he wouldn’t talk , his a senior executive, respected and mrs said she will be working in a different unit, but understand what your saying will let you know how it goes ! Thanks

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Sounds like an absolute disaster if I'm honest and I don't care how much they say they will pay if I was obligated to sleep with someone just to do a job with better pay I'd pass. Sounds manlipulative and a power trip for the guy. And something I would avoid as it could well end up a complete disaster.

And while I enjoy sex,to be expected to sleep with someone because they are paying my wage is not something I would ever want to do personally.

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

Likely will end in tears. Something is not right about this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Staff appraisals with HR will be awesome..

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

Tantamount to prostitution really.

Well someone had to say it

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As the ‘arrangement’ is between yourselves it isn’t contracted so it could end at any time, as and when he pleases. Wouldn’t you rather keep professional and private lives separate and advance your career by earning it in a professional manner? This isn’t the same as having an office fling as he is basically paying you to sleep with him (or the company is) which if you had been attracted to him you might have been doing that already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tantamount to prostitution really.

Well someone had to say it "

Yep, clearly everything has a price these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tantamount to prostitution really.

Well someone had to say it "

I already did ^^ lol

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Red flag... Run... It won't end well....

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

30% is not enough for that kind of job

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"As the ‘arrangement’ is between yourselves it isn’t contracted so it could end at any time, as and when he pleases. Wouldn’t you rather keep professional and private lives separate and advance your career by earning it in a professional manner? This isn’t the same as having an office fling as he is basically paying you to sleep with him (or the company is) which if you had been attracted to him you might have been doing that already."

The arrangement wouldn’t be contracted but surely the work contract would be ? Meaning they could end it any time without losing the salary….

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Does he know you swing and does your Mrs like him and Want to ?

I'd personally say a no and think it's a bit creepy to be honest .if it goes wrong will her job be safe too !.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Dunno. On the one hand, if it's a good career move and the pay is good, makes sense to sign up for it. OTOH, for me whenever sex has led to an upward move (career or pay) it's been on my terms and me initiating it (yes, unpopular opinion but I've used sex and am not ashamed of it). This seems different. So weight it out. I don't see any moral issues though people will give it a moral flavour so be prepared.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

No matter how you dress it up, it is prostituting your partner. He'll just expect more and more and then what?

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By *owestoft ManMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Good Topic Discussion.

When I was married and swinging we had a number of similar propositions, some we just laughed at and some we took some time to check out. We never actually took up any propositions but we would have no issues if others did. There was one when the Ex was just starting Uni and the job offer had nothing to do with her chosen line of profession. But we got to chat and meet the guy. It was explained very clearly to him that if we took his invite there were some rules to follow. Firstly I was in charge lol and had to meet with him occasionally to make sure everything was still good. Secondly if she said no to an occasion he had to accept it. Thirdly if anyone said no more then everything stops and there would be no fall back/out from the current work. He knew my background very well and knew what could happen lol if things went sour. It ended up with her meeting him on occasions for sex behind his wife's back and all went well. But we opted out of the Job prospect.

I suppose if you have done your research on him and both of you have met him and put the rules that you are wanting down and agreed then there is no problem. But also be wise and don't fall into some trap you can't get out of.

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"As the ‘arrangement’ is between yourselves it isn’t contracted so it could end at any time, as and when he pleases. Wouldn’t you rather keep professional and private lives separate and advance your career by earning it in a professional manner? This isn’t the same as having an office fling as he is basically paying you to sleep with him (or the company is) which if you had been attracted to him you might have been doing that already.

The arrangement wouldn’t be contracted but surely the work contract would be ? Meaning they could end it any time without losing the salary…. "

You’d be surprised at how quickly the position could become surplus to requirements and suddenly you’re persona non grata…..

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

How did this novel situation come about?

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By *ilver Fox 60Man
over a year ago

Southport

You are joking??

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By *aughty Nas xxxMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Is this the same as the last indecent proposal you got or a new one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this the same as the last indecent proposal you got or a new one? "

Ahh green tick is very handy

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By *ave HighlandMan
over a year ago

Inverness

I think you have done the right thing. This sort of deal is a lot more common than people think. I used to work in the theatre and lots of girls were happy to have sex for a part. Hurts nobody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of questions to be raised about this proposal.

What if your wife doesn’t feel like having sex

What if he want more than once a week

What happens when you go on holiday , does he get catch up sessions

Sounds too good to be true, and if that’s the case. Avoid

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